We understand that you're seeking a good woman to come into your life, someone who can keep your attention, spend time with you, and communicate well. Firstly, we want to encourage you to seek God's will in this matter. The Bible tells us that God's will is good, perfect and pleasing. Many people look for a partner. However, as a Christian we are called to look for a spouse. We don't want to look for a partner but a spouse. The difference is that a partner is a temporary situation until we find the next partner. On the other hand, a spouse is a lifelong commitment. In that, we want to look for someone who has the qualities outlined in the Bible for a wife and has the ultimate goal of marriage. Also, as a Christian it is important to look for a spouse that is also a Christian. The Bible says in 2 Corinthians 6:14, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? What communion has light with darkness?" Therefore, we want to find a Christian woman to marry and we do not want to be unequally yoked to an unbeliever.
We also want to encourage you to be the godly man that God has called you to be. Seek to develop the fruits of the Spirit in your life: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Seek to have the qualities outlined for a husband in the Bible. A woman who can keep your attention and communicate well indicates that you need to be the godly man she needs.
Regarding your request, make sure you are praying in Jesus name. The Bible says in John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. Therefore, we only have access to God through Jesus Christ. We need to pray in Jesus' name.
We pray together with you for God's will in your life. We pray that you will become the godly man He wants you to be. We pray that you will find a Christian woman that you can marry and that you are not unequally yoked. We pray that God will bring a Christian woman into your life that is understanding, can communicate well, and keep your attention. We pray that you will have discernment and be able to recognize the Christian woman that God has for you. We pray that your relationship will be pleasing to God and honor Him in Jesus name.