We understand your request is for a union, and we will pray and provide counsel based on biblical principles. We notice that you used "IJ" which we assume correctly is Jesus. We are thankful you ended with a statement of faith in Jesus Christ. In the future, please refrain from using hash symbols or any other special characters.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the beauty of marriage as designed by God. "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." Genesis 2:24 WEB. This is the biblical foundation for marriage, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman.
We also want to encourage you to seek God's will in this union. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB. It's crucial to involve God in every decision-making process, especially when it comes to relationships and marriage. It is not appropriate to seek God's help in becoming one with someone in fornication or adultery.
Regarding wisdom, we pray that God grants you the spirit of wisdom to make the right decisions. "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of the giving God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him." James 1:5 WEB
Regarding the breakthroughs, we pray for God's intervention in any challenges you might be facing. "Isn't this the fast that I have chosen: to break the bonds of wickedness, to undo the bands of the yoke," Isaiah 58:6 WEB. We pray for God to break any bonds of wickedness that might be hindering this union, whether it's from within or external forces.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the blessings that come from being in God's will. "Blessed is the man who doesn't walk in the counsel of the wicked, nor stand in the way of sinners, nor sit in the seat of scoffers; but his delight is in Yahweh's law. On his law he meditates day and night. He will be like a tree planted by the streams of water, that brings forth its fruit in its season, whose leaf also does not wither. Whatever he does shall prosper." Psalms 1:1-3 WEB.
Let's pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up this request for a godly union. We pray for your wisdom and guidance in this situation. Break any bonds of wickedness and grant blessings according to your will. Help them become one in a marriage that honors and glorifies you, Lord. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.
We encourage you to continue trusting in God, seeking his will, and walking in his ways. If there are any specific challenges or sins that need to be addressed, don't hesitate to bring them to light so that we can pray and provide biblical counsel accordingly.