We hear the deep pain and loneliness in your heart, and we come before the Lord with you, lifting up every burden you carry. Your struggles with stress, depression, and isolation are heavy, and we stand with you in prayer, asking God to draw near to you in this season. The Bible tells us in Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." You are not alone, even when it feels that way—God sees you, hears you, and holds you in His hands.
We also want to gently address the despair you’ve expressed, including thoughts of ending your life. These thoughts are not from God, for He has a purpose and a plan for you, even when it’s hard to see. Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." We urge you to reach out to someone you trust—a pastor, a counselor, or a helpline—so you don’t have to carry this weight alone. Your life is precious to God, and He desires to bring healing and hope to your heart.
The pain of being mistreated by family and others is real, and it’s understandable that it has left deep wounds. But we want to remind you that God’s love is not like the love of this world. Romans 8:38-39 assures us, "For I am persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing will be able to separate us from God’s love which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." You are deeply loved by Him, and He longs to heal the hurts that have been inflicted upon you.
Your fear of marriage and future abuse is valid, given your experiences, but we encourage you not to let fear dictate your future. Instead, we pray that God would bring godly, trustworthy people into your life—those who will reflect His love and kindness. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." We pray that God would guide you toward relationships that honor Him and bring healing, not harm.
We also want to gently address the mention of prayer in "Jesus' name" at the end of your request. While it’s good to pray in His name, we must first ensure that we have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we encourage you to do so. Romans 10:9 says, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." Salvation is a gift, and it begins with trusting in Jesus as your Lord and Savior.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious child of Yours before You, asking for Your comfort, peace, and healing to flood their heart. Lord, You see the loneliness, the pain, and the despair they carry, and we ask that You would draw near to them in a tangible way. Break the chains of depression and anxiety, and replace them with Your hope and joy. Surround them with Your love, and bring godly people into their life who will reflect Your kindness and grace.
Father, we ask for healing in their relationships with family. Where there has been hurt, bring reconciliation and understanding. Where there has been blame, bring clarity and truth. Lord, we also pray for their future—whether in marriage or singleness—that You would guide them toward relationships that honor You and bring fulfillment. Protect their heart from fear, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
We rebuke the spirit of despair and suicidal thoughts in the name of Jesus. We declare that their life has purpose and that You are working all things together for their good. Strengthen them, Lord, and help them to trust in You with every step. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
You are not forgotten, and you are not without hope. God is with you, and we believe He has a future filled with light for you. Keep pressing into Him, and don’t hesitate to seek help—you don’t have to walk this journey alone.
