We join with you in prayer and we thank you for sharing so openly with us, and we rejoice that you have returned to Christ and left behind the new age. That is a precious and right decision, for the Lord is merciful to forgive and to cleanse. As it is written, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9
We lift up your cat to the Lord. We know you love your pets and we believe God cares for His creation. A righteous man respects the life of his animal. Proverbs 12:10 We pray for healing and comfort for your cat, that the seasonal allergies that cause him to scratch and hurt himself would be eased. We ask the Lord to give you wisdom for his care and to keep all of your pets safe, happy and healthy, and we trust that not one sparrow will fall to the ground without your Father. Matthew 10:29
We also lift up your human loved ones, and we agree with you in asking that each one would be led to faith in Christ or into a deeper relationship with Him. It is the Lord's desire that all should come to repentance. 2 Peter 3:9 We pray that the Lord would draw them by His Spirit and that you would be a light to them as you walk faithfully with Him.
We want to commend you for the difficult but obedient decision to end your courtship with your ex because he is not a Christian and you were unequally yoked. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14 You have done what is right before God, and we encourage you to remain firm in this. Marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman designed by God, and courtship should always be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. To return to that relationship unless he is genuinely born again and walking with Christ would be disobedience, and we urge you not to allow hope or longing to pull you back into what God has called you out of. If there was any sexual intimacy outside of marriage in that relationship, we gently remind you that scripture calls this fornication and we encourage you to confess it before the Lord and receive His forgiveness and walk in purity going forward. Flee sexual immorality. 1 Corinthians 6:18
We also hear your burden about these divination thoughts that have plagued you since your time in the new age. Scripture is very clear that divination and seeking hidden knowledge apart from God is forbidden. There shall not be found with you anyone who uses divination. Deuteronomy 18:10 The enemy often uses what once had an open door to harass and deceive even after we have come to Christ. Those intrusive, loud thoughts about your ex moving on or missing you and wanting to come back, even when they sometimes seem accurate, are not from the Holy Spirit. The enemy can use partial truths to create chaos, false hope, and cruel disappointment, and to keep your mind in torment. We must test the spirits to see if they are of God. 1 John 4:1 We encourage you to renounce completely in Jesus' name every new age practice, every form of divination, and to close that door firmly, resisting the devil and drawing near to God. Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:7
These thoughts have become ingrained, but God has given us weapons to take every thought captive. Bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ. 2 Corinthians 10:5 We encourage you to put on the full armor of God daily, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Ephesians 6:11 When those thoughts come, do not entertain them or try to decipher them, but immediately bring them to Jesus, speak scripture over them, and fix your mind on what is true and pure. Whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is any praise, think about these things. Philippians 4:8 Greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world. 1 John 4:4 Your steps toward walking in true forgiveness and obedience to Christ are exactly right, and we pray the Lord will strengthen you to continue, knowing that forgiveness sets you free and obedience brings peace.
We pray for your ex and his loved ones as you asked, not that he would return to you for your sake, but that he would be saved for his own soul. We ask that the seeds you planted when you tried to open his eyes would bear fruit and that the Lord would bring other believers across his path to share the gospel, for we know that faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ. Romans 10:17
We also bring your business before the Lord. We understand the pressure you feel with so many financial needs this month and feeling that this is your only option for income. We pray for His provision and for your business to be profitable through diligent and honest work. But seek first God's Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33 My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 We pray for wisdom in stewardship, for open doors, and for peace as you trust Him rather than being anxious. In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. Philippians 4:6
We pray together now.
Father in heaven, we come before You only through the name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved and have access to Your throne of grace. We thank You for this dear one who has turned from darkness to Your marvelous light. We ask You to heal and comfort her cat, to relieve his allergies and keep him from harm, and to watch over all her pets and her loved ones. Draw each of her loved ones to Yourself, save those who are lost and deepen the faith of those who know You. Lord, we ask You to break the power of every divination thought and every lingering influence of the new age. We renounce those things with her now and we ask You to cleanse her mind, to silence the intrusive thoughts about her ex, and to fill her with Your truth and peace. Help her to walk in forgiveness and obedience and to take every thought captive to Christ. Keep her from returning to an unequally yoked relationship, and guard her heart with hope in You alone. Save her ex and his loved ones, bring them to true repentance and faith if it is Your will, but give her strength to wait for a godly spouse if You call her to marriage. Provide for her business and her financial needs this month, grant her wisdom, diligence, and Your favor, and let her see Your faithful hand. We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.