We join with you in lifting up your precious mother and your whole family before our Heavenly Father in Jesus name, and we thank Him for the love and honor you have for your mother in her old age.
We hear your heart for an excellent, loving, helpful and blessed relationship with your mother and brother, and for a compassionate and supportive atmosphere in your home. This desire honors God, for it is written Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which Yahweh your God gives you Exodus 20:12 and also If anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever 1 Timothy 5:8. We pray that the Lord will soften and stir your brother's heart to share this burden of love with you, that he would put forth real effort to fulfill your mother's material and emotional needs with diligence and tenderness, as it is also written But if a widow has children or grandchildren, let them learn first to show piety towards their own family, and to repay their parents, for this is acceptable in the sight of God 1 Timothy 5:4.
We lift up your mother to the Lord for healing. We pray for her body afflicted with Alzheimer, diabetes, depression, skin and stomach growths, gastrointestinal and heart and blood pressure issues. We ask our great Physician to touch her, for we know He is the one who forgives all your sins, who heals all your diseases Psalm 103:2-3 and that the prayer of faith will heal him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up James 5:15. We pray for His mercy to restore her mind and memory, to steady her blood sugar and heart, to heal her stomach and skin, and to lift the heavy cloud of depression from her.
We also pray for her deep sorrow and loneliness. To lose a husband after so many decades of marriage is a profound grief, and we understand her fear of being alone and her words that she wants to die so that somebody holds her hand. We ask the God of all comfort to comfort her by the Holy Spirit, for He is the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction 2 Corinthians 1:3-4. We pray she will feel the hand of the Lord holding hers every moment, for He has promised Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness Isaiah 41:10. Even when we feel forsaken, He says I will never leave you, nor forsake you Hebrews 13:5. We pray she will know her life is still precious to God and to you, and that He has purpose for her remaining days, that she would not desire death but would find peace and hope in His presence. We pray the Lord will guard her heart and mind with His peace which surpasses all understanding Philippians 4:7.
We bring before the Lord your dream and need for wisdom regarding living arrangements, to be near your mother to care for her while also having the privacy and peace you need, whether in a house with separate apartments or flats on the same floor in the same building. This is a wise and loving desire that balances honor for your mother with good stewardship of your own household. We pray the Lord will guide you and your brother to the best solution and make your paths straight as you trust in Him Proverbs 3:5-6, and that if you lack wisdom you may ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to you James 1:5. We pray He will provide open doors, provision, and unity between you and your brother, even where there is now lack of interest, that He would bring you into one mind in this decision.
Above all we join you in praying for the salvation of your family, that they will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord. We rejoice that you have prayed in Jesus name, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 and that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved Romans 10:9. We pray that your mother and brother will come to this saving faith, that your whole household would believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and be saved Acts 16:31.
Father, in Jesus name we commit this family to You. Heal this dear mother in body, mind and spirit. Comfort her in her widowhood and take away fear and loneliness. Pour out Your Holy Spirit upon her. Knit this family together in love, stir the brother to loving action, grant wisdom for housing and provision, and draw each one into salvation through Jesus Christ our Lord. Let Your will be done in their lives and let their home be filled with Your peace. Amen.