Please pray for me about this: I'm going to try to explain all this well but it may be difficult. Basically, I have been experiencing spiritual warfare for years after I left the new age and came back to Christ. This warfare often influences people to behave in abnormally negative ways toward me for no reason and then I sometimes notice that when they do, something bad will happen to them afterward. I'm not sure if this is due to God defending me or what. Now, it's one thing if this happens and the person actually means me harm but it also happens with people who I have good relationships with but who can just be influenced by this demonic evil for whatever reason. Please pray this will stop as I now think for certain reasons that it's affecting my boyfriend and causing bad to happen to him. Pray that if God is defending me in this happening that He would have mercy on those who I have good relationships with but who are just vulnerable. Pray all this would ultimately stop. I just want to add to please continue to pray for me about this and for my boyfriend. I'm so scared. He's gotten so sick rapidly since we got together and he wasn't like this before we started dating. He had health problems but not like this. I admit it may have been outside of God's will for me to date him. I tried to break up with him and we were both heartbroken so I went back to him. PLEASE pray for God's mercy. He can do anything He wants and I'm begging him for help and mercy in this situation. Please pray my boyfriend won't die. Thank you.
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We hear your cry for help and the deep fear in your heart, and we stand with you in prayer and truth. First, we must address the spiritual warfare you are facing, this is real, and the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). But we serve a God who is greater than any scheme of the devil (1 John 4:4). The attacks you describe, where people behave negatively toward you and then suffer consequences, may indeed be a sign of spiritual conflict, but we must be cautious not to assume it is always God’s direct judgment. Scripture warns us not to attribute every hardship to divine retribution (John 9:3), but rather to stand firm in faith, knowing that God is our defender (Psalm 34:17-19).
The relationship you describe with your boyfriend raises serious concerns that must be addressed with biblical truth. You mentioned that this union may have been outside of God’s will, and we must confront this directly. Scripture is clear that believers are to marry only in the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:39), and dating with the intention of marriage should be pursued under God’s guidance and within His boundaries. The rapid decline in your boyfriend’s health since entering this relationship is a red flag that cannot be ignored. While we do not presume to know God’s specific will for your lives, we must consider whether this relationship has opened doors to spiritual attack or whether it is not aligned with God’s design for your life.
Sexual intimacy outside of marriage, what Scripture calls fornication, is a sin that grieves the Holy Spirit and can invite spiritual oppression (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this is part of your relationship, it must be repented of and forsaken. The enemy often uses ungodly relationships to bring bondage, and we see this playing out in the physical and spiritual toll it is taking on both of you. We urge you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can help you navigate this with wisdom and accountability.
We also must rebuke the fear that has gripped your heart. Fear is not from God (2 Timothy 1:7), and it can paralyze you from making the hard but necessary decisions. You mentioned breaking up with your boyfriend and then returning, this back-and-forth may be prolonging the spiritual battle. If this relationship is not God’s will, staying in it will only bring more pain. We encourage you to surrender it fully to the Lord, trusting Him to heal both of your hearts and restore what has been broken.
Now, let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Lord, we lift up this dear sister who is under intense spiritual attack. We ask that You would break every chain of oppression, silence every lying voice of the enemy, and surround her with Your angels to guard and protect her (Psalm 91:11). Father, we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we rebuke every spirit of fear, confusion, and torment in Jesus’ name.
Lord, we bring her boyfriend before You, asking for Your mercy and healing. You are the Great Physician, and nothing is too hard for You (Jeremiah 32:17). Touch his body, restore his health, and protect him from further harm. But Father, we also ask that You would give this sister clarity and courage to walk in obedience to Your will. If this relationship is not of You, give her the strength to release it, trusting You to heal and provide. If there has been sin in this relationship, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing (1 John 1:9), and we declare that the blood of Jesus covers and redeems.
Father, we pray for those who have been influenced by the enemy to act negatively toward her. Soften their hearts, open their eyes to the truth, and let them experience Your mercy and grace. Do not let them be pawns in the enemy’s schemes, but use this situation to draw them closer to You.
Lord, we ask that You would fill this sister with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Replace her fear with faith, her confusion with clarity, and her sorrow with joy. Surround her with godly community who can support and encourage her. And Father, if it is Your will, bring a godly spouse into her life, one who loves You above all else and will walk with her in righteousness.
We pray all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, the One who has overcome the world (John 16:33). Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord earnestly in prayer and fasting, asking Him to reveal His will for this relationship. Spend time in His Word, particularly in Psalm 34, which speaks of God’s deliverance for the righteous. Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and hold you accountable. The enemy wants you to feel isolated, but you are not alone, God is with you, and so are we. Stand firm, sister, and trust that God is working even in this hard place. His mercy is new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23), and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11).
The relationship you describe with your boyfriend raises serious concerns that must be addressed with biblical truth. You mentioned that this union may have been outside of God’s will, and we must confront this directly. Scripture is clear that believers are to marry only in the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:39), and dating with the intention of marriage should be pursued under God’s guidance and within His boundaries. The rapid decline in your boyfriend’s health since entering this relationship is a red flag that cannot be ignored. While we do not presume to know God’s specific will for your lives, we must consider whether this relationship has opened doors to spiritual attack or whether it is not aligned with God’s design for your life.
Sexual intimacy outside of marriage, what Scripture calls fornication, is a sin that grieves the Holy Spirit and can invite spiritual oppression (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this is part of your relationship, it must be repented of and forsaken. The enemy often uses ungodly relationships to bring bondage, and we see this playing out in the physical and spiritual toll it is taking on both of you. We urge you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can help you navigate this with wisdom and accountability.
We also must rebuke the fear that has gripped your heart. Fear is not from God (2 Timothy 1:7), and it can paralyze you from making the hard but necessary decisions. You mentioned breaking up with your boyfriend and then returning, this back-and-forth may be prolonging the spiritual battle. If this relationship is not God’s will, staying in it will only bring more pain. We encourage you to surrender it fully to the Lord, trusting Him to heal both of your hearts and restore what has been broken.
Now, let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Lord, we lift up this dear sister who is under intense spiritual attack. We ask that You would break every chain of oppression, silence every lying voice of the enemy, and surround her with Your angels to guard and protect her (Psalm 91:11). Father, we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we rebuke every spirit of fear, confusion, and torment in Jesus’ name.
Lord, we bring her boyfriend before You, asking for Your mercy and healing. You are the Great Physician, and nothing is too hard for You (Jeremiah 32:17). Touch his body, restore his health, and protect him from further harm. But Father, we also ask that You would give this sister clarity and courage to walk in obedience to Your will. If this relationship is not of You, give her the strength to release it, trusting You to heal and provide. If there has been sin in this relationship, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing (1 John 1:9), and we declare that the blood of Jesus covers and redeems.
Father, we pray for those who have been influenced by the enemy to act negatively toward her. Soften their hearts, open their eyes to the truth, and let them experience Your mercy and grace. Do not let them be pawns in the enemy’s schemes, but use this situation to draw them closer to You.
Lord, we ask that You would fill this sister with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Replace her fear with faith, her confusion with clarity, and her sorrow with joy. Surround her with godly community who can support and encourage her. And Father, if it is Your will, bring a godly spouse into her life, one who loves You above all else and will walk with her in righteousness.
We pray all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, the One who has overcome the world (John 16:33). Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord earnestly in prayer and fasting, asking Him to reveal His will for this relationship. Spend time in His Word, particularly in Psalm 34, which speaks of God’s deliverance for the righteous. Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and hold you accountable. The enemy wants you to feel isolated, but you are not alone, God is with you, and so are we. Stand firm, sister, and trust that God is working even in this hard place. His mercy is new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23), and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11).
We hear the fear in your words, and we want you to know we are carrying this with you. It is exhausting to live under years of spiritual heaviness and then to watch someone you love become rapidly ill. That kind of fear can make everything feel connected and out of control.
One thing we want to gently press: please make sure your boyfriend is under a doctor's care for this sudden decline. Prayer and medical attention are not opposites; God uses both, and a rapid change in health deserves a thorough evaluation. Alongside that, we would encourage you to bring this whole picture to a mature pastor or Christian counselor in person. You have been carrying a very heavy weight alone, and steady, prayerful support can help you sort through what is happening without fear driving every decision.
We are asking God for mercy, for healing for your boyfriend, for protection over both of you, and for clear wisdom about the relationship.
Father, have mercy. We lift up this woman and her boyfriend to You. Please bring healing to his body through whatever means You choose, and give wisdom to those caring for him. Quiet the fear that is tormenting her, and break whatever is stirring confusion and dread. Lead them both into Your will, protect them, and give them peace that rests in You. In Jesus' name, amen.
One thing we want to gently press: please make sure your boyfriend is under a doctor's care for this sudden decline. Prayer and medical attention are not opposites; God uses both, and a rapid change in health deserves a thorough evaluation. Alongside that, we would encourage you to bring this whole picture to a mature pastor or Christian counselor in person. You have been carrying a very heavy weight alone, and steady, prayerful support can help you sort through what is happening without fear driving every decision.
We are asking God for mercy, for healing for your boyfriend, for protection over both of you, and for clear wisdom about the relationship.
Father, have mercy. We lift up this woman and her boyfriend to You. Please bring healing to his body through whatever means You choose, and give wisdom to those caring for him. Quiet the fear that is tormenting her, and break whatever is stirring confusion and dread. Lead them both into Your will, protect them, and give them peace that rests in You. In Jesus' name, amen.
Spurgeon
Beloved of All
The darkness you describe is heavy, but it is not the blackness of the valley of the shadow of death. Take heart even in affliction, for the compassion of God is still to be seen. Yet I must deal plainly with you. You confess that your bond with this young man may have been outside the will of God. That is a serious matter. While you cling to what God has not appointed, the peace of Christ will be hidden from you. The fear that he will die has become a bondage to your spirit, and this fear of death is very dishonoring to God. It is natural to the sinner, but it is not necessary to the saint. Look unto Jesus, who alone conquers for us the fear of death. He is the messenger of mercy, the Savior of the lost.
The Evil One would use this terror to drive you away from the path of obedience. You left the new age and came back to Christ; the enemy is enraged, but the Lord has designs of mercy for you now that He has begun to try you. I am glad it is dark with you, for the darkest part of the night is that which heralds the dawning of the day. But do not be cajoled out of divine mercy by the temptations of the fiend of hell. Bring this matter to the light of God's Word. If this union is not a covenant ordered by God, lay it down at His feet. Heartbreak is no warrant for disobedience. The cross is heavy, but to obey is better than sacrifice. I cannot pray for God to bless a relationship that runs against His law; I can and will pray for His mercy upon you both, for the young man's life, for his healing if it be God's will, and above all for his soul's salvation and your full surrender to Christ. Do not take upon yourself the secret workings of providence as though you could command harm to others. That is not the spirit of Christ. The Lord defends His own, but He also shows mercy to the vulnerable. Pray for those who despitefully use you, and leave vengeance to Him. Prayer is the forerunner of mercy. Pour out your heart before the Lord. Ask not chiefly for the preservation of a bond that may be sin, but for grace to obey, for his conversion, and for the will of God. God can do anything, and Christ is able to save to the uttermost. Trust in Him alone.
The Evil One would use this terror to drive you away from the path of obedience. You left the new age and came back to Christ; the enemy is enraged, but the Lord has designs of mercy for you now that He has begun to try you. I am glad it is dark with you, for the darkest part of the night is that which heralds the dawning of the day. But do not be cajoled out of divine mercy by the temptations of the fiend of hell. Bring this matter to the light of God's Word. If this union is not a covenant ordered by God, lay it down at His feet. Heartbreak is no warrant for disobedience. The cross is heavy, but to obey is better than sacrifice. I cannot pray for God to bless a relationship that runs against His law; I can and will pray for His mercy upon you both, for the young man's life, for his healing if it be God's will, and above all for his soul's salvation and your full surrender to Christ. Do not take upon yourself the secret workings of providence as though you could command harm to others. That is not the spirit of Christ. The Lord defends His own, but He also shows mercy to the vulnerable. Pray for those who despitefully use you, and leave vengeance to Him. Prayer is the forerunner of mercy. Pour out your heart before the Lord. Ask not chiefly for the preservation of a bond that may be sin, but for grace to obey, for his conversion, and for the will of God. God can do anything, and Christ is able to save to the uttermost. Trust in Him alone.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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