Dealing with Heartbreak

[Anonymous]

I am a young man and I have not had much dating experience and never knew too many women over the course of my life. Last year, I had prayed to the Lord to send me someone and the very next day I met a woman who I had much in common with and shared many wants in life and values with, including faith. After being friends for a few months, I asked her out and we dated for about a month. During that time, I succumbed to temptation and thought terrible things, looked up those terrible things on the internet, and acted out on them (a horrible habit I had been struggling with on and off with since I was around 12). In my shame, I prayed to God, asking that if there was any chance I would potentially harm her through my sin, to please take her away from me. The very next time the two of us spoke after that, she broke things off. She had told me that she had been praying about the relationship as well and felt compelled to end things before we became too attached to one another because of a few reasons that her prayer revealed to her. None of those reasons were what I had experienced, so I believe the Lord was being merciful to me by sparing me the shame of her knowing. That was several months ago and in the meantime, we still remained friends, but I had been hanging on to an underlying hope that she might come back to me someday if I can improve myself in the eyes of God and make myself worthy of a second chance. Recently however, she began seeing someone else who I admit is a better man than I am who appears to have caught her interest more than I ever did. I still believe that the Lord sent her to me, but not as a direct answer to my prayer, but as a lesson to be taught or a test to go through. I would like to pray to ask the Lord to take away the emotional attachment to her that I have neglected to let go of. Waiting this long had only prolonged and increased the pain. I would like to ask the Lord that I will learn every lesson He intended for me to learn through this and that I will never forget these lessons. A wife who I love and family of my own that I am worthy enough to care for were always things I had been in want of more than any material possession, and I feel like my sins condemn me to a life of solitude and a lonely death. The thought of her coming back is nice, but I don't really even want to entertain such a thought anymore because it is very unlikely to come true and will only lengthen my discomfort. I know that my experience is common among young men, but I am struggling to deal with it because she was the first girl I ever went out with and I have never met one that I had so much in common with. The fact that she appeared right after I prayed for someone is also very disheartening. At the time I am writing this, we are still friends and I would very much like to remain friends with her. Because of the way God had our paths cross, she will always be very special to me. But to become a genuinely good friend to her, I must let go of all desire and all thoughts of being anything more than just a friend to her. I thank you all, and God bless you for what you do.

 

[Articles]

Let us first acknowledge your pain and heartbreak. It is evident that you are hurting, and we want to assure you that God sees your distress and hears your cries. We are called to bear one another's burdens, and we will do that with you in this difficult time.

Firstly, we want to address the issue of sin and repentance. You mentioned succumbing to temptation and indulging in sinful thoughts and actions. It is important to remember that God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness when we confess them to Him 1 John 1:9 WEB. We encourage you to continually repent and turn away from these sins, trusting in God's forgiveness and His power to help you overcome them. We pray that God will give you the strength to resist temptation and live a life that honors Him.

Regarding your relationship with this woman, it is clear that you both share a common faith and values. However, it is crucial to understand that God's timing and purposes may not align with our own. While you may have felt that she was an answer to prayer, it is possible that God had other plans. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.

We commend you for seeking God's will in this situation and for wanting to remain friends with her. However, we must caution you against harboring hidden motives or hopes for a romantic relationship. It is important to genuinely accept and embrace the friendship without any underlying expectations. This might mean taking a step back and allowing God to work in both of your hearts.

Now, let us address the issue of salvation and the name of Jesus Christ. You mentioned praying to the Lord, but it is essential to acknowledge that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 WEB. We encourage you to place your faith in Jesus Christ alone, for He is the only way to the Father.

As for your desire for a wife and family, we want to assure you that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Do not be discouraged by this setback, but trust that God is working everything out for your good and His glory. Seek first God's kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well Matthew 6:33 WEB.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our brother in his time of need. Lord, we ask that You would heal his broken heart and bind up his wounds. Help him to trust in Your timing and Your purposes, even when they are difficult to understand. Give him the strength to resist temptation and to live a life that honors You. Help him to embrace this friendship with genuine love and acceptance, without any hidden motives or expectations. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to him in a deeper way, that he may know the love and forgiveness found only in Jesus Christ. Give him a vision for the future and a hope that transcends his current circumstances. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go Joshua 1:9 WEB. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.

 

[Abundantly blessed]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, feeling your heartache. It's like a part of you is missing, isn't it? We understand. But remember, God is close. He's right there, holding you, even when it feels like everything's falling apart.

We've been thinking about your situation, and we want to encourage you to focus on the lessons God might be teaching you through this. It's hard, we know. It's like trying to see the sun through the rain, but it's there. Trust that God has a purpose in all this.

We've been praying for you, asking God to comfort you, to help you let go of the attachment you still feel, and to fill that empty space in your heart with His love. We've been asking Him to give you peace, to help you trust in His timing, and to show you the path He has for you.

We want to remind you of something Jesus said, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted" (Matthew 5:4). God sees your pain, and He's there to comfort you. Keep trusting in Him, even when it's hard. He's got you.

And hey, we're here too. We're not going anywhere. Let's keep walking this road together, one step at a time.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you dear God for all you do for all of us. Thank you for loving and protecting us all. All glory and honor belongs to you Father God! I lift this prayer up in your glory and ask that you grant it as per your perfect will. In Jesus name we pray. Amen

 

[Windwold]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Isaac Samuel Lubwama]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother, and we are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you. If God has already granted you the grace to move forward and heal, we would be blessed to hear your praise report. If you are still walking through this trial, we want to reassure you that we are here to pray with you and for you, as long as it takes.

We pray that God will continue to reveal Himself to you during this time and that you will experience His comfort and peace in a very real way. We ask God to help you let go of the emotional attachment you still have, and that He would bring healing to your heart. We pray that you will know that you are worthy of love and a family of your own, not because of your own righteousness, but because of the righteousness of Christ.

We also pray for your friendship with this young woman. We ask God to help you be the friend He desires you to be towards her, and that He would bless your friendship in a way that brings glory to His name.

Please update us on how you are doing, whether it be a praise report or a continuing request for prayer. We are committed to praying with you and for you. May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ.