Cralmilan

Beloved Warrior
Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Her counsel to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this arrangement as a marriage, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to her relationship. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, corrupted and rebellious. This young man's mother instigate the mistreat, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. I declare that my older daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Block and frustrate every word curses and plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. I pray his father will have him move back home alone. Father, I ask You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, manipulation and isolation continues to manifest. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.
 
We join you in prayer for your older daughter and we hear the deep burden and godly concern you carry for her. We stand with you against every ungodly influence that seeks to control, isolate, and diminish her, and we bring this entire situation before the throne of grace in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and it is only by His name that we are saved. Acts 4:12 reminds us there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved.

We affirm your discernment in this matter. What you have described is not God’s design for love or for family. Scripture is clear that marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4. To live together outside of marriage as if married, to have children outside of marriage, and to treat an ungodly cohabitation as a marriage is fornication, and we must call it what it is. We are commanded to flee sexual immorality. 1 Corinthians 6:18. Every other sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. This arrangement is not a marriage in God’s eyes, and this young man is not her husband, not her provider, and not her spiritual leader. To continue in it brings exhaustion, financial hardship, spiritual confusion, and chaos, just as you have witnessed.

We also recognize the biblical principle of courtship. A relationship between a man and a woman should be a purposeful courtship between two Christian believers with the goal of marriage to a godly spouse, not a prolonged boyfriend and girlfriend arrangement that mimics marriage without covenant. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity. 2 Corinthians 6:14. This young man as you describe him, controlling, manipulative, lazy, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious, exploiting your daughter’s income and isolating her from her supportive network, does not display the fruit of a man ready to lead a family in Christ.

We rebuke the counsel of this young man’s mother. She has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter’s life and her advice to live together, to bear children outside of marriage, and to submit to exploitation is ungodly and destructive. Have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them. Ephesians 5:11. Her jealousy, pride, selfishness and manipulation that seeks to divide your daughter from you, her siblings, her family and her church friends, and to keep her confiding only in her while her son mistreats her, is rooted in darkness. We pray the Lord exposes every hidden motive and frustrates every plan to control and isolate.

We also must gently address your daughter’s behavior toward you. Even in her confusion and bondage, God calls children to honor their father and mother. Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which Yahweh your God gives you. Exodus 20:12. Her coldness, ingratitude, and rudeness toward you is not pleasing to the Lord and we pray the Holy Spirit convicts her and softens her heart to repentance and reconciliation with you and with God.

We see your wisdom in declaring that your daughter is not homeless and does not need this woman’s approval. You have raised her in the ways of the Lord and she remains a child of the Most High God. She does not belong to this young man or his family. We pray she remembers her worth in Christ and stops using her family as a financial resource to sustain this man. The borrower is servant to the lender. Proverbs 22:7. To take on credit card debt to support laziness and manipulation is not stewardship, and we pray God gives her wisdom to protect her finances and to steward well the promotion He has so graciously given her.

We pray together now.

Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before You and we lift up this precious daughter to You. Lord, open her eyes to the truth. Remove the veil of deception and let her see this relationship for what it is, a stumbling block and not a covenant, bondage and not love. Break the hold of this toxic influence over her heart and mind. We ask that You frustrate every word curse, every plot and every scheme of the enemy that comes through this young man and his mother to control, divide and isolate her. No weapon that is formed against you will prevail. Isaiah 54:17. We plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and her children and we ask for Your supernatural protection, peace and restoration to overflow in their home.

Lord, grant this daughter wisdom, for if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. James 1:5. Give her the knowledge and courage to walk away swiftly from this ungodly and unhealthy living arrangement with no regrets, to flee sexual immorality and to hunger again for righteousness. Let her stop imitating ungodly behaviors and let her heart be softened to receive Your conviction and to return to the safety and wisdom of her family and her church community. Restore the fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom that the enemy has tried to steal.

Father, we also pray for this young man and his mother, that You would bring them to repentance, that the mother would see she is enabling her son’s disrespect and corruption, and that she would focus on her own household rather than interfering in this daughter’s job and life. We pray the father of this young man would take godly leadership and have his son move back home alone, for he is not ready for a relationship.

Lord, we ask that You block every attempt to undermine this daughter at her workplace and at her church. Let her promotion be used for Your glory and let her not put this man and his family before her faith, her family and her calling. Heal her exhaustion and chaos and renew her mind. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Romans 12:2. Surround this mother who is praying with strength not to grow weary in well doing, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. Galatians 6:9. Help her to set loving and firm boundaries, to not enable financially, and to continue to speak truth in love while trusting You to do what only You can do.

We thank You, Lord, that nothing is impossible for You. We ask in Your perfect timing that You would bless this daughter with a godly spouse if it is Your will, a marriage that honors You as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and restore her self worth as one who is fearfully and wonderfully made and deeply loved by You. Let her put her faith and trust in You again.

We declare freedom, protection and complete restoration over her life. Let Your peace which surpasses all understanding guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
 
We hear how heavy this has been to carry. Watching your older daughter grow exhausted and withdrawn, feeling shut out by the very people who are influencing her, and then experiencing her coldness toward you is deeply painful. We are praying for you and for her, for protection and peace in your home and for wisdom for each next step.

What you describe about isolation is so important. When a person is pulled away from family, church friends and other steady supports, it becomes much harder to think clearly and make free choices. Part of healing is often rebuilding those healthy boundaries, learning again that it is okay to say yes and to say no, to own what is yours to carry and to leave what is not, and to let trusted people help protect that space.

We encourage you to keep a steady, low pressure connection with your daughter when she does visit, letting her know your home and your love remain safe and open without a lecture. It can also help to have one or two wise, calm people alongside you, perhaps a pastor or a mature mentor you trust, to pray with you and to help you think through safety and financial boundaries. If you are worried about her exhaustion and forgetfulness, gently encourage her to see a medical professional alongside prayer, not instead of it.

Father, we bring this mother and her daughter before You in Jesus name. Cover them with Your protection, quiet the chaos and confusion, and give this daughter clarity, courage and a renewed sense of her worth in You. Give her mother wisdom, endurance and comfort, and restore fellowship and peace in this family in Your way and timing. Amen.
 
Your prayer has come before the Lord and before His people with a heavy burden, and we have heard the sorrow of a mother's heart for a daughter who is entangled in a way that is not according to the Word of God.

We join you in praying not that God would bless what He has called outside of His design, but that He would deliver and restore. The Scripture is clear that salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, that marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and the union of the body belong only within that covenant. What is outside of it cannot be treated as marriage, and it brings not peace but exhaustion, confusion and hardship, as you have so painfully witnessed. We do not ask the Lord to prosper that arrangement, we ask Him to bring it to an end, that your daughter may walk again in holiness and freedom.

We take comfort with you in this, that deliverance is solely by the power of God. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He alone has found a ransom, and that ransom is the precious blood of His Son. When the lamb was slain, Israel was brought forth, and so the soul that is bound is brought forth only by Christ. He makes deliverance effectual and He brings forth His own. If your daughter is indeed a child of the Most High God, He will not leave her in the pit. The clock of mercy strikes in heaven at the hour appointed by His eternal purpose, and He is able to open eyes that have been blinded and to break a hold that has become bondage.

There is hope also in the restoration of Peter. He was down, but he was soon up again by a look from the Lord. That same look can sever a soul from the crowd that holds it and bring godly sorrow and a return. We pray that the Holy Spirit will grant your daughter such a look from Christ, that she may see this man not as a husband or provider or spiritual leader, for he is none of these, but as a stumbling block in her walk with God, and that she may have courage to walk away with no regrets, to hunger again for righteousness and to return to the safety and wisdom of her family and her church community.

We pray with you that every plan to control, divide and isolate her will be frustrated, that every word spoken against her will fall to the ground and not prosper, for no weapon formed against those who are in Christ shall prosper. We ask the Lord to expose what is done in darkness, to remove ungodly counsel that has no biblical authority to speak into her life, and to protect her mind and heart from manipulation that would make her feel worthless and without a home. She is not homeless and she is not without worth. Her worth is in Christ, and she has a loving family who raised her in the ways of the Lord and a church family that longs to welcome her fully again.

We pray also for practical deliverance. That God would give her wisdom to protect what He has entrusted to her, to take on no debt to sustain a lifestyle that dishonors Him, to be no longer exploited in her labor and finances, and to guard the good work He has given her in her new promotion. We ask that He would guard her from imitating harsh and dishonest ways in her own speech toward you, and that He would soften her heart toward you, her mother, and toward her siblings, restoring respect, fellowship and peace in your home.

Continue, as you have done, to bring all the necessities of your household before God in prayer. There is a well in the family where, with your children, you may mention each one by name and lay every trouble before Him. He hears the cries of His people and He whispers to the heart of His children in trial that they shall not be crushed.

We pray that the Lord would draw your daughter back to Himself, that she would put her faith and trust wholly in Jesus, that she would be restored to the joy of obedience to His Word, and that in His perfect time, if it be His will, He would provide a godly spouse according to His design. Until then, we ask for protection, for clarity, for strength to stand, and for the young man and his household to be dealt with according to truth, that he may be led to take responsibility for his own life and no longer be a burden and a snare to another.

May the Lord keep you and your children under the covering of Christ, restore what has been broken, and cause you to live and declare the works of the Lord. We have prayed for you and will continue to pray, trusting that He who has delivered will yet deliver. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and our ransom, Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 

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