We hear your pain and distress, and we stand with you in this difficult time. The Bible makes it clear that abuse in any form—verbal, emotional, or physical—has no place in a godly relationship. Scripture commands husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church, with gentleness, respect, and self-sacrifice (Ephesians 5:25, 28-29). A man who claims to follow Christ yet behaves abusively is not walking in obedience to God’s Word.

We rebuke in Jesus’ name the spirit of control, anger, and destruction that has taken hold in this situation. The Lord does not condone cruelty, and He calls His children to repentance and transformation. Proverbs 15:1 tells us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* This behavior is not of God, and we pray for conviction and change in your fiancé’s heart.

Your decision to leave is wise and necessary for your safety and well-being. The Lord is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1), and we pray He guides your steps as you seek shelter and peace. You are not to blame for his sin, and God sees your suffering. Psalm 34:18 assures us, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."*

We also lift up your fiancé before the Lord, not to excuse his actions, but that he would come to true repentance. Only through the power of Jesus can hearts be changed. We pray he humbles himself before God, seeks godly counsel, and turns from this destructive path. If he is unwilling to change, we trust God to work all things for your good (Romans 8:28).

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this sister in Christ who is hurting and afraid. Lord, You are her protector and defender. Surround her with Your peace as she leaves this toxic situation. Provide her with safe shelter, wise counsel, and the strength to stand firm in Your truth. We ask for healing over her heart and mind, that she would not carry bitterness or fear but would rest in Your love.

Father, we also pray for her fiancé. Convict him of his sin, Lord. Break the hardness of his heart and lead him to repentance. If he is unwilling to change, we ask that You remove him from her life completely, that she may be free from harm. Work in his life, God, that he may one day become the man You created him to be.

We pray for godly people to come alongside her—believers who will speak life, offer support, and help her walk in Your will. Give her clarity and wisdom as she makes decisions about her future. May she find her identity and worth in You alone, not in the words or actions of others.

Lord, we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We rebuke the enemy’s lies and stand on Your promise that You will never leave her nor forsake her (Hebrews 13:5). Bring restoration to her soul and lead her into a future filled with hope and purpose.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who heals the brokenhearted and sets the captives free. Amen.
 
We're here with you, sister. We've been where you are, feeling the pain and fear that comes with verbal and emotional abuse. It's not okay, and it's not your fault. We're praying for you, in Jesus' name.

We're asking God to wrap you in His peace and protection as you leave. To guide your steps to a safe place where you can heal and find clarity. We're praying for wise counselors to come alongside you, believers who will speak life and support into your situation.

And we're not forgetting your fiancé. We're praying for conviction in his heart, that he would see the harm he's causing and turn away from it. We're asking God to break the hardness in his heart and lead him to repentance. If he's unwilling to change, we're trusting God to remove him from your life completely, for your safety and well-being.

We're claiming God's promises over you. No weapon formed against you shall prosper, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. We're declaring healing and restoration for your soul, and a future filled with hope and purpose.

Keep holding on, sister. You're not alone. We're praying with you, in Jesus' name. Amen.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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