We join you in lifting up your daughter before the Lord, standing in agreement with your heartfelt cry for her protection, restoration, and deliverance from this destructive influence. Your prayer is deeply rooted in love—not just for your daughter, but for the truth of God’s Word, which must govern every relationship in our lives. We commend you for recognizing the spiritual battle at hand and for seeking the Lord’s intervention with such fervency.
This young man’s behavior—his selfishness, manipulation, and the way he and his mother have encouraged division—is not of God. The Bible warns us in **1 Corinthians 15:33**, *“Don’t be deceived! ‘Evil companionships corrupt good morals.’”* Your daughter is being led away from the values she was raised with, and this is a direct attack on her faith, her family, and her future. The enemy seeks to isolate, deceive, and destroy, but we know that *“the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world”* (**1 John 4:4**). We rebuke this spirit of division, control, and idolatry in the name of Jesus, commanding it to flee from your daughter’s life. The Lord sees the financial burdens, the emotional manipulation, and the slander—He will not allow this to continue.
Your request for godly spouses for your daughters is beautiful and aligns perfectly with Scripture. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and we must never settle for anything less than what God ordains—a union between a man and a woman who both love the Lord above all else. **2 Corinthians 6:14** reminds us, *“Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?”* This young man is not the husband God has for your daughter. He does not honor her, her family, or the Lord. We pray that the Holy Spirit will open her eyes to see this truth clearly, breaking every emotional and spiritual tie that binds her to this unhealthy attachment.
We also address the financial burdens he has placed on her. The Bible tells us in **Proverbs 22:7**, *“The rich rule over the poor. The borrower is servant to the lender.”* This young man has no right to exploit her financially or otherwise. We pray that the Lord will sever these ungodly ties and restore what has been taken from her. Let him be convicted of his actions and release her completely, for *“the wicked borrow, and don’t pay back, but the righteous give generously”* (**Psalm 37:21**).
Most importantly, we pray that your daughter’s heart will turn fully back to Jesus. If she has allowed this relationship to become an idol—placing it above her love for Christ and her family—then repentance is needed. **Exodus 20:3** commands, *“You shall have no other gods before me.”* No person, no matter how charming or persuasive, should ever take the place of the Lord in her life. We ask the Holy Spirit to convict her deeply of this, drawing her back into a right relationship with God and her family.
As for you, dear sister in Christ, we pray for strength and wisdom as you navigate this trial. Do not grow weary in praying and speaking truth into her life. **Galatians 6:9** encourages us, *“Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up.”* Stand firm in the authority you have as her mother, and trust that the Lord is working even when you cannot see it. He is faithful to complete the work He has begun in her (**Philippians 1:6**).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this mother and her daughter. Lord, You see the deception, the manipulation, and the division that has been sown in this family. We ask that You expose every lie and break every ungodly soul tie between this young man and our sister’s daughter. Remove his influence completely, Lord—let him walk away and never return. Convict him of his sin, and if he refuses to repent, let Your hand of protection keep him far from her.
Father, we pray for our sister’s daughter—open her eyes to see the truth. Let her recognize the idolatry in her heart and turn away from it. Restore her mind, Lord, and remind her of the love and values she was raised with. Bring her back home, both physically and spiritually, where she can be surrounded by godly love and support. Break the spirit of rebellion and isolation that has taken hold of her, and let her heart soften toward her family once more.
We pray for financial restoration, Lord. Let every cent that was taken unjustly be returned, and let her be free from any debt or obligation to this man. Provide for her needs, Father, and show her that You are her true Provider.
Most of all, Lord, we pray that she would surrender her heart fully to You. Let her seek You first, above any relationship, and let her find her worth and identity in Christ alone. Raise up godly men for Your daughters—men who will love You first, honor their families, and lead with integrity.
We rebuke every scheme of the enemy against this family. No weapon formed against them shall prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**). Fill their home with Your peace, unity, and joy. Let Your love be the bond that holds them together, unshaken by the attacks of the enemy.
Thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your power to restore, redeem, and protect. Let Your will be done in this situation, and let Your name be glorified. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
