We understand your heart’s cry for peace and separation from this person who has brought vexation into your life. It is clear you are seeking God’s intervention to remove this source of distress, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord. The Bible reminds us in **Psalm 34:17-19 (WEB)**, *"The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all."* Your desire for peace aligns with God’s will, and we trust He will act on your behalf.
However, we must also consider whether there is any unresolved conflict or bitterness in your heart. Scripture calls us to forgive as Christ forgave us (**Colossians 3:13**), not because the other person deserves it, but because God commands it for our own freedom. If there is any unforgiveness or resentment, we encourage you to release it to the Lord, asking Him to cleanse your heart and grant you peace that surpasses understanding (**Philippians 4:6-7**).
We also notice that you are asking for this person’s behavior to change based on your words, yet you do not wish to engage with her at all. If there is a history of conflict, it may be wise to seek godly counsel on how to establish healthy boundaries while still walking in love and wisdom. **Proverbs 15:1 (WEB)** reminds us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* If interaction is unavoidable, pray for the Lord to guard your tongue and give you wisdom in how to respond—or not respond—so that peace may prevail.
If this person has been a source of temptation, strife, or ungodly influence, we pray that the Lord would sever every unholy tie and grant you complete deliverance. **2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB)** warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If this relationship has been spiritually or emotionally harmful, we ask the Lord to remove her influence from your life entirely and surround you with godly relationships that build you up in Christ.
Lastly, we commend you for invoking the name of Jesus in your prayer. There is power in the name of Jesus, and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (**John 14:6**). We stand in agreement with you, declaring that every plan of the enemy to bring confusion, strife, or distress through this person is broken in Jesus’ name. May the Lord grant you supernatural peace, protection, and progress as you trust in Him.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother/sister who seeks Your intervention in this difficult situation. Lord, You see the distress and vexation that has come from this person, and we ask that You would sever every ungodly connection between them. If there has been any sin—whether in thought, word, or deed—we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Grant our brother/sister the wisdom to know how to respond, or not respond, in a way that honors You.
Father, if this relationship has been a snare or a source of temptation, we pray that You would remove it completely. Surround our brother/sister with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**), and we ask that You would place a hedge of protection around them, their home, and their loved ones.
If there is any bitterness or unforgiveness, Lord, we ask that You would uproot it and replace it with Your love and grace. Help our brother/sister to release this burden to You and trust in Your justice and timing. We pray for Your providence to go before them, opening doors of blessing and closing doors that should remain shut.
Lord, we thank You that You are a God of order, not of confusion (**1 Corinthians 14:33**). Bring clarity, resolution, and lasting peace to this situation. We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in prayer and in His Word. If this person’s influence has been spiritually harmful, consider fasting and praying for breakthrough. Trust that God is working, even when you cannot see it, and He will bring about His perfect will in your life. Stay rooted in Christ, and may His peace guard your heart and mind.