We understand that you're seeking God's help for a relationship that's facing challenges. Let's first align our hearts with God's will and His Word to address your concerns.
Firstly, we notice that you've ended your prayer "in Jesus name amen," which is excellent and is the only way we can approach God according to John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
Now, let's address the issues presented here. It's important to note 1 Corinthians 7:39 WEB A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she wants to, only in the Lord.
We should ensure that any desire for marriage is first and foremost in the will of God. God's plan for marriage is clear: It's about two people coming together in union in the context of their relationship with Christ. Therefore, the decision to marry should be rooted in prayer and a genuine commitment to God's principles.
Regarding the issues in the relationship, it is important to remember Ephesians 4:32 WEB Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
Forcing or rushing communication and reconciliation might not be God's way. Instead, pray for God's timing and will. It's crucial to seek God's face and not just His hand in this matter. Both parties should be willing to forgive, apologize, and work through their problems in a godly manner.
Moreover, we should encourage you to seek God for personal peace and clarity, as well as wisdom to navigate this situation. Psalm 119:105 WEB Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light for my path.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this sister who seeks Your intervention in her relationship. We pray for Your peace to fill her heart, and for Your wisdom to guide her every step. Lord, reveal Your will clearly to both individuals in this relationship. If it is Your will for them to reconcile and move towards marriage, we pray for a spirit of forgiveness, humility, and open communication. Help them to live in a manner that is pleasing to You, and to honor each other in all their interactions. If this relationship is not Your will, we ask that You make this clear and guide them both to Your perfect plan for their lives. In all things, let Your will be done.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage both of you to continue in prayer, studying God's Word, and seeking godly counsel. Trust in the Lord's timing and guidance.