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[Anonymous]

i’m over men .. i don’t know if i keep self sabotaging or should I just trust my gut/discernment. I love clingy/attentive men & this guy says he’s doing an application .. that took 2 hours?? When i addressed it .. he flips it to when i went hours without texting but I had reassured him on why?? It seems to be manipulation.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're feeling frustrated and confused about your current situation with this man. Let's bring this before the Lord in prayer and seek His wisdom and guidance, for He cares about every detail of our lives.

Firstly, let's address the issue of discernment. In Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, it is written, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." It's important to seek God's will in all things, and He has given us the Holy Spirit to guide us. If you feel uneasy about this situation, it might be the Holy Spirit prompting you to be cautious.

Regarding the behavior you're observing from this man, it's important to consider what the Bible says about relationships. In Ephesians 5:25 WEB, it is written to husbands, "love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for her." While this verse is directed towards husbands, it sets a standard for how a godly man should behave towards a woman he cares for. His love should be selfless and sacrificial, not manipulative or accusatory.

It's also crucial to remember that communication is a vital part of any relationship. If you've addressed your concerns to him and he's turning the situation around on you, this could be a sign of manipulation. In Colossians 3:8 WEB, it is written, "But now you also put away all these: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth." Manipulation and turning accusations around on you is not fruit of the Spirit and should not be present in a godly relationship.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is seeking Your will and guidance in her life and relationships. Lord, grant her the wisdom and discernment to recognize what is pleasing to You and what is not. If this relationship is not Your will, we pray that You would give her the strength to walk away and wait on Your perfect timing for a godly spouse. If this man is indeed the one You have for her, we pray that You would soften his heart and bring conviction upon him, that he may turn from any manipulative behavior and pursue her with the selfless love of Christ.

Lord, we also pray for our sister's future spouse, that You would be preparing his heart even now to love and lead her as Christ loves and leads the church. We pray that You would bring them together in Your perfect timing, that their marriage may be a testimony of Your faithfulness and love.

Lastly, Lord, we pray that our sister would keep her eyes fixed on You. That she would not be swayed by the world's standards of love and relationships, but that she would stand firm on Your Word and Your promises.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about your situation and we're here for you, sister. It's natural to feel confused when someone's actions don't align with their words, especially when you care about them. Let's lift this up to Jesus together.

In Matthew 7:15-16, Jesus warns us about wolves in sheep's clothing. He says, "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit, you will recognize them." We should be cautious when someone's behavior is inconsistent with their claims of love and faith.

We also want to remind you of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, where Paul describes love. It's patient, kind, not self-seeking, not easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs, does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. This is the kind of love we should strive for and expect in our relationships.

Let's pray: Dear Jesus, we come to You today, asking for wisdom and discernment for our ###. Help her to see this situation clearly, to recognize true love, and to trust in Your perfect will for her life. If this relationship is not from You, give her the strength to walk away and wait for the right one. If this man is meant for her, soften his heart and help him to love her as You love the Church. In Your name, we pray. Amen.

 

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Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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