Marriage, reconciliation, healing

Chustuinsor

Disciple of Prayer
Please i have been spiritually crushed to the brink of suicide and need freedom, favour and healing. Reconciliation between me and my wife to be ### and my kids and a finacial foundation. And freedom from bondage.
 
We hear the heaviness in your request and we are lifting you up before the Lord together. To be spiritually crushed to the brink of suicide is a deep pain, and we want you to know that you are not alone and you are not forgotten. God sees you, He loves you, and your life is precious to Him. The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit Psalm 34:18. He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds Psalm 147:3. We urge you, if these thoughts of suicide press heavily, to reach out immediately to a trusted pastor, a godly counselor, family member, or local help, and to stay connected and not isolate. God has thoughts of peace toward you and not of evil, to give you hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11, and we pray you will cling to that hope.

We also notice your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we must speak plainly about this because it is so important. It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved Romans 10:9. We encourage you to call upon the name of Jesus for forgiveness, for new life, and for freedom, for without Him we cannot be reconciled to God or truly set free from bondage.

You asked for freedom from bondage and healing, and we pray for that complete freedom that only Christ gives. If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed John 8:36. Now the Lord is the Spirit and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty 2 Corinthians 3:17. Bondage can be spiritual oppression, patterns of sin, guilt, fear, and despair, and Jesus came to break every chain. We pray you will turn from any sin that has given the enemy a foothold, repent, and walk in the light, for God is faithful to forgive and to cleanse and to restore.

You also asked for reconciliation between you and your wife to be and your kids, and for a financial foundation. We strongly affirm God's design for marriage as a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman. Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh Genesis 2:24. Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled Hebrews 13:4. We hear you say wife to be, which tells us you are not yet married, yet you mention kids together. If you are living together or have been sexually involved outside of marriage, scripture calls that fornication and we must lovingly rebuke it and call you to repentance. Flee sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18. Courtship should be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, seeking purity and honoring God before the wedding vows. If God has joined you and this woman and you have children, we pray you will pursue holy marriage quickly, not simply cohabitation or a partnership, but a covenant marriage that honors Christ. Children are a gift from the Lord Psalm 127:3, and we pray for healing and reconciliation with your children as well, that forgiveness and tenderness would reign. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you Ephesians 4:32. Reconciliation requires humility, confession, forgiveness, and patient love, and we pray God will work in both your hearts to that end if it is His will and if she is a believer walking with the Lord.

For your financial need, we pray God will provide and establish you on a firm foundation as you seek Him first. But seek first Gods Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you Matthew 6:33. My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19. We pray for diligence, wisdom, and stewardship in finances, and for favour that comes from walking uprightly before Him.

We pray together for you now.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ and we lift up this dear one who is crushed in spirit and tempted to despair. Lord, we ask You to breathe life and hope into him, to lift the weight of bondage and to heal his broken heart. Set him free from every chain of darkness, from guilt, from oppression, and from thoughts of death, and fill him with Your peace that surpasses understanding. We ask for Your favour and healing upon his body, soul, and spirit. We pray for reconciliation where there has been division, and if it is Your will, restore his relationship with the mother of his children in a way that honors You, leading them into holy marriage as one man and one woman in covenant before You, and restore the bond between father and children with love and forgiveness. Provide for him, Lord, a firm financial foundation built on honesty, hard work, and trust in You. Draw him close to Jesus, show him that salvation and access to You comes only through the blood of Christ, and give him faith to confess Jesus as Lord and to follow Him. Keep him from harm, surround him with godly counsel and support, and let him live to testify of Your mercy. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

We encourage you to stay in the Word daily, to pray in the name of Jesus, to turn from any sexual sin and to pursue purity, to seek a Bible believing church where you can be discipled and supported, and to pursue marriage in the Lord if you are to be reconciled. God is able to heal, to free, and to restore, and we will continue to pray that you will experience His freedom, favour, and healing fully.
 
If you are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support, find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. You are not alone; trained people are ready to help right now.

Thank you for telling us honestly how crushed you feel. Wanting freedom and healing, longing to be reconciled with your future wife and your children, and carrying the weight of financial pressure is a lot to hold at once. It makes sense you feel overwhelmed, and we want you to know we are praying for you and you matter deeply to God.

When everything feels like bondage, it can help to take one small, steady step today rather than trying to fix it all at once. If you can, please reach out today to one safe person you trust, a pastor, counselor or family member, and let them know you have been on the brink and need support close by. Alongside prayer, we also encourage you to connect with a counselor or medical professional who can walk with you in person through this heavy season.

Father, we lift our brother to you in Jesus' name. You see his pain, his love for his family, and his desire for freedom. Please guard his life tonight, bring peace to his mind, and surround him with caring people who will stay close. Give him wisdom for each next step with his family and for practical needs, and lead him gently toward healing and hope. Amen.
 
We have heard your cry in this season of deep crushing, and we have taken it before the Lord with sorrow and with hope. To be brought to the brink as you describe is a terrible affliction, and you are not forgotten. The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart, and He healeth the broken in heart and bindeth up their wounds.

There is an abundance of healing power in Jesus Christ and His salvation. The Scripture says the leaves of the tree were for the healing of the nations, and the least thing about Christ is healing. Not only is His fruit sweet and nourishing, but the very leaves, the little things as it were about Him, are full of healing virtue. These healing leaves change the life blood and make the nature other than it was before. Healing and pardon are placed in happy conjunction. When Jesus healed the sick of the palsy He said, Son, be of good cheer, thy sins be forgiven thee. Pardon and healing were one. So we would point you first to reconciliation with God, for that is the fountain of all other healing. God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto Himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them, and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation. He is the God of peace and He has on His part prepared everything necessary for a perfect reconciliation through the blood of His Son. If you have not already, turn to Him with confession and faith, for salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, and in Him there is forgiveness, freedom and favor.

You speak also of bondage, and the Scripture speaks plainly of it. There is a bondage under sin, bondage under the flesh, bondage to the fashions and customs of the world, and bondage under the fear of man. There is also a bondage of conviction when the Spirit shows us our sin, but we are not meant to remain there. We have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear, but the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. In due time the Lord brings His people out of that bondage into liberty. If the Lord sets us free, we shall want to remain His servants forever. Seek Him for that freedom which Christ alone gives, not a freedom to continue in sin, but freedom from its power and penalty, to walk in newness of life.

Concerning your wife to be and your children and your desire for reconciliation and a financial foundation, we pray with you for true peace in your household, but we must pray as Scripture teaches. Marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and the Lord calls His people to purity, with sexual union and living together belonging only within that covenant. We will not ask God to bless what is outside His design, for that would not be for your good. Instead we pray that God would draw both you and the mother of your children to repentance and faith, that He would make you whole in Christ, and that if it be His will, He would lead you into that holy covenant of marriage in a way that honors Him, in chastity and truth before that day and in faithfulness within it. We pray also for tenderness and truth in reconciliation with your children, that whatever wounds have been made would be healed by grace and by humble, patient love, and that God would provide for your needs and teach you faithful stewardship for a stable foundation.

Let us pray for you now. O Lord, Sun of Righteousness, rise upon this bruised soul with healing in Thy wings. Forgive sin through the blood of Christ, lift this burden of bondage, and give the Spirit of adoption and not of fear. Keep this precious life from destruction, set the feet upon the Rock, and grant favor that is found in Thy mercy. Work reconciliation first with Thyself, and then, as far as it depends upon this one, bring reconciliation in the family according to Thy holy will. Provide what is needed for daily bread and for the work of provision, and lead in the path of holiness and life. Amen.

We urge you, as you wait upon the Lord, do not walk alone in this darkness. Reach out today to a faithful pastor or mature believer near you, and to family who can be with you. If you feel you may act upon thoughts of ending your life, please seek help at once from trusted people around you and from appropriate care, and let someone stay with you. Continue in the Word, in prayer, and in the fellowship of the saints, where Christ is taught, for faith cometh by hearing and healing is linked with His teaching. The Lord has begun to heal and the healing virtue which His grace has infused will work health and cure till we shall be without spot or wrinkle. Look to Him, and live.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 

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