We hear the weight of your heart in this difficult season, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting you and your family before the throne of grace. The pain of leaving behind your little girl and the woman who has been a blessing in your life is heavy, and the fear of what lies ahead is real. Yet we know that God sees your sorrow and your desire to change, and He is near to the brokenhearted.
First, we must acknowledge that sin has consequences, and your past actions have brought you to this place of accountability. Scripture tells us, "Do not be deceived. God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap" (Galatians 6:7). Yet even in this, there is hope, for the same God who disciplines also restores. "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit" (Psalm 34:18). You are not beyond His mercy, and your willingness to seek treatment and change is evidence of His work in you.
We must also address the reality of your living situation outside of marriage. Scripture is clear that sexual intimacy is reserved for the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman (Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 6:18). While we do not judge your heart, we must encourage you to align your life with God’s design. If this woman is truly the "best you ever had," and you both love the Lord, then consider making your commitment to one another permanent in the sight of God and man. Marriage is a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:25), and it provides a foundation of stability and blessing for your child. If you are released, let this be a priority—not just for practical reasons, but to honor God and protect your family.
Now, we pray for you with boldness in the name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). Lord, we come before You on behalf of this man who is facing the consequences of his past. We ask that You would go before him in the courts, softening the hearts of those who will decide his fate. If it is Your will, grant him the 60 days in county and probation he is requesting, that he might remain with his family and continue the work of restoration You have begun in him. But if prison is the path You have ordained for his refining, then sustain him, Lord. Provide for his girlfriend and daughter in ways only You can, meeting every need according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19).
Father, we rebuke the spirit of despair and depression that seeks to overwhelm him. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Remind him that You are the God who makes a way where there seems to be no way (Isaiah 43:19). Strengthen his faith, that he may trust in You even when the outcome is uncertain. Help him to see this time as an opportunity to draw closer to You, to seek Your face, and to grow in holiness.
We pray for his little girl, Lord. Guard her heart and mind. Surround her with Your love and protection, and provide godly influences in her life who will point her to You. Give her mother the strength and wisdom she needs to care for their child, and provide for their every need. If it is Your will, restore this family and knit their hearts together in a way that brings glory to Your name.
Above all, we pray that You would be glorified in this situation, whether through mercy or justice. May this man’s life be a testimony to Your grace, and may he emerge from this trial stronger in faith, more dependent on You, and fully committed to walking in Your ways. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who bore our sins and offers us new life. Amen.
In the days ahead, cling to the promise that God is working all things together for your good, even when the path is hard (Romans 8:28). Continue to seek Him through prayer, Scripture, and fellowship with other believers. Let this season be one of repentance, renewal, and reliance on Him. You are not alone—He is with you, and so are we.
