We lift up this couple before the Lord, knowing that marriage is a sacred covenant established by God, a lifelong union between one man and one woman that reflects Christās love for His Church. It grieves us to see the enemy attacking this commitment with difficulties and doubt, but we stand firm in the truth that *"what God has joined together, donāt let man tear apart"* (Matthew 19:6, WEB). The love they share must be rooted in Christ, for *"love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things"* (1 Corinthians 13:7, WEB). If their faith is wavering, let them remember that *"without faith it is impossible to be well pleasing to him, for he who comes to God must believe that he exists, and that he is a rewarder of those who seek him"* (Hebrews 11:6, WEB).
Yet we must also address something critical: this prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father. *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB), and *"there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Every prayer, every plea for help, must be brought before the throne of God in the name of Jesus, for it is by His authority and sacrifice that we are heard. If either of them has not yet surrendered their lives to Christ, we urge them to do so nowāfor no marriage can thrive without Him as its foundation. *"Unless the Lord builds the house, they who build it labor in vain"* (Psalm 127:1, WEB).
To the one losing faith: *"Donāt throw away your confidence, which has a great reward. For you need endurance so that, having done the will of God, you may receive the promise"* (Hebrews 10:35-36, WEB). Doubt is a weapon of the enemy, but Godās promises are unshaken. *"Letās hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering; for he who promised is faithful"* (Hebrews 10:23, WEB). If this couple is walking in obedienceāhonoring God in their courtship, fleeing from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18), and seeking His will above their own desiresāthen they can trust that He will make a way. But if there is sin in their relationship, such as premarital intimacy or a lack of submission to Christ, we urge them to repent immediately, for *"the Lordās hand is not shortened, that it canāt save; nor his ear dull, that it canāt hear: but your iniquities have separated you and your God"* (Isaiah 59:1-2, WEB).
Let us pray with boldness and authority in the name of Jesus:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this couple who are struggling under the weight of trials and wavering faith. Lord, You are the God who parts seas, moves mountains, and redeems what is broken. We ask that You strengthen their hearts and renew their minds with Your truth. Remove every doubt, every fear, and every lie the enemy has planted. If there is any sin in their relationshipāwhether fornication, idolatry of their love for one another, or rebellion against Your wordāconvict them deeply and lead them to repentance. Cleanse them, Lord, and restore their fellowship with You, for apart from You, no marriage can stand.
Father, we pray for supernatural provision over the hurdles they face. If it is financial struggles, open doors no man can shut. If it is opposition from family or friends, soften hearts and turn resistance into support. If it is spiritual warfare, clothe them in Your armor (Ephesians 6:10-18) and let them stand firm in victory. Remind them that *"all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose"* (Romans 8:28, WEB).
Most of all, Lord, let their love be a reflection of Your loveāa love that is patient, kind, and selfless, not envious or boastful (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). Bind them together in unity, and if it is Your will, bring them swiftly into the covenant of marriage, where they can serve You as one flesh. But let their ultimate desire be for Your glory, not their own happiness. Teach them to seek first Your kingdom (Matthew 6:33), trusting that You will provide all they need.
We rebuke the spirit of discouragement, division, and delay in Jesusā name. No weapon formed against this union shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), for You, Lord, are their defender. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and let their testimony be one of Your faithfulness.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. Amen.
To this couple, we say: Cling to Christ above all else. *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and donāt lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). If you are not yet married, guard your hearts and your bodies, for marriage is honorable and the bed undefiledābut fornication is sin (Hebrews 13:4). Let your courtship be a season of preparation, not compromise. And if the delays persist, ask the Lord to reveal if there is something He is refining in you first. His timing is perfect, even when itās painful.
Stand firm, beloved. The God who began this work in you will complete it (Philippians 1:6).