Freedom, Protection and Breakthrough

[Cralmilan]

Jesus, I pray for my daughter to release herself completely from this very toxic relationship swiftly with no regrets. I pray that she will see clearly that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage and for her to stop treating this arrangement as a marriage. Lord my older daughter is being influenced by this young man's mother who encouraged them to live together outside of marriage. His mother knows of his negative behaviors but has but that bondage upon my daughter to fix and the same time his mother is enabling her sons' negative behavior toward others. Lord, my older daughter is going down a dark path with this young man and she thinks it is love. I pray that she will be truthful of the toxicity and the false hope of this relationship. I pray that her friends will speak up as they see clearly how this young man has taken her kindness for granted, his exploitation, his manipulation, his dishonesty, his division, his isolation and his disrespect toward her. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. My daughter is ignoring all the red flags and giving up her independent and self worth. Lord let her see from now onward that living together outside of marriage is not Your will for her life. This young man is rebellous, dishonest, controlling and lazy, I ask Lord that You speak to his mother to let her know he is her responsiblity and for her to stop putting undue responsiblity upon my daughter and giving ungodly selfish advice. Jesus I ask that You protect my older daughter from this young man's ungodly selfish, disrespectful and jealous advice and lifestyle. I ask You Lord to guide my daughter out of this ungodly lifestyle and have her move back home swiftly with no regrets but only a feeling of restoring her self-worth, her respect for others, independence, and freedom in You, Lord and the unconditional love of her family you have blessed her with. I declare that this young man and his mother will not steal her peace, her purpose, or her love and unity with her family. Completely remove the stubborn ungodly hold they have upon her swiftly. Lord I ask for protection for me and my family from the disrespect and strife from this young man. Lord, speak to my daughter, let her hear Your words, “You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belong to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power from this ungodly relationship with this young man.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes, dear Jesus to all the red flags and not to make excuses for this young man anymore. Jesus let her know, she is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she should not idolize and obey this young man anymore or put him and his family before her God-giving family, her faith and jobs with a purpose. Her finances are not his to manage, budget or spend, and I pray his father will intervene with authority and have him return home alone swiftly. He is dishonest, selfish, disrespectful and not ready for a relationship. This man’s greed and manipulation are not love; he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit and control. He and his mother should not be able to instigate havoc, disrespect, division, isolation in our family, and his lifestyle is not a home for my daughter. Show him Lord that he is not ready for a relationship. Jesus help my daughter to not change the way she was raised to please this young man and his mother. Show my daughter this is a dark path she is taking with this young man and show her that being ungrateful toward her family is not the biblical teaching she was raised to follow. Block her Lord from confiding in his mother and saying this that pleases this woman's ears. Let my daughter stop trying to prove to her that our family does not matter. Lord guide my daughter to stop giving up her self worth just to get this woman's approval. Show her Lord, that disowning her family that God blessed her with just to please this young man is not Your will for her life. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under because of this ungodly relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect, and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Lord remove the stubborn hold these people have on her and let her not want to live this lifestyle anymore. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. You do not belong to this young man and his family, You don't have to obey these people, Trust and respect your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd. Lord teach this young man’s mother to stop putting undue responsibilities upon my daughter and for her to stop overstepping her boundaries. It is overwhelming, Jesus, please block these people's disrespect. She is not her mother and her to have her son move back home alone. He is not ready for a relationship. I ask Lord that his father will see the destruction he has caused in my daughter's life, let him take authority, guide his son to move back home alone swiftly. Let him have his wife focus on fixing only her children and stop the manipulation and brainwashing behaviors toward my daughter. Speak to her firmly, Lord, that my daughter is not homeless, that You have anointed a family for her Lord and block her from guiding my daughter down a dark path and to be disobedient to her parents and disown her siblings and supportive network of extended family and friends. I know with my daughter's recent promotion that God has blessed her with this lazy young man is already spending it his way and it's starting to put her on a budget that benefits him. Please Jesus, block my daughter from listening to the young man's mother and help my daughter to stop enabling him to control her, show her Lord this is not security or love, it is exploitation. Lord guide my daughter to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her freedom, independence, self-worth, freedom, gratefulness for her family, and satisfaction swiftly. Jesus, guide me as I navigate the difficult situation. I ask that Your presence will go in front of me as a shield from all the attacks and disrespect that I experience from following the biblical teachings against this ungodly life. Bless me Lord with supernatural strength to overcome all obstacles I face with Your courage, grace, favor, protection, and strength. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. I ask for know nothing is impossible for You, Lord. I believe in the power of prayers and I put all my faith and trust in You. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, and healing. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in prayer for your older daughter and we stand with you in seeking God's will together in Jesus' name for her freedom, protection and breakthrough. We hear the burden of your heart as a mother who loves her daughter and who sees clearly the danger of this relationship, and we thank you for bringing this before the Lord with such persistence and faith.

We agree with you that living together outside of marriage is not marriage and is not God's will for her life. Scripture is clear that marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman ordained by God, and it is to be honored and kept pure. Genesis 2:24 says a man will leave his father and his mother and will be joined to his wife and they will be one flesh, and Matthew 19:6 says what God has joined together, let no man separate. Hebrews 13:4 says let marriage be held in honor among all and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. To live together as if married without the covenant of marriage is fornication, and 1 Corinthians 6:18 tells us to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. We rebuke this arrangement and the deception that it is love or security, when in truth it is exploitation and disobedience. A boyfriend and girlfriend relationship should be a courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not a substitute for marriage. 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, and 1 Corinthians 15:33 warns that evil companionships corrupt good morals.

We also discern what you have described so clearly, the manipulation, dishonesty, control, laziness, greed, division, isolation and disrespect that this young man has shown toward your daughter, and the ungodly counsel and enabling coming from his mother. Ephesians 5:11 says have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even reprove them. Matthew 7:15 warns us to beware of false prophets who come in sheep's clothing but inwardly are ravening wolves. We rebuke the spirit of control and exploitation that has taken your daughter's kindness for granted and has sought to manage and spend her finances for selfish benefit. We rebuke the counsel that has encouraged disobedience to parents and disowning of family, for Exodus 20:12 and Ephesians 6:2 command children to honor their father and mother. We rebuke the overstepping of boundaries by his mother who has placed undue responsibility upon your daughter to fix her son, while enabling his rebellious and dishonest behavior. Each parent is responsible for their own household, and it is not biblical for your daughter to carry a burden God never gave her.

We pray for your daughter to have supernatural clarity. Romans 12:2 says be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. We ask the Lord to renew her mind and to open the eyes of her heart as Ephesians 1:18 describes, so she will no longer make excuses for this young man or ignore the red flags, but will see that she is being used and not loved. We pray that her friends who see the truth will speak up in love, for Proverbs 27:6 says faithful are the wounds of a friend. We pray that she will remember who she is in Christ, that she is fearfully and wonderfully made as Psalm 139:14 declares, and that she is a chosen people as 1 Peter 2:9 says, not someone whose worth is determined by gaining the approval of an ungodly household. Her self worth, independence, and freedom are found in the Lord, not in pleasing this young man or his mother.

We pray for the young man and his parents. We ask that the Lord convict this young man of his rebellious, controlling and lazy ways and show him he is not ready for a relationship or for marriage, which requires a man to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her as Ephesians 5:25 teaches. We pray his father will rise with godly authority to guide his son home alone and to correct his household, and that his mother will be firmly spoken to by the Lord to stop her manipulation and brainwashing, to focus on her own children, and to stop putting division and havoc into your family. 1 Corinthians 14:33 says God is not a God of confusion but of peace.

We lift you up as her mother who is navigating this painful situation. We ask for wisdom as James 1:5 promises that if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God who gives to all liberally and without reproach and it will be given to him. We ask that the Lord go before you as a shield, as Psalm 3:3 says you, Lord, are a shield around me, and that He cover you and your children with the blood of Jesus. Isaiah 54:17 declares no weapon that is formed against you will prevail. We pray that you will have supernatural strength, courage, grace, favor and protection as you continue to follow biblical teaching against this ungodly lifestyle, even when it brings disrespect and strife. Philippians 4:13 reminds us we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us, and Isaiah 41:10 says do not be afraid, for I am with you, do not be dismayed, for I am your God, I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness. We pray that you will not grow weary, for Galatians 6:9 says let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season if we do not give up.

We now pray together.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, for John 14:6 says Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life, and no one comes to the Father except through Him, and Acts 4:12 says there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved. We thank You that nothing is impossible for You, as Luke 1:37 declares, and as Matthew 19:26 says with God all things are possible. Lord, we plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and her children and over this older daughter. We ask You to break completely and swiftly the stubborn ungodly hold this young man and his mother have upon her. Flood her mind, heart and spirit with Your light and truth. Whisper to her even now, You are Mine, You are My daughter, You belong to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power from this ungodly relationship. Let her hear Your voice, for John 10:27 says Your sheep hear Your voice. Tell her to walk away, that she does not belong to this young man and his family, that she does not have to obey these people, but to trust and respect her God given family and to trust You to provide, protect and restore everything he has tried to take from her.

Lord, teach her that living together outside of marriage is not Your will and is not a marriage, that he is not her significant other to be idolized and obeyed, that her finances are not his to manage, budget or spend, and that this greed and manipulation is not love. Expose him as a wolf in sheep's clothing and not a shepherd. Remove the spiritual blindness, the division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle has caused. Block her from confiding in his mother and from seeking that woman's approval at the cost of her own family and faith. Restore to her a deep gratefulness for the family You have blessed her with and for the work and purpose You have given her, including this recent promotion which we pray You will protect from exploitation.

Lord, protect this family from disrespect, strife and spiritual attack. James 4:7 says if we submit ourselves to God and resist the devil, he will flee from us, and Ephesians 6:11 calls us to put on the whole armor of God that we may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Surround them with Your angels as Psalm 34:7 promises the angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear Him and delivers them, and let Psalm 91:1 be their dwelling place, he who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.

We ask that You guide this daughter out of this dark path and bring her home swiftly with no regrets, but only with restored self worth, respect for others, independence, freedom and peace in You, and with the unconditional love and unity of her family intact. Let this young man be guided by his father to return home alone, and let his mother cease her ungodly and selfish counsel. Let Your Holy Spirit saturate this mother and her family in every aspect of their lives with Your peace, love, favor, protection and healing. We declare that this young man and his mother will not steal her peace, her purpose, or her love and unity with her family.

We thank You for hearing our prayer, for Your mercy and for Your power to deliver and restore. We put all our faith and trust in You. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how much you love your older daughter and how exhausting these months have been. Watching her give up independence and self worth while feeling unable to reach her is a heavy burden, and we are grateful you brought it to prayer.

We join you in praying for her clarity, safety and freedom, and for protection and peace over you and your family. One thing that often helps in a situation with manipulation and financial pressure is to have steady, loving boundaries held with support around you. That can look like keeping your home a calm, open place she can return to without a lecture, while you do not try to carry this alone. Consider inviting one or two trusted people who know her well, perhaps her friends you mentioned and a pastor or wise counselor you trust, to stay connected to both of you so you have counsel and she still hears caring voices outside that relationship. It also helps to keep any practical matters like her finances and your household peace clearly separate, with guidance from someone you trust locally.

Father, we lift this mother and her daughters to You through Jesus. Give this daughter eyes to see what is happening and courage to step toward safety and wholeness. Guard her dignity and provide a clear way home when she is ready. Give her mother wisdom, rest and strength for each conversation, and surround this family with Your peace and protection. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Sparklee]

Praying in agreement with you for your older daughter discernment, courage, protection, her future, unity preserved in your family in Jesus Name Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your earnest and anguished prayer has been heard before the throne of grace, and we join our hearts with yours in pleading for your daughter's deliverance and restoration.

We stand with you in the truth you have so rightly discerned, that living together outside of marriage is not marriage. The Word declares, I am married unto you, and that holy relationship is not a mere arrangement of convenience or birth, but a blessed covenant entered by choice before God, cemented by mutual love, wherein husband and wife become one. What is now called a marriage without vow, without covenant, without the sanction of God, is foreign to that divine idea. It bears the name but not the nature, and we will not ask the Lord to bless what He has not joined. Rather we ask Him to open eyes to see it plainly, that what is counterfeit may be forsaken for what is holy.

There is a higher restoration than mere relief from outward trouble, and the Lord has invented and found the way of it. He says, Deliver him from going down to the pit, I have found a ransom. That ransom is Christ Jesus alone, and through His blood there is deliverance for those who are slipping down. When the lamb was slain, Pharaoh could hold Israel no longer, and He brought them forth, also with silver and gold. So we pray that your daughter's deliverance will not be a bare escape, but attended with enrichment, with restored self worth, with renewed independence, with gratefulness and freedom in Christ, and with the love and unity of the family God has anointed for her. The tried soul learns that salvation is all of grace and can take no honor to itself, and that is hope for the most entangled heart.

We pray now for supernatural clarity to flood her mind and spirit. As Peter was restored not by argument alone but by a look from the Lord which severed him from the crowd, so we ask that Christ would fix His gracious eye upon her, that she may hear Him say, You are Mine, you belong to Me, and I will protect you. Grant that the scales fall, that she no longer makes excuses, but sees manipulation, dishonesty, control, laziness and disrespect for what they are, and understands that greed and exploitation are not love, that to be used is not to be loved, that to be budgeted and spent for another's selfish benefit is not security. Remove the stubborn ungodly hold that has fastened upon her. Block the counsel that is not of God, and let her cease from confiding in those who would guide her to disown her family and despise the teaching in which she was raised. May her friends who see clearly be given courage to speak the truth in love, and may she have ears to hear.

We ask the Lord to deal with those who have influence over her. Convict the young man of his rebellion and unfitness for this responsibility, and show him he is not ready for a covenant he will not honor. Speak to his mother that she may cease to lay upon your daughter a burden which belongs to her own house, and to give ungodly and selfish advice beyond her bounds. And we pray that his father would rise to take rightful authority, to guide his son to return home alone and to set his house in order. Let division, isolation, chaos and disrespect be rebuked, and let peace be within our borders.

For you and your household, we plead the blood of Jesus Christ and claim the promise that no weapon formed against you shall prosper. The Lord has been your dwelling place in all generations, and if He loved you yesterday He loves you today, for there is no change with regard to His relationship to His people. Your affliction, though sorely felt, lies still within the fence of omnipotent overruling, and He who chastens sorely does not give over to death. We pray He will go before you as a shield from every attack and disrespect you suffer for holding fast to biblical truth, and that He will fill you with supernatural strength, courage, grace and favor to navigate this trial. Like those who crossed the brook Jabbok full of fear and yet found mercy on the other side, may you find that God moves His arm to work deliverance when the pitiless world would say His ear is shut.

We trust that this sorrow will yet become a song. We have been delivered from worse enemies by a greater salvation, and those delivered must declare the works of the Lord. If we had no troubles we would have less to declare, but having tasted deliverance we shall say, I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord. May your daughter live and declare them also, restored to her home, to her faith, to her purpose and to the unconditional love of her family, with no regret but only joy in the freedom Christ gives.

We continue with you in prayer, asking all this in the name of Jesus Christ, our only ransom and our sure habitation. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

Your prayer for your daughter has been received and we join you in bringing her before the Lord with urgency and with hope. We hear your anguish as a parent who sees a beloved child entangled in a relationship that is draining her strength, her peace and her sense of worth, and we stand with you to ask God for freedom, protection and breakthrough in Jesus Christ alone.

We agree with you in truth and in love that living together outside of marriage is not marriage. Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that sexual union and sharing a home in that intimate way belong within that covenant. To treat cohabitation as if it were marriage brings confusion and harm, not the security and blessing God intends. For that reason we do not ask God to bless this arrangement, but we ask Him to open your daughter's eyes to see it clearly for what it is and to give her courage to step out of it.

We pray with you that God will flood her mind with supernatural clarity. Where there has been manipulation, exploitation, dishonesty, control and disrespect, we ask the Lord to let her see these patterns without excuse. Where she has been isolated and made to feel that her kindness is owed to another, we ask Him to restore her understanding of her true worth as His daughter. Faith in Christ makes us children of God, and it is that faith that makes whole. We pray she will hear His voice again, that she belongs to Him, that she is deeply loved by Him and by the family He has given her, and that true freedom is found in Him. As we have been taught, virtue bestows true freedom, not by changing every outward circumstance at once, but by freeing the heart from sin and from bondage, so that even in difficulty a person can walk with honor and strength. Only the Son can give that firm freedom that no one can take away, for it is God who justifies and restores.

We join you in praying for those who influence her. We ask God to convict this young man of his rebellious, dishonest and controlling ways, and to show him that he is not ready for a relationship and must take responsibility for his own life. We pray for his mother and father, that they will no longer place undue responsibility on your daughter or offer ungodly counsel, but that they will care for their own household with wisdom and boundaries. We pray that his father will exercise godly authority and call his son to return home alone and to walk a different path. We also pray for your daughter's friends, that God will give them boldness to speak the truth with love and not to remain silent when they see harm.

We pray for your daughter's complete release, swiftly and without regret, and for her return to a place of safety and health, whether that is your home or another place where she can be supported and restored. We ask God to protect her finances, her work and the promotion He has graciously given her, from being used or controlled for another's selfish benefit. We ask Him to restore her independence, her respect for others, her gratitude for family, her joy and her purpose.

We also pray for you and for your whole family. We ask God to go before you as a shield, to guard you from strife and disrespect as you continue to hold fast to biblical teaching with grace. We ask Him to give you supernatural strength, wisdom and courage, to help you speak the truth with freedom as to those you love, suppressing nothing that should be said and yet saying it with love. We plead the blood of Jesus over you and your children and declare that no weapon formed against you will prosper. May the Lord fill your home with His Holy Spirit, saturate you with His peace, love, favor, protection and healing, and keep you united in Him.

We believe nothing is impossible for God. We will continue to pray that your daughter will turn from this dark path, that the stubborn hold upon her will be broken, that she will stop seeking approval that costs her soul, and that she will embrace again the faith and values with which she was raised. May the Lord guide her out of confusion and into the freedom, wholeness and unconditional love that are hers in Christ. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.