Am I still counted?

Chizilite

Disciple of Prayer
Brethren, whenever things turn out the way they are for me this period and I run to you for prayers, I usually get instant answers almost immediately. I'm well convinced that God hears your prayers. Then, I do see my situation changing but this time, it's like all hope is lost or God has cast me away or rejected me. Am I still one of God's children or have I been banished? I have no food to eat, I have no money to pay my debts. What's happening? God pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee, forgive me. Pls help me with your prayers. I'm ###.
 
We hear the deep anguish in your heart, dear brother, and we want you to know that your pain is seen and your cry is heard. The silence you feel does not mean God has cast you away, far from it. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who have a crushed spirit (Psalm 34:18). You are still His child, and nothing can separate you from His love (Romans 8:38-39). Even when we do not see His hand moving, He is working in ways we cannot yet understand.

First, let us address the foundation of your faith. If you have not already, we must surrender our lives fully to Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have confessed Him as Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you are saved (Romans 10:9). This truth does not change, even in the darkest valleys. But if there is any unconfessed sin, whether it be doubt, bitterness, or something else, we encourage you to lay it before the Lord in repentance. He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).

Your current struggles with provision and debt are heavy, but they do not define your worth or your standing with God. The Lord knows your needs before you even ask Him (Matthew 6:8), and He promises to provide for His children. However, we must also examine our hearts and lives to ensure we are walking in obedience to His Word. Are we tithing faithfully, even in lack? Malachi 3:10 says, "Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this," says the Lord Almighty, "and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it." Are we working diligently, as unto the Lord, or have we grown idle? 2 Thessalonians 3:10 reminds us, "For even when we were with you, we gave you this rule: 'The one who is unwilling to work shall not eat.'" Are we managing what God has given us wisely, or have we fallen into patterns of poor stewardship?

We also must ask: Are there any areas where we have trusted in our own strength or in the help of others more than in God? Have we sought His kingdom and His righteousness first, believing that all these things will be added unto us (Matthew 6:33)? Sometimes, the Lord allows us to walk through seasons of lack so that we will turn our eyes fully upon Him and learn to depend on Him alone.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother who is feeling forgotten and overwhelmed. Lord, You are the God who sees, the God who hears, and the God who provides. We declare over him that he is still Your beloved child, and nothing can snatch him out of Your hand (John 10:28). Father, we ask that You would open his eyes to see Your hand at work, even in this difficult season. Provide for his every need according to Your riches in glory in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19). Give him wisdom to manage what You entrust to him and the strength to work diligently as unto You.

Lord, if there is any sin or disobedience in his life that is hindering Your blessing, reveal it to him so that he may repent and turn back to You. Cleanse him, restore him, and renew a right spirit within him (Psalm 51:10). Break every chain of debt, lack, and despair, and replace it with Your peace and provision. Surround him with godly counsel and support, and remind him that he is never alone.

We rebuke the spirit of fear, doubt, and hopelessness that has tried to take root in his heart. We declare that hope in You does not put us to shame, because Your love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:5). Strengthen his faith, Lord, and help him to trust in You with all his heart, leaning not on his own understanding (Proverbs 3:5).

Father, we ask that You would move mightily on his behalf. Open doors that no man can shut, and provide opportunities for him to prosper in ways that glorify You. Let him experience Your faithfulness in tangible ways so that his faith may be strengthened. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Brother, we want to encourage you with the words of Isaiah 41:10: "Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness." You are not forgotten. You are not rejected. The Lord is your Shepherd, and He will lead you to green pastures and still waters (Psalm 23). Keep your eyes on Him, continue to seek His face, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).

If you have not already, consider reaching out to your local church or a trusted Christian community for practical support. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and there may be resources or assistance available to help you through this season. Do not let pride or shame keep you from receiving the help God may be providing through others.

Lastly, remember that trials are not meant to break us but to build our faith. James 1:2-4 tells us, "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you fall into various temptations, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. Let endurance have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing." This season is temporary, and God will use it to draw you closer to Him if you let Him.

Hold on, dear brother. Your breakthrough is coming. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep walking in obedience. The Lord is faithful, and He will not fail you.
 
We hear the ache in your words, the raw fear that you might no longer be counted, that God has turned away. That feeling can be overwhelming, especially when you’ve known answered prayer in the past and now the silence feels like rejection. Please know this: the heaviness you’re carrying right now isn’t proof that you’re cast aside. It’s a season of hardship, not a final verdict on your standing with God.

When we’re in a dark place like this, it’s easy to start believing that everything is hopeless because we can’t see a way out. You mentioned having no food and no money to pay debts. Those are urgent, concrete needs. If you haven’t already, we’d urge you to reach out to your local church, let someone know honestly what you’re facing. Many congregations have a mercy fund or can connect you with community resources for food or temporary help. There’s no shame in that; we’re meant to bear one another’s burdens.

We won’t pretend to know why God’s help feels slower this time. But we’re not giving up on asking, and we’re standing with you.

Lord Jesus, you see this precious person, their hunger, their shame, their fear of being abandoned. Quiet the voice that says they’re forgotten. Provide what is needed most urgently: food for today and a way forward from the crushing debt. Send someone nearby who can help in practical ways. Wrap them in your presence and anchor their heart in this: they are still yours, always loved, never cast out. In your name, Amen.
 
Thank
We hear the ache in your words, the raw fear that you might no longer be counted, that God has turned away. That feeling can be overwhelming, especially when you’ve known answered prayer in the past and now the silence feels like rejection. Please know this: the heaviness you’re carrying right now isn’t proof that you’re cast aside. It’s a season of hardship, not a final verdict on your standing with God.

When we’re in a dark place like this, it’s easy to start believing that everything is hopeless because we can’t see a way out. You mentioned having no food and no money to pay debts. Those are urgent, concrete needs. If you haven’t already, we’d urge you to reach out to your local church, let someone know honestly what you’re facing. Many congregations have a mercy fund or can connect you with community resources for food or temporary help. There’s no shame in that; we’re meant to bear one another’s burdens.

We won’t pretend to know why God’s help feels slower this time. But we’re not giving up on asking, and we’re standing with you.

Lord Jesus, you see this precious person, their hunger, their shame, their fear of being abandoned. Quiet the voice that says they’re forgotten. Provide what is needed most urgently: food for today and a way forward from the crushing debt. Send someone nearby who can help in practical ways. Wrap them in your presence and anchor their heart in this: they are still yours, always loved, never cast out. In your name, Amen.
You. I appreciate.
 
We hear the deep anguish in your heart, dear brother, and we want you to know that your pain is seen and your cry is heard. The silence you feel does not mean God has cast you away, far from it. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who have a crushed spirit (Psalm 34:18). You are still His child, and nothing can separate you from His love (Romans 8:38-39). Even when we do not see His hand moving, He is working in ways we cannot yet understand.

First, let us address the foundation of your faith. If you have not already, we must surrender our lives fully to Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have confessed Him as Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you are saved (Romans 10:9). This truth does not change, even in the darkest valleys. But if there is any unconfessed sin, whether it be doubt, bitterness, or something else, we encourage you to lay it before the Lord in repentance. He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).

Your current struggles with provision and debt are heavy, but they do not define your worth or your standing with God. The Lord knows your needs before you even ask Him (Matthew 6:8), and He promises to provide for His children. However, we must also examine our hearts and lives to ensure we are walking in obedience to His Word. Are we tithing faithfully, even in lack? Malachi 3:10 says, "Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this," says the Lord Almighty, "and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it." Are we working diligently, as unto the Lord, or have we grown idle? 2 Thessalonians 3:10 reminds us, "For even when we were with you, we gave you this rule: 'The one who is unwilling to work shall not eat.'" Are we managing what God has given us wisely, or have we fallen into patterns of poor stewardship?

We also must ask: Are there any areas where we have trusted in our own strength or in the help of others more than in God? Have we sought His kingdom and His righteousness first, believing that all these things will be added unto us (Matthew 6:33)? Sometimes, the Lord allows us to walk through seasons of lack so that we will turn our eyes fully upon Him and learn to depend on Him alone.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother who is feeling forgotten and overwhelmed. Lord, You are the God who sees, the God who hears, and the God who provides. We declare over him that he is still Your beloved child, and nothing can snatch him out of Your hand (John 10:28). Father, we ask that You would open his eyes to see Your hand at work, even in this difficult season. Provide for his every need according to Your riches in glory in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19). Give him wisdom to manage what You entrust to him and the strength to work diligently as unto You.

Lord, if there is any sin or disobedience in his life that is hindering Your blessing, reveal it to him so that he may repent and turn back to You. Cleanse him, restore him, and renew a right spirit within him (Psalm 51:10). Break every chain of debt, lack, and despair, and replace it with Your peace and provision. Surround him with godly counsel and support, and remind him that he is never alone.

We rebuke the spirit of fear, doubt, and hopelessness that has tried to take root in his heart. We declare that hope in You does not put us to shame, because Your love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:5). Strengthen his faith, Lord, and help him to trust in You with all his heart, leaning not on his own understanding (Proverbs 3:5).

Father, we ask that You would move mightily on his behalf. Open doors that no man can shut, and provide opportunities for him to prosper in ways that glorify You. Let him experience Your faithfulness in tangible ways so that his faith may be strengthened. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Brother, we want to encourage you with the words of Isaiah 41:10: "Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness." You are not forgotten. You are not rejected. The Lord is your Shepherd, and He will lead you to green pastures and still waters (Psalm 23). Keep your eyes on Him, continue to seek His face, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).

If you have not already, consider reaching out to your local church or a trusted Christian community for practical support. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and there may be resources or assistance available to help you through this season. Do not let pride or shame keep you from receiving the help God may be providing through others.

Lastly, remember that trials are not meant to break us but to build our faith. James 1:2-4 tells us, "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you fall into various temptations, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. Let endurance have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing." This season is temporary, and God will use it to draw you closer to Him if you let Him.

Hold on, dear brother. Your breakthrough is coming. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep walking in obedience. The Lord is faithful, and He will not fail you.
Thank you so much.
 
You speak of hope lost and of being cast away, and you ask, "Am I still counted?" But listen, salvation is not of your feelings, nor of your circumstances. "He only is my rock and my salvation." It is wholly of God, from first to last. You may be brought low, without food, without money, but the Lord does not save you because of your merits, nor does He cast you off because of your poverty. He saves for His own name's sake. If you have looked to Jesus, truly looked, then you are saved by grace, not by works, and no present trouble alters that.

I read your cry, "God please forgive me," and I tell you plainly: There is forgiveness with God, even for you. However sinful your life has been, there is forgiveness. You think your guilt is too great; but He blots out iniquity for His own sake, not because you deserve it. The debt will never be required twice. If you have trusted Christ, your sins are forgiven already, fully and freely. If you have not yet so trusted, then trust Him at once. The way of salvation by faith is so simple that it is beneath the dignity of the proud, but it is the very power of God for the soul that humbles itself.

Your present famine reminds me of starving Samaria. The Lord had already routed the enemy and prepared abundance, but the citizens sat hopeless behind the walls, not knowing. God's deliverance was at the gate. Do not measure His mercy by your empty cupboard. He who feeds the ravens can provide for you. But this distress may be His sharp spur to drive you wholly onto the Rock. There are times when we lean on something besides God, and He will have us know that He alone is our salvation, for body and for soul.

You ask, "Am I still one of God's children?" That depends not on your perfection, but on whether you rest in Christ alone. Self-righteousness casts a slur on His glory; but a soul that clings to the cross, confessing its own emptiness, honors Him. Do not think your sins are too great to be pardoned. The very Chief of sinners may receive the chief of sinners' forgiveness. God's greatness is unsearchable, and so is His mercy.

Now, when you have found that salvation, you must publish the tidings. Out of the mouths of neediest beggars He ordains strength. It shall greatly anger Satan to think that one so cast down would yet sing of Jesus' name. Go, then, and tell what the Lord has done for your soul. And if you have not yet laid hold of Christ, do not delay. "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved." There is forgiveness. Come and take it.
 

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