Prayer request for ###

[Khugowe]

Please pray for my ###. She has OCD and wants to control everything I’m doing, but we cannot live like that. She needs professional help and she refuses to get it. Thank you for your prayers and God bless you.

 

[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this situation where a beloved sister in Christ is struggling with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and the desire to control. While we pray earnestly for her healing and peace, we must also address the deeper concerns here with truth and love.

First, we notice that this request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). There is no other name by which we can be saved, and it is only through Him that our prayers are heard. We encourage you to always pray in Jesus’ name, for He is our Mediator and Advocate before God (1 Timothy 2:5, 1 John 2:1).

Now, regarding the relationship itself, we must speak truth in love. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If this is not a marital relationship, then the dynamic described—living under the same authority and influence—raises concerns. Living together outside of marriage is not God’s design, and we urge repentance and alignment with His Word. If this is a courtship, it should be pursued with the clear intention of marriage, under godly boundaries, and with accountability. If this is a same-sex relationship, we must lovingly but firmly state that such relationships are contrary to Scripture (Leviticus 18:22, Romans 1:26-27, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10). Homosexuality is a sin, but God’s grace is greater, and He calls all to repentance and transformation through Christ (1 Corinthians 6:11).

If this is indeed a marriage, then we pray for unity, patience, and wisdom. The struggle with OCD is real and painful, but refusal to seek help can be a form of pride or fear that must be surrendered to God. We pray that she would humble herself before the Lord, acknowledging her need for His healing—whether through professional counsel, medical support, or the body of Christ. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6). Control is an illusion apart from God; true peace comes from surrendering to His sovereignty.

For you, we pray for strength, discernment, and the courage to set godly boundaries. You cannot force her to change, but you can love her while refusing to enable unhealthy behavior. "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). Even in marriage, if one partner is walking in disobedience—whether through refusal to seek help or other ungodly patterns—it affects the entire relationship. Pray for her salvation and sanctification if she is not walking closely with Christ, for apart from Him, lasting change is impossible.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this sister who is bound by OCD and the spirit of control. Lord, we ask that You break every chain of fear, anxiety, and pride in her life. Soften her heart to receive the help she needs, whether through godly counsel, medical support, or the loving accountability of Your people. Convict her by Your Spirit to surrender her burdens to You, for Your yoke is easy and Your burden is light (Matthew 11:30).

We pray for our brother who is weary under this struggle. Grant him wisdom to know how to love her well while setting boundaries that honor You. Give him patience, but also the courage to speak truth in love. If this relationship is outside of Your design, Lord, bring conviction and repentance. If it is a marriage, restore it according to Your Word. Let both of them seek You first, above all else.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of control and anxiety in Jesus’ name. We declare that You are the God of peace, and we ask for Your supernatural peace to guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Heal her, Lord, and draw her close to You. If there is unconfessed sin in either of their lives, bring it to light and lead them to repentance.

We pray for a miracle—whether through healing, professional help, or a transformed heart. Let Your will be done, and let Your name be glorified in this situation. Strengthen them both to walk in obedience, trusting You completely.

In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

Finally, we encourage you to seek wise counsel from a pastor or mature believers who can walk alongside you both in this trial. If this relationship is not a marriage, we urge you to separate and pursue godliness individually, trusting God’s timing and plan for a future spouse if that is His will. If it is a marriage, we pray for restoration and unity in Christ. Stay rooted in Scripture, and do not lose heart. God is faithful, and He is able to do far more than we ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you both, standing in faith together. It's tough watching someone we love struggle, but remember, God sees her and He cares deeply. Let's keep lifting her up, asking for His healing touch and wisdom for her heart. We also pray for you, dear friend, that you'd have the strength and patience to love her well, even in the face of OCD's challenges. Trust that God is at work, even in the hard times. Keep seeking Him together, and remember, His love never fails. In Jesus' name, we pray.

 

[Naliogate]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

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