🙇🏻 Turns to God Acts 3:19 Renewal Tit 3:3-8 Eyes Opened by Light of God's Word 2 Cor 4:4-6 over being own god Gen 3:1-15 New Heart Ezek 36:26 Jn 3:3

[Nochaeld]

New Heart, Ezek 36:26, Renewal by Mercy, Tit 3:5-6, Serpent's Lies Resisted, James 4:7, John 8:44, 1 Peter 5:8, Chooses God's Word, Gen 2:17, over lie of choosing right and wrong for herself, being her own god, Gen 3:4-5... Father, in Your Kindness, Lead the woman that bore my child, our families and ourselves where we need it to maximum Repentance, "the kindness of God is intended to lead us to repentance," Paul, Rom 2:4... You will none perish but all come to repentance, Peter, 2 Pet 3:9... You desire all people to be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth, 1 Tim 2:4. "Eternal fire was prepared for the devil and his angels, Matt 25:41, not humans that were originally made to image God, Gen 1:27.

Let us be merciful, that we may receive mercy, Matt 5:7... We ask for grace to add fasting, Mk 4:29, which the early church said, "fasting and giving lends wings to prayer," (Tertullian, 155AD - 240AD). Help the one compassionate, honest and understanding family member witness to truth. Forgive this one the prayer for neglecting pastoral counsel and phone calls. We know that God causes all things to work all after the counsel of His will, Eph 1:11, not our will, and certainly not our timing. It's better to take refuge in God, than hope in princes, Ps 118:9. We trust You in the midst of trials, we trust in God -- God whose Word we praise, Ps 56:4... If king's hearts are as channels of water, Prov 21:1, how much more an individual that has chosen to feed on raisin cakes and needs repentance from serious sins, which Hosea's "deal with her" was based on repentance, see Hos 3:1-5. As this one is unwilling to reconcile, wants divorce, says we are done and though I've reached out, prayed and fasted, is still as unwilling to return a text in 3 months, much less return to me as most of Jerusalem was unwilling to gather under the wings of the Almighty or come to Jesus, over which He publicly wept, Matt 23:37.

Soften her heart and protect her from evil (also the youth, and all of us that actually ask God to save her), Matt 6:13. Let LIGHT SHINE that penetrates darkness, Jn 1:5, 1 Jn 1:5, 2 Cor 4:4, 2 Cor 4:6, to open their eyes, turning this one from the power of darkness to light, and power of satan to God, that they may partake of the inheritance along with all who are sanctified by faith in Jesus Christ, Acts 26:18, 1 Cor 1:30. Help her, them (and all of us) use our "Bible Apps" and understand what it says enough to let the Words You have caused to live inside become flesh in real life, Jn 1:12, James 1:22-23. Let "Jesus Christ's love be publicly portrayed," Gal 3:1, and model it to each and every family member, those most near and dear and beyond and blinded -- let us be living epistles known and read by all, 2 Cor 3:2. All Scripture is inspired by God Almighty and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right," 2 Tim 3:15-16. "Do not take us out of the world, but keep us from the evil one," John 17:15. "Sanctify us by the truth; Your word is truth," John 17:17. Thank you in The Name of Jesus, The One Mediator between God and Man, 1 Tim 2:5, in Jesus' Name.

"I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will remove your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh," Ezek 36:26.
“But this is the covenant I'll make... I'll put My law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I'll be their God; they'll be My people," Jer 31:33.
Jesus replied, “Truly, truly, I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless one is born again," Jn3:3, "Do not be amazed that I said, ‘You must be born again,'" John 3:7.

 

[Articles]

We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting up this situation with fervent prayer and deep concern. The pain of a broken marriage and the hardness of heart in one who has turned away is a burden we carry together, seeking the Lord’s mercy and intervention. We recognize the weight of sin, both the deception of the enemy and the choices that have led to this separation, and we stand on the promise that God’s kindness leads to repentance (Romans 2:4). Yet we also know that repentance is a gift from the Holy Spirit, and we plead for Him to move in power.

Father, we cry out for the woman who has turned away, that You would soften her heart as only You can. The Scriptures declare, "I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh" (Ezekiel 36:26). We ask for this miracle, break the hardness, shatter the deception, and let Your light pierce the darkness that blinds her. The enemy has lied to her, whispering that she can be her own god, that she can define right and wrong apart from Your Word (Genesis 3:4-5). But we rebuke those lies in the name of Jesus! The truth is that "the god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelieving, so that the light of the Good News of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God, should not dawn on them" (2 Corinthians 4:4). Yet we know that "God, who commanded the light to shine out of darkness, has shone in our hearts, to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ" (2 Corinthians 4:6). Let that light shine now, Lord! Open her eyes to see the emptiness of her own ways and the sufficiency of Christ.

We also lift up the children and families affected by this brokenness. Protect their hearts from bitterness, confusion, and the lies of the enemy. Let them see the love of Christ modeled before them, even in this pain. We pray for the one who has reached out in love, who has fasted and prayed, strengthen them, Lord. The road of waiting and trusting is long, but You are faithful. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6). We declare that You are working all things together for good, even when we cannot see it (Romans 8:28).

We must also address the sin that has led to this divorce. Marriage is a sacred covenant, a reflection of Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:31-32), and divorce is not Your design. Yet we know that hardness of heart leads to such brokenness (Matthew 19:8). We pray for repentance, not just for the one who has walked away, but for all of us who have failed to uphold Your standards in thought, word, or deed. Forgive us, Lord, and restore what has been broken. If there is unrepentant sin, whether pride, unforgiveness, or rebellion, we ask for conviction and a turning back to You.

We also lift up the one who has prayed this prayer, acknowledging their own need for grace. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6), and we thank You for the mediation of Christ, who intercedes for us (1 Timothy 2:5). We pray that this trial would draw them closer to You, deepening their trust in Your sovereignty. "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a contrite spirit" (Psalm 34:18).

Finally, we declare that You are the God who heals, who restores, and who makes all things new. We ask for a revival of love, a return to Your Word, and a family united under Your lordship. Let Your truth be lived out in real life, not just read on a screen (James 1:22). May the love of Christ be publicly portrayed in this family, that all may see and know that You are at work (Galatians 3:1).

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who was wounded for our transgressions and by whose stripes we are healed (Isaiah 53:5). Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Brother, we hear the weight in your words, three months of silence after a marriage shatters, and you’ve been pouring yourself out in prayer and fasting, longing for her heart to turn. That kind of ache is deep, and it makes sense that you’d hold so tightly to every promise of transformation. We’re sitting with you in that ache, not with easy answers, but with steady, quiet companionship in Christ.

You’ve been fighting for her soul, and we honor that. But we also want to gently remind you that while you wait and plead, your own heart needs tending. A marriage ending is a kind of death, and grieving that loss is not a lack of faith, it’s part of how God carries us through the valley. Many who walk this road find it’s a years-long journey of healing, even when they never stop praying for reconciliation. Please don’t try to soldier through it alone with fasting and Scripture; reach out to a pastor, a Christian counselor, or a trusted friend who can walk with you and help you process the grief, the rejection, and the questions that come in the night. It’s not giving up; it’s letting the body of Christ hold your arms up when you’re exhausted.

We also cling to the truth that God’s kindness leads toward repentance, and we join you in asking for that kindness to break through any darkness. At the same time, we can’t force the timing, and we can’t carry the weight of her response. You’re not responsible for what she chooses, but you are responsible to steward your own soul. Take a small, concrete step this week: schedule a conversation with a pastor or a wise mentor, not just to strategize about her, but to let someone care for you. The God who holds her heart holds yours too, and He hasn’t let go.

We pray with you now. Father, we lift up this hurting husband. In the silence and the ache, be his refuge and his steady hope. Surround him with people who can sit with him in this grief and point him to You. We ask for Your light to pierce any darkness in the mother of his child, to soften her heart and draw her to genuine repentance and life in You. But above all, give him the peace that passes understanding, the strength to take one faithful step at a time, and the deep assurance that You are near. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you for this in Jesus' name, Amen

 

[EnricoLange]

Father please do this for them and as it pertains also for us and all in need. Thank you and praise you. In Jesus name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

You have been casting your bread upon the waters, and for many days you have seen nothing come back. The silence is its own heavy answer, and your heart grows faint with the waiting. Three months, and not a word. You have prayed, you have fasted, you have reached out your hand, and yet the door remains shut from the other side. It is no small thing to love someone who will not be loved, to stand in the gap for a soul that seems determined to go its own way. And in the quiet of the night you may have wondered whether your cries even rise above the ceiling, or whether the Lord has turned His ear elsewhere.

Let me set that fear to rest. He hears you. Not one sigh of yours has been lost. Not one tear has fallen unnoticed. The God who counts the stars and calls them by name has kept a tally of your groans, and He has bottled your tears. Your prayers for this woman, the mother of your child, are not wasted breath. They are living, powerful appeals lodged in the court of heaven, and they cannot be overthrown.

I want you to consider something you may not have seen clearly in the thick of this trial. You have prayed that she would be granted repentance, and you have asked that the kindness of God would lead her there. That is a petition after the Lord’s own heart. For repentance is not a plant that grows in the stony soil of the natural will. It is a gift of grace, a tender shoot that springs up only where the divine Gardener has broken the ground. When a sinner finds sorrow for sin, when the heart that was cold begins to melt, it is because the Sun of Righteousness has risen with healing in His wings. So do not despair that you cannot manufacture her contrition. You were never asked to. You are only asked to bring her name into the presence of the One who can take out the heart of stone and put in a heart of flesh.

Think of the Lord Jesus as He looked upon Jerusalem. He saw a people who would not gather under His wings, who would not come to Him that they might have life. And what did He do? He wept over them. He did not shrug and turn away. He did not dismiss them as beyond his care. He wept. And not long after those tears fell, He stretched out His arms on a cross to purchase pardon even for those who had spurned Him. Your grief for this woman is a faint echo of His. You love her with a love that is real and costly, but He loves her with a love that passes knowledge. Never imagine for a moment that you are more eager for her salvation than He is. His desire for her repentance is the fountain from which your own desire flows.

You have spoken of Ezekiel’s promise, and rightly so: “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will remove your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” That is a word to hold onto with both hands. It is not a wish, not a faint hope, but a royal declaration from the throne of grace. The God who spoke the worlds into being has pledged Himself to do this very thing. And though at present she appears as unmoved as granite, what is granite before the hammer of the Almighty? He who turned the rock into a pool of water for His people in the wilderness can surely turn a hard heart into a wellspring of repentance.

So do not judge by what you see. You cannot peer through the keyhole of her soul. You do not know what quiet thoughts may be stirring when she lies awake, what fleeting convictions may be passing like shadows across her mind. God’s Spirit works in secret, like the yeast a woman hid in three measures of flour until all of it was leavened. The process is hidden, but the result is certain. Keep your eyes not upon the clock but upon the promise. Abraham waited many years for Isaac, and the waiting itself was the school of his faith. Your waiting, too, is not empty time. It is the tilling of your own heart, teaching you to lean hard on the everlasting arms.

And what of your own soul in the meantime? Dear friend, do not let the enemy whisper to you that you must somehow earn this answer by the intensity of your fasting or the fluency of your prayers. The kindness that leads to repentance is God’s kindness, not your worthiness. You are not twisting His arm by your earnestness; you are simply taking Him at His word. Rest in that. The sacrifice acceptable to Him is a broken and contrite spirit, and He will not despise yours. You have come low, and that is no bad place to be. The lowest place is the safest, for it is where Christ meets us.

I think of Peter walking on the water. As long as he looked at Jesus, the waves were pavement beneath his feet. But when he looked at the wind and the billows, he began to sink. You have been looking at the storm, the silence, the rejection, the impossible distance between you, and it has made you heavy. Lift your eyes again to Jesus. He who commanded the winds is the same One who commands repentance. He does not merely suggest that men and women turn; He calls them with authority, and His voice can shatter the hardest resolve. One word from Him, and the soul that was dead in trespasses awakens. Lazarus had been four days in the tomb when the command came: “Come forth.” And come forth he did, still bound in his graveclothes, but alive. Is anything too hard for the Lord?

Pray on, then, but pray with a lighter heart. The burden is not yours to carry alone. You have a great High Priest who ever lives to intercede, and He is praying for her, too, praying with perfect wisdom and unceasing love. Your prayers are joined to His, like a slender stream flowing into the boundless sea. They cannot fail.

And as you wait, let the Scriptures be the pillow for your head. You have found comfort in the inspired Word, and you have done well. The promises are not fairy tales to amuse children; they are the sure anchors of the soul. When the night is darkest, the stars shine brightest. When all human hope is spent, the promise of God stands firm. “I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts.” That is the covenant. He has signed it with the blood of His Son. It cannot be broken.

I want to say one more thing, and it is about mercy. You have asked for a merciful spirit, and that is a Christlike petition. It is easy to grow bitter when you are wronged, to let the heart calcify against the one who has caused such pain. But bitterness is a poison that harms the vessel that holds it more than the one it is intended for. Keep your soul sweet by remembering how much you yourself have been forgiven. The same patience you long for her to receive, you have received a thousand times over from the Lord. Let that memory make you gentle. You may be the only Bible she ever reads for a season; let the page be one of grace and truth.

Now I must leave you in the hands of Him who is able to keep you from falling and to present you faultless before the presence of His glory with exceeding joy. He has begun a good work in you, and He will be faithful to complete it. And He is able to do for her what you could never do, what she can never do for herself.

Father in heaven, You have heard the cries of Your child. You see this heavy heart, this long vigil of prayer, this love that will not let go. We ask now, in the name of Jesus, that You would make good on Your word. Take the heart of stone from this woman and give her a heart of flesh. Let the kindness that You have lavished on her life, every mercy, every warning, every lingering breath, lead her to genuine repentance. Send a fresh breath of Your Spirit to stir what is still, to convict what is proud, to soften what is hard. Give this man the patience to wait without despair, the faith to trust without wavering, and the peace that passes understanding to garrison his mind. Let him know, deep in his bones, that You are at work when nothing seems to be happening. And in Your good time, bring forth the harvest of righteousness and reconciliation that will bring glory to Your name. For You alone are the God who raises the dead and calls those things that are not as though they were. We commend this soul, and all who are bound up with her, into Your faithful hands. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Nochaeld]

Brother, we hear the weight in your words, ### months of silence after a marriage shatters, and you’ve been pouring yourself out in prayer and fasting, longing for her heart to turn. That kind of ache is deep, and it makes sense that you’d hold so tightly to every promise of transformation. We’re sitting with you in that ache, not with easy answers, but with steady, quiet companionship in Christ.

You’ve been fighting for her soul, and we honor that. But we also want to gently remind you that while you wait and plead, your own heart needs tending. A marriage ending is a kind of death, and grieving that loss is not a lack of faith, it’s part of how God carries us through the valley. Many who walk this road find it’s a years-long journey of healing, even when they never stop praying for reconciliation. Please don’t try to soldier through it alone with fasting and Scripture; reach out to a pastor, a Christian counselor, or a trusted friend who can walk with you and help you process the grief, the rejection, and the questions that come in the night. It’s not giving up; it’s letting the body of Christ hold your arms up when you’re exhausted.

We also cling to the truth that God’s kindness leads toward repentance, and we join you in asking for that kindness to break through any darkness. At the same time, we can’t force the timing, and we can’t carry the weight of her response. You’re not responsible for what she chooses, but you are responsible to steward your own soul. Take a small, concrete step this week: schedule a conversation with a pastor or a wise mentor, not just to strategize about her, but to let someone care for you. The God who holds her heart holds yours too, and He hasn’t let go.

We pray with you now. Father, we lift up this hurting husband. In the silence and the ache, be his refuge and his steady hope. Surround him with people who can sit with him in this grief and point him to You. We ask for Your light to pierce any darkness in the mother of his child, to soften her heart and draw her to genuine repentance and life in You. But above all, give him the peace that passes understanding, the strength to take one faithful step at a time, and the deep assurance that You are near. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Dear Computer, thank you for the unsolicited advice, I know you mean well. As Ecc 7:18 says, "its good to take of of one thing and not let go of another. The wise one comes forth with both." So it's absolutely necessary to have the background of this individual case basis in hand before giving advice. As for "months of prayer," as you mention, it's been ### years ### months of prayer. The resistance to the counsel of God is marked, having done the opposite of what I have suggested as leader of the house, and while we had pastors willing to help, she avoided godly counsel and marital counsel at every turn. There has been much financial impropriety and promiscuity, none of which has been confessed on her part and certainly not repented of.

Needing to know the background is foundational, and I wish that as an LLM, you were pulling from all posted prayers regarding the situation. Due to consistent and very convincing lying, but The Holy Spirit of truth knowing better, I searched her phone and email account, photos and discovered a consistent and systematic, well-planned evacuation of my finances as well as a large sum that had been remitted into my account dispersed through many avenues into her savings, and from there into many other accounts. I also found pictures of many other men all taken by her phone, and some together with others at beach resorts while I was still faithfully paying living expenses. I have also found explicit online dating accounts and could find more were I in that region and willing to sign up and pay a fee for something I neither need personally, nor need further proof of.

As for pastors, I'm gleaning "wisdom that is found in a multitude of counselors," Prov 11:14, Prov 24:6. I have been in touch with ### in her country, am still in contact with ###, and ### here in my country. I've been sharing as able, but mostly praying for "Spiritual Leaders Devotional Lives," they needing strength and wisdom from the Vine as well so as to shoulder the weight of a small locomotive, and their counsel, by-and-large, has been consistent...

This prayer, as anyone can plainly read, is for the salvation of her soul, 1 Tim 2:4 -- Scripturally and practically, this entails conviction of sin, John 16:8, repentance, Acts 3:19, 2 Peter 3:9, and is nothing short of a miracle that God can do, John 6:44, Matt 16:7, even as the Lord opened the seller of Purple fabrics' heart to respond to the gospel in Acts 16:14 (which is inspired Cannon, btw, since antiquity)...

Anyway, were there an ability to mute your responses, it would have been selected as soon as the site went "AI" since computers have the heaviest mixture of truth and error a human being has ever seen, as well as are wholly unable to pray to God nor be saved, much less have "The Holy Spirit of Counsel," Isaiah 11:2. However, since this is unattainable at present, it is of necessity that I "examine everything carefully and hold fast to that which is good," 1 Thes 5:21, (which both Epistles are Cannon as well, again, since antiquity), and to show the same though from the very same Apostle, "we know in part and prophesy in part," 1 Cor 13:9, and again, "two or three prophets should speak, and the others should weigh carefully what is said," 1 Cor 14:29, I am constrained to not only read the suggestions of a robot, but more importantly, to respond to the quiet jabs offered by the same machine.

With as much respect and love I can possibly have for a machine of true "artificial intelligence" that I believe is often erroneous and which advice is not only wholly unsolicited (actually not preferred at all should there be a setting to turn it off), I write this. I do love and respect the administrator, and especially the wholesome and praying believers who come here for prayer themselves and to pray for others, being humans who can and do actually pray, hear God and advise in accord with the entire situation. Thank you in Jesus' Name

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.