My boyfriend may have prostate cancer and he has been experiencing symptoms while we await his biopsy. I did not hear from him all day today. He did not respond to any of my messages (we are long distance). I was so worried but then I saw that he had posted on social media seemingly today. I have been having problems with my phone so it's always possible that he tried to contact me and my phone didn't receive his messages (please pray for me about that problem with my phone). However, it is also possible that he is purposely not contacting me under the influence of spiritual warfare that has been targeting me through people for years in retaliation for me leaving the new age and coming back to Christ. He has behaved negatively toward me due to this warfare before. Please pray for me about all this and pray that if he is purposely ignoring me, that God would just end this relationship - I am going to end it if this is the case because his behavior toward me under the influence of this warfare hurts so much. I love him so much but there are a lot of problems in this relationship and I'm fairly certain it was never God's will for me to date him in the first place. So he finally got back to me and said he wasn't feeling well at all yesterday. I can understand that, however, he was well enough to post on social media. It would not have taken much for him to just check in and let me know what was happening. I was SO worried. I truly do not want to be in this relationship anymore at all but don't know when the appropriate time will be to break up with him. I don't even want to speak to him right now. Please pray about all this. Thank you.
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We hear your distress and the deep emotional turmoil you are experiencing in this relationship. First, we want to lift you up in prayer, asking the Lord to grant you peace, wisdom, and clarity in this difficult season. Your concern for your boyfriend’s health is understandable, and we pray that the Lord would bring healing and comfort to him as he awaits the results of his biopsy. Father, we ask that You would guide the doctors and medical professionals involved, giving them wisdom and discernment as they care for him. May Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard his heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
We also pray for your phone issue, that the Lord would resolve it quickly so that communication is not hindered. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6). We ask that You would remove any obstacles that are causing frustration or confusion in this situation.
Now, we must address the deeper spiritual and relational concerns in your request. You mentioned that this relationship may not have been God’s will for you from the beginning, and we believe it is important to examine this closely. The Bible is clear that Christians are called to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). If your boyfriend is not a believer in Jesus Christ, or if his actions and attitudes do not reflect a heart surrendered to God, this relationship will only bring heartache and spiritual conflict. You also mentioned that he has been influenced by spiritual warfare, which has caused him to behave negatively toward you. This is a serious matter, as the enemy seeks to destroy relationships that could honor God (John 10:10). We rebuke any spiritual attack aimed at you or this relationship in the name of Jesus Christ. "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places" (Ephesians 6:12).
You also shared that this relationship has caused you significant pain, and that you are considering ending it. We want to encourage you to seek the Lord’s will above all else. If this relationship is not aligned with His purposes for your life, it is better to walk away now rather than continue in a situation that brings harm to your spirit. "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God" (Romans 12:2). The Lord does not desire for you to be in a relationship that causes you constant worry, fear, or emotional distress. He wants you to thrive in His peace and love.
We must also address the issue of fornication, as you referred to him as your "boyfriend." The Bible is clear that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage between one man and one woman (Hebrews 13:4). If this relationship involves any sexual activity outside of marriage, it is sinful and displeasing to God. We urge you to repent of any sexual sin and to seek God’s forgiveness and restoration. "Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18). If this relationship is not leading toward marriage, it is not honoring to God, and it is time to end it.
You mentioned that you do not even want to speak to him right now, and that is understandable given the pain he has caused you. However, we encourage you to seek the Lord’s timing in this situation. If you believe this relationship is not God’s will, do not delay in ending it out of fear or uncertainty. "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7). The longer you stay in a relationship that is not honoring to God, the more difficult it will be to walk away. We pray that the Lord would give you the strength and courage to do what is right, even if it is painful.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of this dear sister in Christ. Lord, we ask that You would grant her Your peace and wisdom as she navigates this difficult relationship. We pray that You would reveal Your will to her clearly, and that she would have the courage to follow it, no matter how hard it may be. Father, we ask that You would heal her heart from the pain and confusion this relationship has caused. We rebuke any spiritual attack aimed at her or this relationship, and we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, we ask that You would break any ungodly soul ties or emotional attachments that are not aligned with Your will. We pray that You would lead her to a godly spouse who will love and honor her as Christ loves the church. Father, we ask that You would bring healing to her boyfriend, both physically and spiritually. If it is Your will, draw him to Yourself and save him. But if this relationship is not Your plan for her life, we ask that You would give her the strength to walk away and trust You with her future. We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in prayer and in God’s Word, seeking His guidance for your life. Surround yourself with godly counsel and community who can support you and speak truth into your situation. Remember, the Lord has a plan for your life, and it is a plan for good, not for harm (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust in Him, and He will direct your steps. If you have not already, we urge you to surrender this relationship to Him completely, asking Him to either restore it according to His will or to close the door entirely. Either way, He will lead you into His perfect peace.
We also pray for your phone issue, that the Lord would resolve it quickly so that communication is not hindered. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6). We ask that You would remove any obstacles that are causing frustration or confusion in this situation.
Now, we must address the deeper spiritual and relational concerns in your request. You mentioned that this relationship may not have been God’s will for you from the beginning, and we believe it is important to examine this closely. The Bible is clear that Christians are called to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). If your boyfriend is not a believer in Jesus Christ, or if his actions and attitudes do not reflect a heart surrendered to God, this relationship will only bring heartache and spiritual conflict. You also mentioned that he has been influenced by spiritual warfare, which has caused him to behave negatively toward you. This is a serious matter, as the enemy seeks to destroy relationships that could honor God (John 10:10). We rebuke any spiritual attack aimed at you or this relationship in the name of Jesus Christ. "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places" (Ephesians 6:12).
You also shared that this relationship has caused you significant pain, and that you are considering ending it. We want to encourage you to seek the Lord’s will above all else. If this relationship is not aligned with His purposes for your life, it is better to walk away now rather than continue in a situation that brings harm to your spirit. "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God" (Romans 12:2). The Lord does not desire for you to be in a relationship that causes you constant worry, fear, or emotional distress. He wants you to thrive in His peace and love.
We must also address the issue of fornication, as you referred to him as your "boyfriend." The Bible is clear that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage between one man and one woman (Hebrews 13:4). If this relationship involves any sexual activity outside of marriage, it is sinful and displeasing to God. We urge you to repent of any sexual sin and to seek God’s forgiveness and restoration. "Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18). If this relationship is not leading toward marriage, it is not honoring to God, and it is time to end it.
You mentioned that you do not even want to speak to him right now, and that is understandable given the pain he has caused you. However, we encourage you to seek the Lord’s timing in this situation. If you believe this relationship is not God’s will, do not delay in ending it out of fear or uncertainty. "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7). The longer you stay in a relationship that is not honoring to God, the more difficult it will be to walk away. We pray that the Lord would give you the strength and courage to do what is right, even if it is painful.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of this dear sister in Christ. Lord, we ask that You would grant her Your peace and wisdom as she navigates this difficult relationship. We pray that You would reveal Your will to her clearly, and that she would have the courage to follow it, no matter how hard it may be. Father, we ask that You would heal her heart from the pain and confusion this relationship has caused. We rebuke any spiritual attack aimed at her or this relationship, and we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, we ask that You would break any ungodly soul ties or emotional attachments that are not aligned with Your will. We pray that You would lead her to a godly spouse who will love and honor her as Christ loves the church. Father, we ask that You would bring healing to her boyfriend, both physically and spiritually. If it is Your will, draw him to Yourself and save him. But if this relationship is not Your plan for her life, we ask that You would give her the strength to walk away and trust You with her future. We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in prayer and in God’s Word, seeking His guidance for your life. Surround yourself with godly counsel and community who can support you and speak truth into your situation. Remember, the Lord has a plan for your life, and it is a plan for good, not for harm (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust in Him, and He will direct your steps. If you have not already, we urge you to surrender this relationship to Him completely, asking Him to either restore it according to His will or to close the door entirely. Either way, He will lead you into His perfect peace.
Violetblue
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Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.
The Encourager
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.
We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer during this difficult time. Your request has been heavy on our hearts, and we have continued to lift you, your boyfriend, and this entire situation before the Lord. We have prayed for clarity regarding his health, for peace in your heart as you await answers, and for God’s protection over both of you amid spiritual warfare. We’ve also asked the Lord to mend the communication between you, whether through a resolution to your phone issues or through a change of heart in your boyfriend.
If God has already moved in this situation—whether through answered prayers for his health, a breakthrough in communication, or even a sense of clarity about the relationship—we would love to hear your praise report so we can rejoice with you. If, however, the waiting continues or the burden feels even heavier, please know we are still here to stand with you in prayer. You do not have to carry this alone. Post this request again if you need to, and we will continue to intercede on your behalf, trusting that God is at work even when we cannot see it.
May the Lord grant you wisdom as you discern the next steps in your relationship, and may He fill you with His peace that surpasses all understanding. We pray that His will be done in your life, that He would guide your heart, and that He would draw near to you in this season. In Jesus’ Name, we pray. Amen.
If God has already moved in this situation—whether through answered prayers for his health, a breakthrough in communication, or even a sense of clarity about the relationship—we would love to hear your praise report so we can rejoice with you. If, however, the waiting continues or the burden feels even heavier, please know we are still here to stand with you in prayer. You do not have to carry this alone. Post this request again if you need to, and we will continue to intercede on your behalf, trusting that God is at work even when we cannot see it.
May the Lord grant you wisdom as you discern the next steps in your relationship, and may He fill you with His peace that surpasses all understanding. We pray that His will be done in your life, that He would guide your heart, and that He would draw near to you in this season. In Jesus’ Name, we pray. Amen.
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