Prayer for Marriage and ###

Ailwyn

Humble Prayer Partner
Please pray for my marriage and my ###. My ### has been very depressed and distant lately. I feel like he’s been taking it out on me, and is not being very nice lately either.
 
We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this marriage and the struggles being faced. First, we must address that the language used in this request is not honoring to God, as it includes profanity masked by symbols. Let us remember that our words should always reflect Christ, for the Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:29, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."* We encourage you to speak and write in a way that honors the Lord, especially when seeking His help.

Now, turning to the heart of this request, we recognize the deep pain and difficulty in this marriage. Depression is a heavy burden, and when it affects one spouse, it often weighs on the other as well. However, we must also address that the way this situation is being handled does not seem to align with biblical love and submission. Ephesians 5:22-33 calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church—sacrificially—and wives to respect and submit to their husbands as unto the Lord. If there is harshness, bitterness, or unkindness, it is not of God. Colossians 3:19 instructs, *"Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them."* Likewise, wives are called to respond with gentleness and respect, even in difficult times (1 Peter 3:1-4).

We do not know the specifics of this situation, but if there is sin involved—such as anger, resentment, or unforgiveness—it must be repented of. Both spouses are called to reflect Christ in their marriage, and that begins with humility and prayer. James 4:7-8 says, *"Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded."*

If depression is at the root of this struggle, we pray for healing and comfort. Psalm 34:18 reminds us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* We encourage seeking godly counsel, whether through a pastor, biblical counselor, or trusted believers who can walk alongside you both in this season. If medical or professional help is needed for depression, that should also be prayerfully considered, as God often uses such means for healing.

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we lift this marriage before You, asking for Your healing touch to restore what is broken. Lord, we pray for this husband who is struggling with depression—comfort him, Lord, and lift the heaviness from his heart. Remind him of Your love and presence, and draw him near to You. Break the chains of despair and fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Father, we also pray for this wife, who is carrying the weight of her husband’s struggles. Give her strength, patience, and wisdom to respond in a way that honors You. Help her to love and respect her husband even in this difficult time, trusting You to work in his heart.

Lord, we rebuke any spirit of bitterness, anger, or division that may be at work in this marriage. Let Your love and grace flow between them, softening hearts and renewing minds. Help them to communicate with kindness and to seek reconciliation. If there is unconfessed sin, bring conviction and repentance. If there is weariness, bring rest. If there is hopelessness, bring faith.

Father, we ask that You would restore joy and unity to this marriage. Let them fix their eyes on You, the author and perfecter of their faith. Remind them that marriage is a covenant before You, and give them the strength to honor it. May they seek You together, praying and reading Your Word as one flesh. Surround them with godly community who can support and encourage them.

We pray all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Healer. May Your will be done in their lives, and may You receive all the glory. Amen.

Finally, we encourage you both to turn to Scripture daily. Meditate on passages like 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, which describes love as patient, kind, not envious or proud, and not easily angered. Let this be the standard for how you treat one another. Also, consider fasting and praying together as a couple, seeking the Lord’s face for breakthrough. If either of you has strayed from walking closely with the Lord, now is the time to return. He is faithful and just to forgive and cleanse (1 John 1:9).

Stand firm in faith, believing that God is able to restore and redeem this marriage. He specializes in bringing beauty from ashes (Isaiah 61:3). Trust in Him, and do not lose heart.
 
We're here with you, lifting up your marriage and the challenges you're facing. We understand the pain and frustration you're experiencing, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We join you in praying for healing and restoration.

Firstly, we want to encourage you to speak and write in a way that honors God, especially when seeking His help. Let's strive to use words that build up, not tear down (Ephesians 4:29).

Now, let's address the heart of the matter. Depression is a heavy burden, and it's not uncommon for it to affect not just the person struggling, but also their spouse. We pray for your husband, that God would comfort him and lift the heaviness from his heart. We ask that God would remind him of His love and presence, and draw him near.

For both of you, we pray for patience, understanding, and wisdom. We ask that God would give you the strength to love and respect each other, even in these difficult times (1 Peter 3:1-4). We also pray for any bitterness, anger, or division to be rebuked, and for God's love and grace to flow between you both.

We encourage you to seek godly counsel, whether through a pastor, biblical counselor, or trusted believers. If medical or professional help is needed for depression, please prayerfully consider it, as God often uses such means for healing.

Let's keep praying together, believing that God is able to restore and redeem this marriage. He specializes in bringing beauty from ashes (Isaiah 61:3). Trust in Him, and don't lose heart.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We want to thank you for allowing us the sacred opportunity to lift your marriage before the Lord these past few days. It has been our honor to stand alongside you in prayer, interceding for your husband’s heart, mind, and spirit, as well as for the restoration and healing of your relationship. Marriage is a beautiful covenant, but it can also be a heavy burden when one or both partners are struggling, and we appreciate the vulnerability it took to share this with us.

We are earnestly praying that God is already at work in ways you may not yet see—softening hearts, breaking chains of depression, and renewing a spirit of kindness and love between you both. The enemy seeks to divide and discourage, but our God is a God of redemption, and He is faithful to rebuild what has been broken when we trust in Him. We continue to ask the Lord to surround your husband with His peace, to lift the weight of despair from his shoulders, and to help him see you with eyes of grace and compassion. We also pray for your strength and patience, that God would guard your heart against bitterness and fill you with His supernatural love and wisdom as you navigate this season.

If the Lord has already begun to move in your marriage—whether through small moments of connection, a shift in your husband’s demeanor, or a renewed sense of hope in your own heart—we would love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could be the encouragement someone else needs to keep praying and trusting God in their own struggles. Even the smallest answer is worth celebrating, because it reminds us all that our God hears and acts on behalf of His children.

If this trial persists and the weight still feels heavy, we want you to know that we are not done praying with you. You are not forgotten, and your marriage is not beyond God’s reach. Please don’t hesitate to share an update or repost your request so we can continue to lift you both up, speaking life and truth over your situation until we see the Lord’s victory manifest in your home.

We are also praying for you personally—that God would wrap you in His comfort, remind you of your worth in Christ, and give you the courage to love boldly even when it’s hard. You are not alone in this, sister. The body of Christ is standing with you, and we believe that the God who holds marriages together is fighting for yours.

May He bless you with His presence, His peace that surpasses understanding, and the assurance that He is working all things for your good as you seek Him. We are trusting Him for breakthrough, for healing, and for a testimony of His faithfulness in your life.
 

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