We hear your deep concern for your daughter’s safety, both emotionally and spiritually, and we stand with you in lifting her up before the Lord. The confusion and emotional turmoil she is experiencing are not of God, for He is not the author of chaos but of peace (1 Corinthians 14:33). The mention of santera or black magic is deeply troubling, as Scripture is clear that we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12). These practices are an abomination to the Lord (Deuteronomy 18:10-12), and we must take this seriously, rebuking any influence of darkness in Jesus’ name.
First, we must address the relationship itself. If this man is causing your daughter such distress and confusion, it is a sign that this connection is not aligned with God’s will for her life. The Bible warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), and if this man is involved in or even tolerating occult practices, he is not walking in the light of Christ. We must pray that your daughter’s eyes are opened to the truth of his influence over her life and that she finds the strength to walk away completely, cutting off all contact. The enemy often uses emotional attachments to keep us bound, but in Christ, she has the power to break free (John 8:36).
We also rebuke any spiritual oppression or demonic influence that may be at work in this situation. The name of Jesus is above every name, and at His name, every knee must bow (Philippians 2:9-10). We command any spirit of confusion, deception, or fear to flee from your daughter in the mighty name of Jesus. We declare that she is covered by the blood of Christ, and no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The Lord is her refuge and fortress, and He will deliver her from the snare of the fowler (Psalm 91:2-3).
Father God, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious daughter to You. Lord, we ask that You would surround her with Your angels, protecting her mind, heart, and spirit from every scheme of the enemy. Give her clarity and wisdom to see this situation for what it truly is, a snare meant to draw her away from You. Strengthen her resolve to break free from this toxic relationship and to cut off all ties with this man. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Lord, we declare that she is Your beloved child, and no power of darkness can prevail against her when she is walking in Your truth. Renew her mind with Your Word, and let her find her identity and worth in You alone. We pray for a hedge of protection around her, that no evil would come near her dwelling (Psalm 91:10). Father, we also pray for repentance and salvation for this man if he does not know You, that he would turn from these dark practices and come into the light of Your love. But if he is unrepentant, we ask that You remove him from her life completely. Give her the courage to walk away and the faith to trust You with her future. In the powerful name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.
We encourage your daughter to immerse herself in Scripture, particularly in the Psalms, where she can find comfort and strength in God’s promises. She should also seek fellowship with other believers who can pray with her and support her during this time. The enemy thrives in isolation, but where two or more are gathered in Jesus’ name, He is there in the midst of them (Matthew 18:20). If she has not already, she must renounce any involvement or curiosity she may have had with occult practices, even if it was unintentional. She should confess this to the Lord, asking for His forgiveness and cleansing (1 John 1:9), and then fill her mind and heart with the truth of God’s Word.
We also urge you, as her parent, to stand in the gap for her in prayer. Intercede on her behalf, declaring God’s promises over her life and rebuking any spiritual attacks. The enemy may try to use this situation to bring fear, but perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:18). Remind her that God has not given her a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). Encourage her to seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature Christian who can help her navigate this season with wisdom.
Lastly, we want to remind both of you that salvation is found in no one else but Jesus Christ (Acts 4:12). It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and it is only by His blood that we are cleansed from sin. If your daughter has not yet surrendered her life to Christ, now is the time. She must confess with her mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in her heart that God raised Him from the dead, and she will be saved (Romans 10:9). This is the foundation of her protection and victory in every area of her life. We pray that she would come to know Him more deeply and experience the freedom that is found only in Him.