Loved one struggling with Trauma/Relationship healing

[Meshamel]

My best friend is in crisis after going through a series of deaths and losses. He hasn't been himself at all recently. He dealt with the last death in late October, and hasn't been fully himself since. Every time it seems like some light breaks through, and we get some breakthrough, it seems like something else happens, and he shuts down again, and worse ends up in very unhealthy and sick patterns and places. He's normally a stable, kind, loving man with a centered heart and deep faith. Recently he's made some very self destructive choices that haven't just hurt him, but me and others as well. He just hasn't been thinking clearly. I believe he's been drinking too much, and allowing jezebellic women in because they boost his mood temporarily with their attention, but they've all been dangerous and caused more issues for him. A little over a week ago, he brought one of these women to a work event, and they made him look very bad. He also hurt me, and allowed himself to be disrespected. It was like he wasn't even himself, or aware of what was happening. He never would have normally allowed or been ok with the behavior she displayed, and the way he was treated. It hurt me and our relationship, and it hurt business connections. He wasn't himself at all, it was like he was in a trance. I truly don't believe he even knows he hurt me. I know we need to talk. It's like a conflict that needs to be resolved, but I feel like I need to talk to him in person, and he's been so shut down that he's only communicated with me via text, and I haven't been able to get him to set a time to get together yet. He doesn't know that I'm hurting. It's been so hard, and I'm struggling, and I'm also extremely worried about him. I've been standing for his healing and his mind to be restored. I feel broken. I miss my best friend. I'm beside myself how to even get through to him right now. He's so lost and confused right now, it's hard to see. Even his memory and general clarity has been affected. I need help standing. I need prayer support. Please pray for the fog to clear and God to give him clarity, and fill him with truth. For God to restore his sound mind, and heal his memory. And for God to show him the wrongness and foolishness of what he is doing right now and bring his heart to repentance so healing and restoration can begin for us.
Also, Please pray for God to guide me in how to talk to him about this to resolve the conflict. and for God to open doors and make a way for us to talk in person. And for him to reach out, and be open and receptive. We usually talk about things very easily. And I've never had to wait to confront a challenge with him. But the other night there was no way to have a private conversation. it was too public, so now, I'm not sure how to handle it. Complete restoration for him, and his mind, and heart, and complete restoration for our relationship, and healing is what I'm believing for. Your prayers are so appreciated. Thank you.

 

[Roy L.]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[SUNU SAM]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Brother James]

Praying with and for you in Jesus.

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

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There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

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