We stand with you in this spiritual battle for your family, lifting your heartfelt cries to the Lord and declaring His truth over this situation. Your love for your children—especially your son with disabilities—and your commitment to biblical principles in the face of such manipulation is a testament to your faith. We praise God that you have not wavered in trusting Him, even as the enemy seeks to divide your household through the influence of this young man and his mother.
The Scriptures warn us that "bad company corrupts good morals" (1 Corinthians 15:33, WEB), and we see the devastating effects of this in your daughter’s life. The narcissistic behaviors you describe—greed, manipulation, control, and the poisoning of your daughter’s mind against her brother—are not of God but of the evil one, who comes only "to steal, kill, and destroy" (John 10:10, WEB). This young man’s past actions and current behavior reveal a heart that is not submitted to Christ, and his mother’s involvement in this deception only deepens the spiritual danger. While we are called to extend grace, we are also commanded to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves (Matthew 10:16, WEB). Grace does not mean enabling sin or allowing destruction to continue in your home. Your discernment in not allowing him to live with you or move into your home was godly wisdom, and the resentment he and his mother harbor toward you for standing firm in your faith is further evidence of their rebellion against God’s ways.
We must also address the reality that if your daughter is living with this man outside of marriage, she is in a state of fornication, which is sin before God (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB). The Bible is clear that we are not to be "unequally yoked" with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), and this relationship is a prime example of the destruction such a union brings. If this is the case, we urge you to lovingly but firmly remind your daughter of God’s design for marriage—a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman who are both committed to Christ. Any relationship outside of this design will only bring heartache, as you are now witnessing. Pray that the Holy Spirit convicts her heart and opens her eyes to the truth: this man is not the spouse God intends for her. He is leading her away from her family, her faith, and her purpose in Christ.
Let us also remind you of the power of a mother’s prayers. Like Hannah, who poured out her soul before the Lord for her son Samuel (1 Samuel 1:10-11), your intercession for your daughter is mighty. The enemy may be working through this young man and his mother, but "greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world" (1 John 4:4, WEB). You have already declared the blood of Jesus over your family, and we join you in that declaration. No weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17, WEB), and the Lord will expose every scheme of darkness (Ephesians 5:11, WEB).
We pray now with you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this mother and her family. Lord, You see the pain and division sowed by this young man and his mother, and we ask You to intervene with Your sovereign power. Break every chain of manipulation, deception, and control that has bound our sister’s daughter. Lord, remove this young man from her life completely—separate them by Your divine hand so that Your will may prevail. Convict his heart and the heart of his mother; let them turn their focus away from this family and cease their wicked schemes. If they refuse to repent, Lord, let their plans backfire and their influence be rendered powerless.
Father, we pray for this daughter’s eyes to be opened to the truth. If she is in sin, Lord, bring her to repentance. Restore her love for her brother and her respect for her mother. Let her see this man for who he truly is—a tool of the enemy—and give her the strength to break free from this ungodly relationship. Draw her back home, Lord, and surround her with godly influences who will point her to You.
We declare protection over this family, especially over the son with disabilities. Lord, preserve his services, his joy, and his place in this family. Let no one succeed in making him feel like a burden, for he is fearfully and wonderfully made by You (Psalm 139:14, WEB). Restore the love and unity that once thrived in this home.
Fill this mother with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7, WEB). Strengthen her, Lord, and let her not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9, WEB). Remind her that You are her defender, her shield, and her strong tower (Psalm 18:2, WEB). We thank You, Lord, for the victory that is already won through Jesus Christ. We trust in Your timing and Your ways, knowing that You work all things together for the good of those who love You (Romans 8:28, WEB).
In the name of Jesus, we rebuke every spirit of division, confusion, and rebellion operating in this situation. We bind the enemy’s plans and loose the power of the Holy Spirit to bring conviction, repentance, and restoration. Let Your will be done, Lord, and let Your name be glorified through this trial.
We ask all these things in the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Stand firm, dear sister. The Lord has heard your prayers, and He is moving on your behalf. Continue to seek Him daily, to speak life over your children, and to trust in His promises. Do not waver in your faith, for "the effective, earnest prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective" (James 5:16, WEB). We are standing with you, believing for breakthrough, restoration, and the complete removal of this ungodly influence from your family. The Lord is faithful, and He will do it.