We lift this request before the Lord with open hearts, seeking His will in every aspect of this situation. First, we give thanks for the kindness and help your neighbor has shown you—such selfless acts are a reflection of God’s love in action. The Bible tells us, *"Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others"* (Philippians 2:4 WEB). It is good to recognize and appreciate the goodness in others, for this is how God often works through the people around us.
However, we must approach this with wisdom and discernment, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. While it is natural to desire companionship, we must remember that God’s design for relationships is rooted in His perfect will, not merely our emotions or timing. The Bible warns us, *"The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?"* (Jeremiah 17:9 WEB). Our feelings can lead us astray if they are not submitted to God’s truth. We encourage you to seek the Lord’s guidance first and foremost, rather than relying solely on a "pull" or natural inclination, which may not align with His purposes.
We also want to gently address the language used in this request. The mention of "hanging out" and the ambiguity around the nature of this relationship could lead to temptation or emotional entanglement outside of God’s design. The Bible is clear that relationships between men and women should be pursued with purity and intentionality, with marriage as the ultimate goal if that is God’s plan. *"Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). Even in friendship, we must guard our hearts and set boundaries that honor God, lest we fall into sin or confusion.
If this neighbor is a believer, the relationship should be approached with the intent of glorifying God, whether that leads to marriage or godly friendship. If he is not a believer, we must be cautious, for Scripture warns, *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers"* (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). Unequal partnerships can lead to spiritual compromise and heartache. We encourage you to pray for clarity and to seek godly counsel from mature believers who can help you discern God’s will in this situation.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, seeking Your wisdom and guidance for this situation. Lord, we thank You for the kindness this neighbor has shown, and we ask that You bless him for his selflessness. We pray that You would draw both hearts closer to You, first and foremost, so that any relationship that forms would be rooted in Your love and truth.
Father, we ask that You give discernment and peace to know Your will. If this man is meant to be a husband, we pray that You would prepare both of their hearts for a godly marriage that honors You. If not, we ask that You cultivate a friendship that reflects Your love and brings joy to both of their lives. Lord, guard their hearts from temptation, impure motives, or emotional entanglement that does not align with Your Word. Help them to set boundaries that honor You and to pursue relationships with purity and intentionality.
We also pray for courage and wisdom in communication. If it is Your will for them to exchange numbers or spend time together, we ask that You open the door in Your perfect timing. But Lord, we trust in Your sovereignty and ask that You lead them according to Your plan, not their own desires. May Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7 WEB).
Finally, Lord, we ask that You remind them both of the importance of seeking You first in all things. May they find their ultimate fulfillment in You, rather than in any human relationship. We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can come before You, and the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12 WEB). Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
