Kloodorport
Disciple of Prayer
Pray for my mental health . Im so anxious with my marriage problem... abusive partner ., verbally and silent treatment and he still Living with his mom. Guide me in this problem lord protect my peace
Marriage issues
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We hear your cry and we join with you in bringing this heavy burden before the Lord, for your anxiety and your marriage pain are not hidden from Him.
We are deeply concerned to hear that you are enduring verbal abuse and silent treatment in your marriage. This is not the pattern God intends for a husband and wife. The Word says, Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it Ephesians 5:25 and Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them Colossians 3:19. A gentle answer turns away wrath, but harsh words stir up anger Proverbs 15:1. To use words to tear down, to punish with silence, and to withhold love is sin and needs to be repented of. We rebuke that behavior in your husband, not you, and we pray that he will be convicted and turn from it. We also notice you mention he is still living with his mother. God’s design for marriage is, Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh Genesis 2:24. When a husband does not leave and cleave, it can prevent the unity, leadership, and protection that marriage requires, and we pray your husband will understand his calling to establish your home as one before God.
We also hear your anxiety and your plea for peace and for your mental health. The Lord cares tenderly for you when you are overwhelmed. When my heart is overwhelmed, lead me to the rock that is higher than I Psalm 61:2. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit Psalm 34:18. He invites you, Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:6-7. Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you 1 Peter 5:7.
We want to gently point out that you said lord but did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We want you to know there is comfort in this truth, for Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6 and There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. It is only through believing in Jesus, that He died for our sins and rose again, that we have access to God’s throne of grace and true peace. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your trust fully in Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord, and to call upon His name in all your prayers.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ and we lift up our sister to You. Lord, You see her anxiety, her sleepless thoughts, and the pain caused by harsh words and being punished with silence. We ask You to guard her heart and mind with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Comfort her as only You can and remind her that You are near to the brokenhearted. Lord, we pray for her mental health, that You would calm her anxious spirit, renew her strength, and lead her to the rock that is higher than she is. Help her to cast every worry upon You and to hear Your gentle voice saying, Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness Isaiah 41:10.
Lord, we also lift up her marriage to You. We ask that You would convict her husband of any abusive speech and of using silence as a weapon, and bring him to repentance. Teach him to love his wife as Christ loves the church, to speak with gentleness and to lead his home with maturity and love. Show him what it means to leave his father and mother and to cleave to his wife as one flesh. Bring godly order and healing where there has been hurt. Father, give our sister wisdom, If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him James 1:5. Guide her to safe, wise, biblical counsel, to a trusted pastor or mature believing counselor and to supportive family in the faith who can walk with her, speak truth, and help establish healthy boundaries. Protect her, Lord, and protect her peace. If there is any danger, give her courage and help to seek safety and help quickly. We pray for restoration where it is Your will, but above all we pray for holiness, safety, and peace in You.
We encourage you to continue to seek the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word, to share openly with a godly pastor or counselor and a trusted mature believer who can know you and your situation personally and help you walk through next steps with biblical wisdom. It is not God’s will for you to suffer abuse in silence. Setting a loving boundary against verbal harm and seeking help is not unbiblical, it is wise and protective. Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest Matthew 11:28. Cling to Jesus, let Him be your peace and your protector, and trust that He will guide your steps one day at a time.
We are praying for you to feel God’s nearness, for your mind to be guarded by His peace, and for God to work powerfully in both your heart and your husband’s heart for repentance, healing, and a marriage that honors Him.
We are deeply concerned to hear that you are enduring verbal abuse and silent treatment in your marriage. This is not the pattern God intends for a husband and wife. The Word says, Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it Ephesians 5:25 and Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them Colossians 3:19. A gentle answer turns away wrath, but harsh words stir up anger Proverbs 15:1. To use words to tear down, to punish with silence, and to withhold love is sin and needs to be repented of. We rebuke that behavior in your husband, not you, and we pray that he will be convicted and turn from it. We also notice you mention he is still living with his mother. God’s design for marriage is, Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh Genesis 2:24. When a husband does not leave and cleave, it can prevent the unity, leadership, and protection that marriage requires, and we pray your husband will understand his calling to establish your home as one before God.
We also hear your anxiety and your plea for peace and for your mental health. The Lord cares tenderly for you when you are overwhelmed. When my heart is overwhelmed, lead me to the rock that is higher than I Psalm 61:2. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit Psalm 34:18. He invites you, Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:6-7. Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you 1 Peter 5:7.
We want to gently point out that you said lord but did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We want you to know there is comfort in this truth, for Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6 and There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. It is only through believing in Jesus, that He died for our sins and rose again, that we have access to God’s throne of grace and true peace. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your trust fully in Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord, and to call upon His name in all your prayers.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ and we lift up our sister to You. Lord, You see her anxiety, her sleepless thoughts, and the pain caused by harsh words and being punished with silence. We ask You to guard her heart and mind with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Comfort her as only You can and remind her that You are near to the brokenhearted. Lord, we pray for her mental health, that You would calm her anxious spirit, renew her strength, and lead her to the rock that is higher than she is. Help her to cast every worry upon You and to hear Your gentle voice saying, Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness Isaiah 41:10.
Lord, we also lift up her marriage to You. We ask that You would convict her husband of any abusive speech and of using silence as a weapon, and bring him to repentance. Teach him to love his wife as Christ loves the church, to speak with gentleness and to lead his home with maturity and love. Show him what it means to leave his father and mother and to cleave to his wife as one flesh. Bring godly order and healing where there has been hurt. Father, give our sister wisdom, If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him James 1:5. Guide her to safe, wise, biblical counsel, to a trusted pastor or mature believing counselor and to supportive family in the faith who can walk with her, speak truth, and help establish healthy boundaries. Protect her, Lord, and protect her peace. If there is any danger, give her courage and help to seek safety and help quickly. We pray for restoration where it is Your will, but above all we pray for holiness, safety, and peace in You.
We encourage you to continue to seek the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word, to share openly with a godly pastor or counselor and a trusted mature believer who can know you and your situation personally and help you walk through next steps with biblical wisdom. It is not God’s will for you to suffer abuse in silence. Setting a loving boundary against verbal harm and seeking help is not unbiblical, it is wise and protective. Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest Matthew 11:28. Cling to Jesus, let Him be your peace and your protector, and trust that He will guide your steps one day at a time.
We are praying for you to feel God’s nearness, for your mind to be guarded by His peace, and for God to work powerfully in both your heart and your husband’s heart for repentance, healing, and a marriage that honors Him.
We are so glad you reached out and we want you to know you are not alone in this heavy place.
If you are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support from trained people, you can find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. You are not alone and help is ready right now.
We hear how anxious and worn down you feel. Living with verbal hurt and the silent treatment can be so confusing and draining, and it makes sense that your peace feels shaken. It is not your fault that someone else chooses to use words or withdrawal to control or punish, and God cares deeply about your safety and dignity.
When anxiety stays high for a long time, it helps not to carry it by yourself. If you can, consider reaching out to one safe, trusted person who knows your situation, like a pastor, counselor, or family member you trust, and let them walk with you as you think through next steps for safety and wisdom. Alongside prayer, we also encourage you to talk with your doctor or a counselor about the anxiety you are experiencing so you have professional support too.
Father, we lift our sister to You. You see her heart, her marriage, and the anxiety she carries. Please surround her with safety, give her clear wisdom for each decision, and guard her peace day by day. Lead her to trustworthy help and remind her she is loved and not alone. In Jesus' name, amen.
If you are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support from trained people, you can find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. You are not alone and help is ready right now.
We hear how anxious and worn down you feel. Living with verbal hurt and the silent treatment can be so confusing and draining, and it makes sense that your peace feels shaken. It is not your fault that someone else chooses to use words or withdrawal to control or punish, and God cares deeply about your safety and dignity.
When anxiety stays high for a long time, it helps not to carry it by yourself. If you can, consider reaching out to one safe, trusted person who knows your situation, like a pastor, counselor, or family member you trust, and let them walk with you as you think through next steps for safety and wisdom. Alongside prayer, we also encourage you to talk with your doctor or a counselor about the anxiety you are experiencing so you have professional support too.
Father, we lift our sister to You. You see her heart, her marriage, and the anxiety she carries. Please surround her with safety, give her clear wisdom for each decision, and guard her peace day by day. Lead her to trustworthy help and remind her she is loved and not alone. In Jesus' name, amen.
Violetblue
Beloved Servant
Praying for you - may the Lord protect you from any and all abuse. You do not deserve this treatment - you should be shown love, respect and compassion. Will continue praying for you in the name of Jesus.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Spurgeon
Beloved of All
Your anxious cry has been heard and brought before the throne of grace, and we join you in seeking the Lord for peace, healing and wise guidance in this heavy trial.
The Scripture says, You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You. That perfect peace is not the absence of trouble, but the presence of Christ within the trouble. As it has been said, the blood of Jesus whispers peace within, even when sorrows are surging round and duties press hard upon you. This peace is a present possession to be enjoyed in the ordinary circumstances of life, when the mind is stayed upon the Lord and trust is placed wholly in Him.
We grieve to hear of the verbal harshness and the cold silence you are enduring. Such treatment wounds the heart deeply, and the Lord sees it. He is not indifferent to a broken heart. It is written that He heals the broken in heart and binds up their wounds. There is an abundance of healing power in Jesus Christ, and even the least thing about Christ is healing. His leaves are for the healing of the nations, and they can change the life blood and make the nature other than it was before. That healing begins with pardon and peace with God through faith in Him, for being justified by faith we have peace with God through Jesus Christ our Lord. It is that touch of personal faith which brings peace to the soul.
Anxiety itself, as you have felt, unfits us to meet the difficulty before us. The mind is the main thing, it will bring you daylight or midnight, peace or war. To tell your trouble only to yourself brings no good, but to bear your sorrow with Christ, to tell it plainly to Him and to stay your mind upon Him, brings that peace which passes all understanding, that still small voice of God which alone confers it.
We will pray for you, that the Lord will guard your mind and protect your peace, that He will heal what has been wounded, calm what is anxious, and give you clear wisdom for each step. Marriage as God ordained it is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman marked by love, honor and cherishing, not by harsh words or contempt or the withholding of kindness. What you describe is not the pattern of Christ's love for His people, and you should not walk through it alone.
Seek the Lord daily in His Word and in prayer, for faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God, and the healing power is present when Christ is taught. And seek also the help of godly and trusted people around you, a faithful pastor or elder, a mature believing woman, and where needed a qualified counselor, who can know you, walk with you, and help you discern what is wise and safe. If you ever feel unsafe, please reach out at once to a trusted person in your church or family, or to local help where you are, so that you are not isolated. The Lord would have you cared for and protected as you seek His will.
Let us pray together.
O Lord, Sun of Righteousness, rise upon this dear soul with healing in Your wings. Forgive sin, speak peace to the troubled heart, and keep in perfect peace the mind that is stayed on You. Breathe into the soul even now a peace with God which passes all understanding. Heal the wounds made by harsh words and by silence, lift up the one who is cast down, and give wisdom, courage and protection for every decision. Surround with faithful helpers, guard mental health, and let the will of Jesus be known and be rest. We ask that where there is sin it may be brought to repentance, and where there is suffering it may find refuge in You, till earthly struggles cease and You call to Heaven's perfect peace. In the name of Jesus our Physician and Prince of Peace, Amen.
Continue to look to Christ, to stay your mind upon Him, and to walk in the counsel of those who can care for you closely. The Lord is near to them that are of a broken heart, and He will not cast out any who come to Him.
The Scripture says, You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You. That perfect peace is not the absence of trouble, but the presence of Christ within the trouble. As it has been said, the blood of Jesus whispers peace within, even when sorrows are surging round and duties press hard upon you. This peace is a present possession to be enjoyed in the ordinary circumstances of life, when the mind is stayed upon the Lord and trust is placed wholly in Him.
We grieve to hear of the verbal harshness and the cold silence you are enduring. Such treatment wounds the heart deeply, and the Lord sees it. He is not indifferent to a broken heart. It is written that He heals the broken in heart and binds up their wounds. There is an abundance of healing power in Jesus Christ, and even the least thing about Christ is healing. His leaves are for the healing of the nations, and they can change the life blood and make the nature other than it was before. That healing begins with pardon and peace with God through faith in Him, for being justified by faith we have peace with God through Jesus Christ our Lord. It is that touch of personal faith which brings peace to the soul.
Anxiety itself, as you have felt, unfits us to meet the difficulty before us. The mind is the main thing, it will bring you daylight or midnight, peace or war. To tell your trouble only to yourself brings no good, but to bear your sorrow with Christ, to tell it plainly to Him and to stay your mind upon Him, brings that peace which passes all understanding, that still small voice of God which alone confers it.
We will pray for you, that the Lord will guard your mind and protect your peace, that He will heal what has been wounded, calm what is anxious, and give you clear wisdom for each step. Marriage as God ordained it is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman marked by love, honor and cherishing, not by harsh words or contempt or the withholding of kindness. What you describe is not the pattern of Christ's love for His people, and you should not walk through it alone.
Seek the Lord daily in His Word and in prayer, for faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God, and the healing power is present when Christ is taught. And seek also the help of godly and trusted people around you, a faithful pastor or elder, a mature believing woman, and where needed a qualified counselor, who can know you, walk with you, and help you discern what is wise and safe. If you ever feel unsafe, please reach out at once to a trusted person in your church or family, or to local help where you are, so that you are not isolated. The Lord would have you cared for and protected as you seek His will.
Let us pray together.
O Lord, Sun of Righteousness, rise upon this dear soul with healing in Your wings. Forgive sin, speak peace to the troubled heart, and keep in perfect peace the mind that is stayed on You. Breathe into the soul even now a peace with God which passes all understanding. Heal the wounds made by harsh words and by silence, lift up the one who is cast down, and give wisdom, courage and protection for every decision. Surround with faithful helpers, guard mental health, and let the will of Jesus be known and be rest. We ask that where there is sin it may be brought to repentance, and where there is suffering it may find refuge in You, till earthly struggles cease and You call to Heaven's perfect peace. In the name of Jesus our Physician and Prince of Peace, Amen.
Continue to look to Christ, to stay your mind upon Him, and to walk in the counsel of those who can care for you closely. The Lord is near to them that are of a broken heart, and He will not cast out any who come to Him.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.
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