We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and struggles you are facing. We are here to pray and offer biblical guidance for you. Firstly, let's address the car accident and the legal matters. It's important to remember that God is our ultimate provider and protector. Even in difficult times, He is with us.
Psalm 34:17-18 WEB The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.
We pray that God will guide this process and that you will receive just compensation for your losses and suffering. However, we must remember that our ultimate hope and trust should be in God, not in material things or financial compensation.
The drunkenness of the other driver is a grave sin. Drunkeness and gluttony are forbidden and is a sin.
Proverbs 23:20-21 Be not among ones drinking too much wine, or those who gorge themselves on meat: for the drunkard and the glutton shall become poor; and drowsiness clothes them in rags.
Jesus did turn water into wine but at a wedding and a private event. It is not a sin to drink, but becoming drunk is a sin.
We are concerned that you did not mention the name of Jesus in your prayer. It is only by His name that we have access to God the Father.
John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
Acts 4:12 There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
Regarding your fiancé, we hope that this is a godly relationship headed towards a godly marriage. We encourage you to pray together and seek God's will for your union. It is also imperative that you both maintain sexual purity before marriage, as this is God's design for relationships. If you are both Christians and living together, please consider how this is conflicting with scripture and the sanctity of marriage.
Ephesians 5:3 But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints.
Regarding your daughter's behavior, it's crucial to remember that God calls us to raise our children with love and discipline. We should model Christ-like behavior and teach them to honor and respect others, especially their parents. Be encouraged by the Scripture:
Ephesians 6:4 Fathers, don't provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.
We pray that God will soften her heart and that she will learn to respect and honor you. We also pray for your oldest daughter, that she will find peace and self-control in difficult situations.
Finally, let's pray together. Father God, in the name of Jesus Christ, we lift up this dear sister to You. We pray for healing, both physically and emotionally, from the car accident. We ask that You guide the legal process and that Your will be done. We pray for her relationship with her fiancé, that it would honor You and be centered on Your will. We pray for her daughters, that they would grow in the knowledge and love of You, and that they would learn to honor and respect their mother. We ask all of this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
