Prayer for my daughter to heal her from Parent alianation

[Anonymous]

Oh Father God, i come before you, my heart still aches lies were told about me her Mother, her Father turn her against me. Since she was ###, she is now ###.. she has so much anger and resentment toward me. I loved her so much, i know this with my heart i never wanted her unloved, as my mother never loved me. I have blocked out the pain so much. I recently called her she spoke to me for ### minutes on the phone. I didn't put any pressure i kept very calm not mentioning the situation. Lord heal my heart while I wait for to return to me. Open heart to the truth In Jesus mighty name Amen & Amen

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep ache in your heart and we stand with you before the Father in this painful season of waiting. To be separated from a daughter you love so dearly because lies were told and her heart was turned against you is a grievous wound, and we grieve with you. We thank you for sharing that you were able recently to speak with her calmly and without pressure, even for a short time. That gentle, patient love reflects wisdom, for a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger Proverbs 15:1. Your choice not to press her but to show steady love is honoring to God and leaves room for Him to work in her heart.

We want to speak truth about what has happened. The Lord hates lying and bearing false witness against another, for lying lips are an abomination to Yahweh Proverbs 12:22, and you shall not give false testimony against your neighbor Exodus 20:16. Those who have spoken lies about you to alienate your daughter from you will give account to God, and we pray that He will bring conviction and repentance to them. At the same time your daughter's anger and resentment toward you, even if planted by others, needs healing, for we are called to let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you Ephesians 4:31-32. We pray that God will soften her heart to honor her mother as He commands, honor your father and your mother Exodus 20:12, and to seek the truth.

We also hear that you knew what it was to feel unloved by your own mother and you determined with all your heart never to let your daughter feel that way. That generational pain is real, and blocking it out for so long has left wounds that only Jesus can fully heal. He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds Psalm 147:3. Even when family forsakes us, we have this promise, when my father and my mother forsake me, then Yahweh will take me up Psalm 27:10. He sees you, He has not forgotten you, and He is near to you while you wait. Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh Psalm 27:14.

We join our faith with yours and pray together.

Father God, in the mighty name of Jesus we come before Your throne of grace for this dear mother and her precious daughter. Lord, You know every lie that was spoken and every tear that has been shed since she was so young until now. We ask You to heal this mother's heart while she waits, comfort her in her ache, and bind up the old wounds from her own childhood as well as the fresh wounds of this separation. Strengthen her with Your presence, for You have said fear not, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness Isaiah 41:10.

Lord, we lift this daughter up to You. Soften her heart where it has grown hard with anger and resentment. Open her eyes to the truth, for You are the way, the truth, and the life John 14:6, and the truth will set you free John 8:32. Remove the veil of deception and alienation that has been placed over her. Turn her heart back toward her mother, for You have promised to turn the hearts of the children to their fathers Malachi 4:6, and we know You can turn the heart of a daughter to her mother as well. Restore what the locusts have eaten and redeem these lost years Joel 2:25. Give her a spirit of forgiveness and a desire to know and to walk in truth and honor.

We ask that You give this mother continued wisdom, patience, and supernatural peace as she waits, that she would continue to love without pressure or manipulation, entrusting her daughter fully into Your hands. Let Your will be done in their relationship and let reconciliation come in Your perfect timing. We thank You that You hear us when we pray in the name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we are saved and by which we have access to the Father Acts 4:12, John 14:13-14. We trust You to heal, to restore, and to make all things new.

We encourage you to keep bringing every hurt to Jesus rather than blocking the pain away, to stay in the Word, to remain in fellowship with faithful believers who will pray with you, and to continue to show that same calm, steady, Christlike love whenever God opens the door to speak with your daughter again. God is faithful, He sees your love and your faithfulness, and He is working even when you cannot see it. We continue to stand with you in prayer for complete healing and restoration. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the ache in your prayer and we have been holding you and your daughter before the Lord.

To love your daughter so deeply and to live for years with distance, anger and resentment that grew from lies told about you is a long grief. It makes sense that it stirs your own early hurt of feeling unloved by your mother, and that you have had to block out pain at times just to keep going.

What you did on that recent phone call was beautiful and wise, staying calm, not putting pressure on her, not bringing up the past, just letting her talk. That kind of steady, gentle love protects you both and keeps a door open without forcing it.

While you wait, it helps to not carry this alone. If you have a trusted pastor or Christian counselor, consider meeting with them regularly, not to try to make the reconciliation happen faster, but to tend to your own heart before Jesus, to bring Him both the old wounds and this long waiting, and to get wisdom for how to handle the next calls or messages as they come.

Father, we lift this mother to You and we lift her daughter to You. Comfort this mother's heart where it still aches, bring Your healing to the places that have carried rejection for so long, and give her peace and strength for each day of waiting. Draw her daughter toward truth in Your gentle timing and keep them both in Your care. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been heard, and the ache you carry for your daughter is known to Him who heals the broken in heart and binds up their wounds. To love a child so deeply, to long for her while lies have built a wall between you, and to wait through years of anger and resentment is a sorrow that cuts very deep, and it is right that you have brought it before the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we come to God and find mercy.

There is abundance of healing power in Jesus Christ and His salvation. It is written that the leaves of the tree of life were for the healing of the nations, and even the least thing about Christ is healing. A word from Him, coming home to the heart as His, brings healing to head and heart, to conscience and affection, and can change the life blood and make the nature other than it was before. When He dwells with His people, the Sun of Righteousness rises with healing in His wings, and pardon and healing are one in His hand. He does not heal with a mere outward touch, but gives a new heart and puts a right spirit within, and this is the hope for both you and your daughter.

I pray with you that the Lord will create in your daughter a new heart and bestow spiritual eyes and ears upon her. As it is written, many have not a heart to perceive, nor ears to hear, nor eyes to see, lest they understand with their heart and convert and be healed. May the Holy Spirit now work that saving impression which is a prick in the heart, not merely to be cut to the heart in anger, but to be pricked in the heart unto life. May He gently remove the heaviness from her ears and the veil from her eyes, soften what has been made hard by untruth, and open her heart to the truth in His own time and way. That you were able to speak with her calmly and without pressure is a tender mercy, and we thank God for it and ask that He will use such quiet love to prepare the way for further reconciliation.

And I pray for your own heart while you wait. You have blocked out much pain, and you carry the wound of not being loved as you should have been, and now the wound of being kept from your child. Bring your bleeding heart to the bleeding heart of Jesus, for that will stanch its wound. He treasures those who wait upon Him and He binds up the broken in heart. Keep up daily fellowship with Christ in prayer, in praise, in searching the Word, and in submitting your heart to the work of the eternal Spirit, and as you walk with God you will find yourself kept calm for the battle of life. His discipline toward His children is not the infliction of justice, but tender parental discipline, and He will keep your heart fixed, trusting in the Lord, while you wait for His perfect work.

He is the God of peace and has prepared everything necessary for perfect reconciliation through His Son. That blessed work was done long ago upon the cross, and now He has committed unto us the word of reconciliation, that we should be at peace with God and at peace with one another as He enables us. May He make you to know that peace in your own soul first, that your heart may meditate not on terror that is past, but on mercy without end, and may He in His wisdom and love draw your daughter to Himself and, if it be His gracious will, draw her heart again toward truth and toward you.

Father, in the mighty name of Jesus, look upon this mother in her waiting and heal her broken heart. Give her a new measure of patience and quiet trust. Look upon her daughter, wherever she is, and grant her a heart to perceive, ears to hear, and eyes to see. Remove resentment and anger, reveal what is true, and bring conviction and healing according to Your perfect will. Let both be reconciled first to You through the blood of Christ, and then, as You see fit, to one another. Amen and Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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