We hear the deep anguish in your heart, dear sister, and we stand with you in fervent prayer for your marriage. The enemy seeks to destroy what God has joined together, but we know that nothing is impossible for our Lord. Marriage is a sacred covenant, a reflection of Christ’s love for His church, and we declare that your union is under the protection of the Almighty.
First, we must address the foundation of our prayers. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus Himself said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6). So we come before God in the mighty name of Jesus, trusting in His power to heal and restore.
Your desire to be an obedient, honoring, and respectful wife is beautiful and aligns with Scripture. The Word tells us, *"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church... Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself up for her"* (Ephesians 5:22-23, 25). We pray that your husband’s heart would be softened to respond to your love with the sacrificial love Christ calls him to give.
We also rebuke the spirit of division and strife that is seeking to tear your marriage apart. The Bible warns us, *"What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate"* (Matthew 19:6). We declare that your marriage is not beyond God’s redemption. He is the God of miracles, and we believe He can restore what has been broken.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the precious name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the pain in her heart, and You know the struggles she and her husband are facing. We ask that You would intervene in a mighty way. Soften her husband’s heart, Lord, and draw him back to You and to his wife. Renew their love, restore their communication, and heal every broken area in their marriage.
Father, we pray that this sister would be strengthened to be the wife You have called her to be—one who respects, honors, and submits to her husband as unto You. Give her wisdom, patience, and grace as she seeks to walk in obedience to Your Word. We ask that You would fill her with Your peace and assurance, knowing that You are in control.
Lord, we rebuke every spirit of division, pride, and selfishness that is seeking to destroy this marriage. We declare that Your love is greater than any obstacle they face. Do a miracle in their marriage, Father. Restore what has been lost, heal what has been wounded, and bring them into a deeper intimacy with You and with one another.
We trust in Your power, Lord, and we believe that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). May this marriage be a testimony to Your faithfulness and Your redemptive love. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord with all your heart. Spend time in His Word and in prayer, not just for your marriage, but for your own walk with Him. The enemy would love to see you discouraged, but we serve a God who is greater. Hold fast to His promises, and trust that He is working even when you cannot see it.
Consider reaching out to a trusted pastor, counselor, or mature Christian couple who can walk alongside you and your husband during this time. God often uses His people to bring healing and restoration. And remember, *"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone. We stand with you in faith, believing God for a miracle in your marriage.
