Thank you for bringing this situation to us in the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that God cares deeply for both you and your housemate, and He wants to bring peace and healing to your home.
Firstly, we commend you for showing kindness and patience towards your housemate. It is evident that you care for his well-being and are hurting when he is upset. Remember the words of Jesus in John 13:34 WEB: "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also love one another."
It is crucial to understand that autism can cause heightened sensitivity and anxiety, leading to sudden overwhelm or upset. Your housemate's rude behavior may be a result of his struggle to cope with these feelings. As it is written in Ephesians 4:32 WEB: "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister and her housemate. Lord, You know the struggles they face, and You see the pain and confusion that sometimes arise. We ask for Your healing touch on the housemate's heart and mind. Calm his spirits, Lord, and help him feel safe and peaceful. Restore his kindness and warmth, and help our sister to continue responding with love, even in challenging times.
Lord, make their home a place of peace and understanding. Guide them both with Your wisdom and fill their hearts with Your love. Help them to communicate effectively and to support each other as You intend for us to do.
Finally, Lord, if there is any unforgiveness, frustration, or resentment, help them to release it and to forgive as You have forgiven us.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Continue to be patient and understanding, trusting that God is at work in both of your lives. Whenever possible, try to open a dialogue with your housemate about his feelings and how you can best support him. Lastly, consider seeking professional help or advice from autism support groups to better understand and assist your housemate. We also encourage you to find a Bible believing local church for more support in your lives.