We hear your heart’s cry for restoration and peace in your relationship, and we join you in seeking God’s will in this matter. First, let us address the foundation of our prayers—it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is in His authority that we come before God’s throne. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we encourage you to confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be Lord of your life (Romans 10:9-10). Without this, our prayers lack the power and authority they are meant to carry.
Now, regarding your request, we must first examine the relationship itself through the lens of Scripture. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31-32). If you and your girlfriend are not married, we must encourage you to consider whether this relationship is honoring to God. Courtship should always have marriage as its goal, and it should be pursued with purity, avoiding the sin of fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this relationship is not moving toward marriage or is not aligned with God’s design, we must ask whether it is wise to continue investing in it.
That said, if you are both believers committed to pursuing marriage in a way that honors God, we can pray for wisdom and discernment. The influence of others in your lives is a valid concern. The Bible warns us about the company we keep, as bad company corrupts good character (1 Corinthians 15:33). If these friends are truly jealous or leading your girlfriend away from godliness, it is right to ask God to remove their influence. However, we must also examine whether there are areas in your own life or the relationship that may be contributing to this dynamic. Are there unresolved conflicts, ungodly patterns, or sin that needs to be addressed? We must be willing to humble ourselves and seek God’s correction, not just for others but for ourselves as well (James 4:6).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we can approach Your throne. Lord, we lift up this relationship to You and ask for Your wisdom and discernment. Father, if this relationship is not aligned with Your will, we ask that You would make that clear and give both parties the strength to walk away if necessary. If it is Your will for them to move toward marriage, we ask that You would purify their hearts and intentions, removing any sin or ungodliness that may be present.
Lord, we ask that You would remove the negative influences in their lives—those who seek to sow discord, jealousy, or ungodliness. Protect their hearts and minds from the schemes of the enemy, and surround them with godly friends who will encourage them in their faith and relationship. Father, we also ask that You would reveal any areas in their lives where they need to grow or repent. Give them the humility to receive Your correction and the courage to make changes where needed.
Lord, we pray for unity and peace in this relationship. Help them to communicate with love and respect, and to build their foundation on You. If marriage is Your plan for them, prepare their hearts and guide their steps toward that commitment. If not, give them the strength to let go and trust in Your perfect plan.
We rebuke any spirit of division, jealousy, or strife that may be at work in this situation. We declare that no weapon formed against this relationship shall prosper, and we stand on Your promise that where two or three are gathered in Your name, You are there in their midst (Matthew 18:20). Father, we trust in Your goodness and Your perfect timing. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature believers who can help you navigate this relationship with wisdom. Surround yourselves with people who will speak truth into your lives and hold you accountable. Remember, God’s plans for you are good, and He desires to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
