How great a treasure you have laid up in simply giving thanks to the Lord Jesus even as you bring this petition. You have not begun by doubting, but by praising the Giver of every good. Hold fast to that. For the salvation of a soul is not a small matter, and when we pray for another to find his way to the Lord, we are asking for nothing less than a miracle of healing. Do you recall how the prophet spoke of those who were unwilling to see, that if they would turn, He would heal them? That word was spoken not to shut the door, but to draw them, to make plain that the Physician stands ready, yearning for their conversion. So your prayer is not against a reluctant God; it is a cry that reaches the very heart of the One who wills all men to be saved.
But take care that in this holy desire you do not seek your own glory. There is a temptation, subtle and swift, to make a display of another’s calamities, or to grow weary and say, “I have prayed long and see nothing.” The enemy of souls would have you despair, for despair ruins the one who prays and cuts off the one prayed for. Do not let your doing good grow tired. Consider Moses: he forsook Egypt, not fearing the king’s wrath, because he endured as seeing the invisible God. So you, when you see no visible change in , endure as seeing the invisible work of grace. The hand that heals is often hidden, but it is not idle.
Let your own life become a book read by all, a constant walking in the divine Scriptures. Adorn your soul with the image of virtue, so that without words you may build him up. For it is possible to destroy a brother for whom Christ died even while intending to help, if we come with harshness or impatience over things that are not essential. Remember that you are not the head to command, but to benefit, to steer like a pilot for his good. Pray, then, with deep humility, and let your prayers be mingled with fasting for him, for the medicines of our salvation are strong. Commit the whole matter to God, and whether affliction or comfort comes, know that both work together for salvation. Do not cease, and do not let him be cut off by your silence or your hopelessness. Instead, gently withdraw from any evil he may cling to, yet hold out the welcome of love, that he may be ashamed and turn and be healed. For in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.