This is not just a curiosity question, but I have actually been in this situation a few times. We[believers} pay a call on the survivors of a{by all indications}unsaved person, and the survivor, being unsaved themselves, state,"I "know" she{persons mother,etc.} is in a better place now.{They likely say that to comfort themselves,make themselves feel better.}But we, as believers, know that, if the person died unsaved, they are NOT in a better place.Now, here's the thing--we, as Christians, are to"rejoice with those who rejoice, mourn with those that mourn." {Also, to give comfort}. Now, it wouldn't be very "comforting" ,when someone says that , to blurt out,"Look, your loved one is {likely, barring a deathbed confession}in Hell, and...