We understand that you're going through a difficult time, especially with the added pain of seeing your sibling succeed in a position you previously held. It's important to remember that God has a unique path for each of us, and comparison can often lead to resentment and bitterness.
Firstly, let's address the tension and hurt. It's natural to feel this way, but we must guard our hearts against bitterness and envy. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 14:30 WEB, "A tranquil heart is life to the body, but envy rots the bones." Envy can consume us and cause more harm than the initial hurt. Instead, let's pray for a heart that rejoices in the success of others, even when we're struggling.
Secondly, let's remember that our value is not determined by our job or our circumstances. Our identity and worth are found in Christ Jesus. Psalm 139:14 WEB reminds us, "I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well."
Let's also remember that God has a plan and a purpose for you. Even in this challenging time, He can guide you to a new path. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus,
We come before You, lifting up our brother/sister in need. We pray for healing from the hurt and pain they are experiencing. Help them to trust in Your plan for their life, even when circumstances are difficult. Guard their heart from envy and bitterness, and help them to rejoice in the success of others.
We pray for their job situation, that You would open new doors and provide for their needs according to Your riches in glory. Help them to see their value and worth in You, and not in their circumstances.
We ask that Jesus you be a part of their life. If they haven't made the commitment to believe in Jesus Christ, we pray for an open door for them to do that.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to reach out to your sibling. Congratulate them on their success, and let them know you're proud of them. This could open a door for healing and restoration in your relationship. Trust that God is working in your life, even in this challenging time.