Marriage

Is your spouse the whole problem? Dr. ### and Dr. ### explain why each spouse usually plays a part and how to see what you may have contributed.

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Don’t want the divorce your spouse is asking for? Dr. ###’s three steps: take control of yourself, assess the real problem, and get the right help.

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Dr. ### and Dr. ### answer listener questions about sexual rejection, mismatched desire, and what to do when your spouse has no interest in sex.

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The holidays bring extra stress home. These seven simple habits, from getting enough sleep to putting family first, help protect your marriage.

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Society says men need respect and women need love. Dr. ### explains why both spouses need both, and why feeling disrespected also feels unloved.

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Praying for your marriage and seeing no change? Dr. ### and prayer author ### explain why God’s answer may look different than you expect.

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SMART Contact is Marriage Helper's five-step method for talking to a spouse in crisis without giving them a reason to leave. Here is how it works.

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I wasn’t trying to become a Christian sex author and speaker. But as I explain in My Story:

God has had His hand on my sex life. I know where I’d be without Him. While some people’s faith testimonies are easily proclaimed in public, my biggest witness is not. How do I admit in the middle of a Bible class that my Amazing Grace moment should be sung “that saved a wench like me”?

You see, I had a premarital promiscuous past, and that baggage stuck with me for a long time. But...

 

Today, I’m doing something different. I’ve been reading through old journals, came across one with a poem I wrote in 1998, and decided to share it with y’all!

Before You Read It…​

A bit of background. I grew up with a domineering father and a conflict-avoidant mother who catered to him. I concluded early on that I didn’t want that kind of relationship! I wanted to be a strong woman who didn’t need a man. In fact, I didn’t even want a man. I simply wouldn’t get married.

While in...

 

Let’s Talk About Husbands’ Orgasms

Have you heard of the orgasm gap? It refers to the difference in how often men versus women achieve orgasm.

Specifically, women don’t reach climax as often as men do. One 2018 study put it at 95% to 65%, while a more recent study suggested that lifetime orgasm rates ranged from 70% to 85% for men and 46% to 58% for women.” Regardless, that’s a 24–30% difference between men and women reaching the pinnacle of pleasure.

I, and many others, have spilled a...