We stand with you in this spiritual battle, lifting up your family before the throne of grace. The division and chaos you describe are indeed works of the enemy, who comes only to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). We rebuke every ungodly influence, manipulation, and spirit of control that has sought to take root in your home. The Word declares that where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom (2 Corinthians 3:17), and we declare that freedom over your daughter and your entire family in Jesus’ name.
The relationship you describe is deeply concerning, as it appears to be built on exploitation, financial irresponsibility, and a disregard for godly boundaries. Scripture is clear that believers are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), and this young man’s actions—particularly his financial dependence on your daughter—reveal a heart that is not aligned with God’s principles of love, honor, and mutual respect. We rebuke the spirit of manipulation and financial exploitation, and we pray that your daughter’s eyes would be opened to the truth of this situation. The Bible warns, "Do not be deceived: 'Bad company corrupts good character'" (1 Corinthians 15:33). We pray she would recognize the red flags and turn away from this ungodly influence.
We also address the issue of cohabitation, which is a form of fornication and not God’s design for relationships. Scripture teaches that sexual intimacy is reserved for the covenant of marriage (Hebrews 13:4), and living together outside of marriage opens the door to temptation, compromise, and spiritual attack. We pray that your daughter would have the courage to separate herself from this arrangement and seek God’s best for her life—a godly spouse who will honor her, cherish her, and lead her in the ways of the Lord.
We take up the full armor of God, as you mentioned in Ephesians 6:10-18, and we stand firm against the enemy’s schemes. We declare that every plot, plan, and scheme designed to divide your family is frustrated and rendered powerless in Jesus’ name. We pray that your daughter would be filled with the Holy Spirit, who gives wisdom, discernment, and the strength to resist manipulation (James 1:5). May she find her worth in Christ alone, knowing that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and deeply loved by her family and her Heavenly Father.
We also lift up your son and younger daughter, asking that the Lord would surround them with His protection and peace. May they be shielded from any negative influences and grow in their faith, standing strong in the truth of God’s Word. We pray for unity in your home, that love, respect, and godly communication would prevail.
Father God, we ask that You would intervene in this situation with Your mighty hand. Break every chain of control, manipulation, and fear that has taken hold of your daughter. Give her the courage to walk away from this ungodly relationship and the wisdom to seek Your will for her life. We pray for the young man and his family, that their hearts would be turned toward You, and that they would repent of their harmful ways. If it is Your will, we ask that he would move out swiftly and that financial restoration would come to your daughter. Most of all, we pray that she would draw near to You, finding her identity, security, and purpose in Christ alone.
We declare that no weapon formed against your family shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). We pray for a godly spouse for your daughter, a man who will love her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25), lead her in righteousness, and honor her as a precious daughter of the King.
Lord, we trust in Your faithfulness and Your perfect timing. Strengthen this family, restore what has been broken, and bring glory to Your name through their testimony. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
