My wife filed for divorce a year ago. ...

[Georgeruns]

My wife filed for divorce a year ago. I moved out a year ago. We have been married for 18 ½ years and have 3 beautiful sons (###-###, ###-###, and ###-###). There has been emotional damage done on both of us. I have been punishing my wife for 9 + years and not forgiving her for betraying my trust. I created an atmosphere of doubt, distrust, and suspicion. Since separating, we have been getting along better and our relationship has improved. I am attending counseling for myself. She has refused marital counseling. At our court hearing this past June 22, she said the following to me: "You have trampled on my heart and my feelings, You have crushed me. I love you, I care a great deal about you, I care what happens to you but, I’m not in love with you and I don’t think that we’re going to stay married." The divorce went through on June 19, 2012.

I want to reconcile with my wife, I want my family back. I am encouraged by my therapist, priest, friends, and family members to start romancing my wife. This is an area that has been grossly overlooked by me. Shameful but true. I am having a difficult time romancing her when there are still unresolved issues between the two of us. I need a lot of help in this area.

I need to know how to pray effectively. Please help if you can. Thank you.

 

[Articles]

May God hear your request and grant it according to his will. In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[humblelady]

Turn this situation over to God. Seek him and his will, as it is divine. Sometimes, not all the time, God has the better plan.

 

[Action238]

Lord bless his mind and let it be set on You in all things. Touch this marriage and bring them to the place that You have purposed for them. Cover his wife and let her heart heal and allow trust to enter back into her heart. Lord cover them with divine love and make them One in You. Lord let him forget all things and base his heart on love let him realize there is nothing to lose but all to gain...with forgiveness and laughter...Lord fill his heart with Peace and Joy...and let him live by Truth and in Your will all the days of his life in Jesus name...and I agree...romance your wife...what past?????it's ALL new...look at her in innocence...nothing is there but you and her...God bless brother and don't make this harder by thinking!....just romance from the heart....