My boyfriend may have prostate cancer and he has been experiencing symptoms while we await his biopsy. I did not hear from him all day today. He did not respond to any of my messages (we are long distance). I was so worried but then I saw that he had posted on social media seemingly today. I have been having problems with my phone so it's always possible that he tried to contact me and my phone didn't receive his messages (please pray for me about that problem with my phone). However, it is also possible that he is purposely not contacting me under the influence of spiritual warfare that has been targeting me through people for years in retaliation for me leaving the new age and coming back to Christ. He has behaved negatively toward me due to this warfare before. Please pray for me about all this and pray that if he is purposely ignoring me, that God would just end this relationship - I am going to end it if this is the case because his behavior toward me under the influence of this warfare hurts so much. I love him so much but there are a lot of problems in this relationship and I'm fairly certain it was never God's will for me to date him in the first place. Please pray for me because I'm so upset about all this that I can't really sleep tonight. Thank you.
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We hear your heartache and fear, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting every concern to the Lord. First, we want to address the spiritual warfare you mentioned, this is very real, and the enemy seeks to destroy relationships, peace, and faith. But we declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The silence you’re experiencing from him may indeed be a tactic of the enemy to sow doubt, fear, and division. We rebuke any spiritual attack aimed at your relationship or your heart, and we pray for God’s protection over your mind and emotions.
We must also speak truth about the nature of this relationship. You mentioned that you’re "fairly certain it was never God’s will" for you to date him. Scripture is clear that believers are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), and if he is not a man who fears the Lord, this relationship will only bring heartache. Even if he is a believer, the long-distance dynamic, his inconsistent communication, and the pain you’ve endured suggest this may not be the union God has for you. You also referred to him as your "boyfriend," but Scripture does not endorse dating without the intent of marriage. If this relationship is not moving toward a godly marriage, it is time to surrender it to the Lord. We encourage you to seek the Lord’s will above your feelings, He may be calling you to release this man so you can walk in the freedom and purpose He has for you.
We also want to gently address the issue of fornication. If this relationship has involved sexual intimacy outside of marriage, that is sin, and it grieves the heart of God (1 Corinthians 6:18). Sexual immorality opens doors to spiritual attack and bondage. If this has been part of your relationship, we urge you to repent and ask the Lord for cleansing and restoration. He is faithful to forgive and heal (1 John 1:9).
Now, we lift your concerns to the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear sister to You. Lord, You see her anxiety, her sleepless nights, and the pain she’s carrying. We ask that You would calm her spirit and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Father, we pray for her boyfriend’s health, if he is facing a battle with cancer, we ask for Your healing touch. But Lord, we also ask that You would reveal the truth about this relationship. If it is not of You, give her the strength to walk away, even if it hurts. Break any ungodly soul ties, and restore her heart to wholeness.
We rebuke the spirit of fear and confusion that has been plaguing her. We declare that she is a daughter of the Most High, and no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, we ask that You would expose any deception or spiritual attack aimed at her. If this man is ignoring her under the influence of the enemy, we pray that You would either bring conviction and repentance or remove him from her life entirely. Give her clarity, wisdom, and discernment to know Your will.
Father, we also pray for her phone issues, let there be no more miscommunication or missed connections. Restore what has been lost and make the path clear. And Lord, if there has been any sin in this relationship, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Create in her a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within her (Psalm 51:10).
We thank You, Lord, that You are her Comforter, her Strength, and her Peace. We trust that You will guide her steps and lead her into the future You have for her. In Jesus’ mighty name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, meditating on His promises. Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." You are not alone, He sees your tears and collects them in a bottle (Psalm 56:8). If this relationship is not of God, trust that He has something better for you. Seek wise counsel from mature believers, and do not hesitate to set boundaries or walk away if this man continues to bring pain. Your worth is found in Christ alone, not in this relationship. We will continue to stand with you in prayer.
We must also speak truth about the nature of this relationship. You mentioned that you’re "fairly certain it was never God’s will" for you to date him. Scripture is clear that believers are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), and if he is not a man who fears the Lord, this relationship will only bring heartache. Even if he is a believer, the long-distance dynamic, his inconsistent communication, and the pain you’ve endured suggest this may not be the union God has for you. You also referred to him as your "boyfriend," but Scripture does not endorse dating without the intent of marriage. If this relationship is not moving toward a godly marriage, it is time to surrender it to the Lord. We encourage you to seek the Lord’s will above your feelings, He may be calling you to release this man so you can walk in the freedom and purpose He has for you.
We also want to gently address the issue of fornication. If this relationship has involved sexual intimacy outside of marriage, that is sin, and it grieves the heart of God (1 Corinthians 6:18). Sexual immorality opens doors to spiritual attack and bondage. If this has been part of your relationship, we urge you to repent and ask the Lord for cleansing and restoration. He is faithful to forgive and heal (1 John 1:9).
Now, we lift your concerns to the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear sister to You. Lord, You see her anxiety, her sleepless nights, and the pain she’s carrying. We ask that You would calm her spirit and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Father, we pray for her boyfriend’s health, if he is facing a battle with cancer, we ask for Your healing touch. But Lord, we also ask that You would reveal the truth about this relationship. If it is not of You, give her the strength to walk away, even if it hurts. Break any ungodly soul ties, and restore her heart to wholeness.
We rebuke the spirit of fear and confusion that has been plaguing her. We declare that she is a daughter of the Most High, and no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, we ask that You would expose any deception or spiritual attack aimed at her. If this man is ignoring her under the influence of the enemy, we pray that You would either bring conviction and repentance or remove him from her life entirely. Give her clarity, wisdom, and discernment to know Your will.
Father, we also pray for her phone issues, let there be no more miscommunication or missed connections. Restore what has been lost and make the path clear. And Lord, if there has been any sin in this relationship, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Create in her a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within her (Psalm 51:10).
We thank You, Lord, that You are her Comforter, her Strength, and her Peace. We trust that You will guide her steps and lead her into the future You have for her. In Jesus’ mighty name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, meditating on His promises. Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." You are not alone, He sees your tears and collects them in a bottle (Psalm 56:8). If this relationship is not of God, trust that He has something better for you. Seek wise counsel from mature believers, and do not hesitate to set boundaries or walk away if this man continues to bring pain. Your worth is found in Christ alone, not in this relationship. We will continue to stand with you in prayer.
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Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Praying in Jesus Name.
We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer during this deeply challenging time. Our hearts have been heavy as we’ve lifted up your boyfriend’s health, your relationship, and the spiritual warfare you’ve described. We’ve prayed fervently for clarity, healing, and peace—both for his physical well-being and for the emotional and spiritual weight you’ve been carrying.
If God has already moved in this situation—whether through answered communication, a shift in circumstances, or a sense of His peace settling over your heart—we would be overjoyed to hear a praise report from you. Please share any updates so we can rejoice with you in His faithfulness.
If, however, the silence persists and the weight of this trial still feels heavy, we encourage you to post this request again as a new prayer need. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you, asking the Lord to guard your heart, guide your steps, and reveal His will in this relationship. We’ve prayed specifically that He would either restore what has been broken or make a way forward that aligns with His perfect plan for your life.
Above all, we’ve asked the Lord to draw you closer to Himself through this season. May He comfort you in the sleepless nights, strengthen you in the moments of doubt, and fill you with His peace that surpasses all understanding. You are not alone in this—we stand with you, trusting that God is working even when we cannot see it.
May He bless you with His presence, wisdom, and grace as you continue to seek Him. In Jesus’ Name we pray.
If God has already moved in this situation—whether through answered communication, a shift in circumstances, or a sense of His peace settling over your heart—we would be overjoyed to hear a praise report from you. Please share any updates so we can rejoice with you in His faithfulness.
If, however, the silence persists and the weight of this trial still feels heavy, we encourage you to post this request again as a new prayer need. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you, asking the Lord to guard your heart, guide your steps, and reveal His will in this relationship. We’ve prayed specifically that He would either restore what has been broken or make a way forward that aligns with His perfect plan for your life.
Above all, we’ve asked the Lord to draw you closer to Himself through this season. May He comfort you in the sleepless nights, strengthen you in the moments of doubt, and fill you with His peace that surpasses all understanding. You are not alone in this—we stand with you, trusting that God is working even when we cannot see it.
May He bless you with His presence, wisdom, and grace as you continue to seek Him. In Jesus’ Name we pray.
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