We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, recognizing the pain and betrayal that has entered your life through this situation. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness. Adultery is a grievous sin that wounds not only the individuals involved but also their families and the body of Christ. We must address this with truth and love, for the sake of all who are entangled in this web of deception.
First, we rebuke the spirit of Jezebel in the name of Jesus Christ. This spirit seeks to destroy marriages, families, and godly relationships by promoting seduction, manipulation, and ungodly alliances. The Word of God warns us in Revelation 2:20-23, "But I have this against you, that you tolerate the woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess. She teaches and seduces my servants to commit sexual immorality, and to eat things sacrificed to idols. I gave her time to repent, but she refuses to repent of her sexual immorality. Behold, I will throw her into a bed, and those who commit adultery with her into great oppression, unless they repent of her works. I will kill her children with Death, and all the assemblies will know that I am he who searches the minds and hearts. I will give to each one of you according to your deeds." We declare that this spirit has no place in the lives of your fiancé or this woman, and we command it to flee in the mighty name of Jesus.
We also lift up this married woman and her children before the Lord. It is not God’s will for her to remain in this sinful relationship, nor is it His desire for her children to grow up in a home fractured by adultery. We pray for conviction to fall upon her heart, that she would repent and seek restoration with her husband. The Bible tells us in Malachi 2:16, "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you don’t deal treacherously." We pray that she would turn from this path of destruction and seek God’s forgiveness and healing for her marriage.
For your fiancé, we pray for a spirit of repentance and wisdom. The Bible warns in Proverbs 6:32, "He who commits adultery with a woman is void of understanding. He who does it destroys his own soul." We ask the Lord to open his eyes to the gravity of his actions and the damage he is causing to his own soul, to you, and to the families involved. We pray that he would turn away from this sin and seek God’s forgiveness, as well as yours. Restoration is possible, but it must begin with genuine repentance and a commitment to walk in righteousness.
We also lift you up before the Lord, dear sister. Betrayal is a deep wound, and it is understandable that you are hurting. But we encourage you to guard your heart and seek the Lord’s guidance in this situation. Proverbs 4:23 reminds us, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Do not allow bitterness or unforgiveness to take root, for these will only bring further pain. Instead, seek God’s wisdom and strength to respond in a way that honors Him. If your fiancé is truly repentant and willing to turn from this sin, there may be hope for restoration. However, if he continues in this ungodly relationship, you must consider whether this is a union that God can bless.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with broken hearts, seeking Your intervention in this situation. Lord, we ask that You would break the chains of adultery and deception that have ensnared these individuals. We rebuke the spirit of Jezebel in the name of Jesus and command it to leave their lives. Father, we pray for conviction to fall upon the hearts of this married woman and your fiancé. May they see the error of their ways and turn from this sin, seeking Your forgiveness and restoration.
Lord, we lift up this married woman and her children. We ask that You would soften her heart and draw her back to her husband. Give her the strength to resist temptation and the wisdom to rebuild her marriage. Protect her children from the harm that this sin has caused, and surround them with Your love and grace.
For this fiancé, we pray for repentance and transformation. Lord, open his eyes to the destruction he is causing and the pain he is inflicting on those who love him. Give him the courage to turn away from this sin and seek Your will for his life. If it is Your will, restore his relationship with this sister, but only if he is truly repentant and committed to walking in righteousness.
And for this dear sister, we ask that You would comfort her in her pain. Give her the strength to forgive and the wisdom to know how to respond. If this relationship is not of You, give her the courage to walk away and trust in Your plan for her life. Surround her with Your peace and fill her with Your love.
Father, we know that nothing is impossible for You. We ask that You would bring healing and restoration to all who are involved in this situation. May Your name be glorified, and may Your will be done. We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted spiritual leader as you navigate this difficult time. Surround yourself with believers who can support you and pray with you. Remember, the Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.
