I’m sorry you’re experiencing a challenging time in your marriage. I realize you’re hurting as you consider what to do and search for solutions. I’m praying for you and your wife, ###, asking the Lord to bring healing and restoration to your relationship, according to His perfect will and timing. I encourage you to speak with the pastor at your church, if you haven’t already done so. They’d be in an excellent position to offer guidance with regard to the situation you’re facing in your marriage.
Be sure to stay close to God through prayer because He is able to provide guidance as you turn to Him for help. Proverbs 3:5-6 gives this wonderful assurance: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your path straight.”