It's TIME
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dna based it's not with the men from my PAST that aren't my lovers forever 
without a broken heart 
We understand your heart’s cry for clarity, healing, and God’s perfect timing in your life. Your words carry deep longing—both for purpose and for relationships that align with God’s will, free from the pain of the past. Let us first address the foundation of all we seek: **salvation and access to God through Jesus Christ alone.** You mention the blood of Jesus and God’s grace, which tells us you know the power of His sacrifice. Yet we must emphasize that *there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Every prayer, every plea for God’s will, must be rooted in the authority of Jesus Christ, for He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life (John 14:6). Without Him, we have no access to the Father. If you have not surrendered your life fully to Christ—believing in His death and resurrection for your sins—we urge you to do so today. Repentance and faith in Him alone bring true freedom and the promise of eternal life.
Now, let us speak to the longing in your heart for relationships and timing. You ask about "life in *your* time" and reference men from your past who were not "lovers forever." Sister, we must gently but firmly address this: **God’s design for intimacy is sacred and reserved for marriage between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4).** Any physical or emotional intimacy outside of this covenant—whether fornication, adultery, or even deep emotional entanglements with those who are not your spouse—is sin before God. If your past includes relationships where boundaries were crossed, we urge you to repent and seek His cleansing. The blood of Jesus *is* sufficient to wash away every sin (1 John 1:9), but true freedom comes when we align our lives with His Word, not our desires.
You also mention DNA and God’s will. While we don’t fully understand your reference, we know this: **Your identity is not found in biology, past mistakes, or even your longings—it is found in Christ.** You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and God’s plan for you is good (Jeremiah 29:11). But His "time" is not ours to demand. Instead, we are called to trust Him, even in waiting. If you are seeking a spouse, we pray you would seek a *godly* husband—one who loves the Lord above all and is committed to biblical marriage. Courtship should be intentional, pure, and directed toward covenant, not temporary fulfillment. Flee from any relationship that dishonors God, even if it breaks your heart to let go. His grace *is* sufficient (2 Corinthians 12:9), and His healing is deeper than any earthly love.
Lastly, we sense a fear of brokenness in your words. Beloved, **God often breaks us to remake us.** A heart surrendered to Him may ache, but it is never abandoned. If you are carrying shame, regret, or bitterness from past relationships, lay it at the cross. Jesus bore your pain so you wouldn’t have to. His yoke is easy, and His burden is light (Matthew 11:30)—but you must release the weight of the past to take hold of it.
Let us pray for you now:
*Heavenly Father, we lift this precious sister to You, knowing You see the depths of her heart. Lord, if she has not fully surrendered to Christ, convict her now. Draw her into Your arms, and let her find her identity in You alone. Wash her clean of every sin—every past relationship that dishonored You, every moment of doubt or fear. Father, heal her heart from brokenness and align her desires with Your Word. If she longs for marriage, prepare her to be a godly wife and bring a man after Your own heart to lead her in righteousness. But first, let her find completeness in You. Teach her to wait on Your timing, trusting that Your grace is sufficient for every need. Break any chain of sin or idolatry in her life, and fill her with Your peace. We rebuke the enemy’s lies that she is defined by her past or her longings. She is Yours, Lord. Cover her with the blood of Jesus and lead her into the fullness of Your will. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.*
Sister, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, especially in Psalms for healing and Proverbs for wisdom. Surround yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life. If you are struggling with temptation or unresolved sin, confess it to a mature Christian sister or pastor who can walk with you in accountability. God’s best for you is worth the wait—**do not settle for less than His perfect will.** Stand firm, and trust that He who began a good work in you will complete it (Philippians 1:6). We are praying for you.
Now, let us speak to the longing in your heart for relationships and timing. You ask about "life in *your* time" and reference men from your past who were not "lovers forever." Sister, we must gently but firmly address this: **God’s design for intimacy is sacred and reserved for marriage between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4).** Any physical or emotional intimacy outside of this covenant—whether fornication, adultery, or even deep emotional entanglements with those who are not your spouse—is sin before God. If your past includes relationships where boundaries were crossed, we urge you to repent and seek His cleansing. The blood of Jesus *is* sufficient to wash away every sin (1 John 1:9), but true freedom comes when we align our lives with His Word, not our desires.
You also mention DNA and God’s will. While we don’t fully understand your reference, we know this: **Your identity is not found in biology, past mistakes, or even your longings—it is found in Christ.** You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and God’s plan for you is good (Jeremiah 29:11). But His "time" is not ours to demand. Instead, we are called to trust Him, even in waiting. If you are seeking a spouse, we pray you would seek a *godly* husband—one who loves the Lord above all and is committed to biblical marriage. Courtship should be intentional, pure, and directed toward covenant, not temporary fulfillment. Flee from any relationship that dishonors God, even if it breaks your heart to let go. His grace *is* sufficient (2 Corinthians 12:9), and His healing is deeper than any earthly love.
Lastly, we sense a fear of brokenness in your words. Beloved, **God often breaks us to remake us.** A heart surrendered to Him may ache, but it is never abandoned. If you are carrying shame, regret, or bitterness from past relationships, lay it at the cross. Jesus bore your pain so you wouldn’t have to. His yoke is easy, and His burden is light (Matthew 11:30)—but you must release the weight of the past to take hold of it.
Let us pray for you now:
*Heavenly Father, we lift this precious sister to You, knowing You see the depths of her heart. Lord, if she has not fully surrendered to Christ, convict her now. Draw her into Your arms, and let her find her identity in You alone. Wash her clean of every sin—every past relationship that dishonored You, every moment of doubt or fear. Father, heal her heart from brokenness and align her desires with Your Word. If she longs for marriage, prepare her to be a godly wife and bring a man after Your own heart to lead her in righteousness. But first, let her find completeness in You. Teach her to wait on Your timing, trusting that Your grace is sufficient for every need. Break any chain of sin or idolatry in her life, and fill her with Your peace. We rebuke the enemy’s lies that she is defined by her past or her longings. She is Yours, Lord. Cover her with the blood of Jesus and lead her into the fullness of Your will. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.*
Sister, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, especially in Psalms for healing and Proverbs for wisdom. Surround yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life. If you are struggling with temptation or unresolved sin, confess it to a mature Christian sister or pastor who can walk with you in accountability. God’s best for you is worth the wait—**do not settle for less than His perfect will.** Stand firm, and trust that He who began a good work in you will complete it (Philippians 1:6). We are praying for you.
We hear your heart's cry, dear sister, for clarity, healing, and God's perfect timing in your life. We want you to know that you're not alone in this journey. We're here, praying with you, for you.
You've mentioned the blood of Jesus and God's grace, which tells us you understand the power of His sacrifice. That's a beautiful place to start. But let's focus on another aspect of your prayer: your longing for life in "your time" and the men from your past who weren't "lovers forever."
We understand that you're seeking a deep, lasting connection, a love that's true and unchanging. That's a God-given desire, and it's beautiful. But we must remember, God's design for intimacy is sacred and reserved for marriage between one man and one woman. Any physical or emotional intimacy outside of this covenant can lead us astray and cause pain.
If your past includes relationships where boundaries were crossed, we encourage you to repent and seek God's cleansing. The blood of Jesus is sufficient to wash away every sin. Trust in His power to heal and restore you.
You also mentioned DNA and God's will. While we're not sure about the specifics, we know this: your identity is not found in biology, past mistakes, or even your longings. It's found in Christ. You are fearfully and wonderfully made, and God's plan for you is good. But His timing is not ours to demand. We must trust Him, even in waiting.
If you're seeking a spouse, we pray you would seek a godly husband - one who loves the Lord above all and is committed to biblical marriage. Courtship should be intentional, pure, and directed towards covenant, not temporary fulfillment. Flee from any relationship that dishonors God, even if it breaks your heart to let go. His grace is sufficient, and His healing is deeper than any earthly love.
Lastly, we sense a fear of brokenness in your words. Beloved, God often breaks us to remake us. A heart surrendered to Him may ache, but it's never abandoned. If you're carrying shame, regret, or bitterness from past relationships, lay it at the cross. Jesus bore your pain so you wouldn't have to. His yoke is easy, and His burden is light - but you must release the weight of the past to take hold of it.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift this precious sister to You, knowing You see the depths of her heart. Lord, if she has not fully surrendered to Christ, convict her now. Draw her into Your arms and let her find her identity in You alone. Wash her clean of every sin - every past relationship that dishonored You, every moment of doubt or fear. Father, heal her heart from brokenness and align her desires with Your Word. If she longs for marriage, prepare her to be a godly wife and bring a man after Your own heart to lead her in righteousness. But first, let her find completeness in You. Teach her to wait on Your timing, trusting that Your grace is sufficient for every need. Break any chain of sin or idolatry in her life and fill her with Your peace. We rebuke the enemy's lies that she is defined by her past or her longings. She is Yours, Lord. Cover her with the blood of Jesus and lead her into the fullness of Your will. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."
Sister, we encourage you to spend time in God's Word daily, especially in Psalms for healing and Proverbs for wisdom. Surround yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life. If you're struggling with temptation or unresolved sin, confess it to a mature Christian sister or pastor who can walk with you in accountability. God's best for you is worth the wait - don't settle for less than His perfect will. Stand firm, and trust that He who began a good work in you will complete it. We're praying for you.
You've mentioned the blood of Jesus and God's grace, which tells us you understand the power of His sacrifice. That's a beautiful place to start. But let's focus on another aspect of your prayer: your longing for life in "your time" and the men from your past who weren't "lovers forever."
We understand that you're seeking a deep, lasting connection, a love that's true and unchanging. That's a God-given desire, and it's beautiful. But we must remember, God's design for intimacy is sacred and reserved for marriage between one man and one woman. Any physical or emotional intimacy outside of this covenant can lead us astray and cause pain.
If your past includes relationships where boundaries were crossed, we encourage you to repent and seek God's cleansing. The blood of Jesus is sufficient to wash away every sin. Trust in His power to heal and restore you.
You also mentioned DNA and God's will. While we're not sure about the specifics, we know this: your identity is not found in biology, past mistakes, or even your longings. It's found in Christ. You are fearfully and wonderfully made, and God's plan for you is good. But His timing is not ours to demand. We must trust Him, even in waiting.
If you're seeking a spouse, we pray you would seek a godly husband - one who loves the Lord above all and is committed to biblical marriage. Courtship should be intentional, pure, and directed towards covenant, not temporary fulfillment. Flee from any relationship that dishonors God, even if it breaks your heart to let go. His grace is sufficient, and His healing is deeper than any earthly love.
Lastly, we sense a fear of brokenness in your words. Beloved, God often breaks us to remake us. A heart surrendered to Him may ache, but it's never abandoned. If you're carrying shame, regret, or bitterness from past relationships, lay it at the cross. Jesus bore your pain so you wouldn't have to. His yoke is easy, and His burden is light - but you must release the weight of the past to take hold of it.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift this precious sister to You, knowing You see the depths of her heart. Lord, if she has not fully surrendered to Christ, convict her now. Draw her into Your arms and let her find her identity in You alone. Wash her clean of every sin - every past relationship that dishonored You, every moment of doubt or fear. Father, heal her heart from brokenness and align her desires with Your Word. If she longs for marriage, prepare her to be a godly wife and bring a man after Your own heart to lead her in righteousness. But first, let her find completeness in You. Teach her to wait on Your timing, trusting that Your grace is sufficient for every need. Break any chain of sin or idolatry in her life and fill her with Your peace. We rebuke the enemy's lies that she is defined by her past or her longings. She is Yours, Lord. Cover her with the blood of Jesus and lead her into the fullness of Your will. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."
Sister, we encourage you to spend time in God's Word daily, especially in Psalms for healing and Proverbs for wisdom. Surround yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life. If you're struggling with temptation or unresolved sin, confess it to a mature Christian sister or pastor who can walk with you in accountability. God's best for you is worth the wait - don't settle for less than His perfect will. Stand firm, and trust that He who began a good work in you will complete it. We're praying for you.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
We want to thank you for inviting us into this deeply personal season of prayer with you. The longing for God’s perfect timing in relationships—and the surrender of past heartaches—is a burden we’ve carried with you before the Lord these past days. We’ve prayed earnestly that He would realign your steps with His will, breaking every ungodly tie and healing the wounds left by relationships that were never meant to define you. His grace *is* sufficient, and we’ve stood in faith that the blood of Jesus would wash over every area of your heart, restoring trust in His timing and purpose for your love story.
If the Lord has already begun to move in this area—whether through peace, closure, or a clear path forward—we’d love for you to share a praise report so we can rejoice with you. If the wait still feels heavy or the answers unclear, we’re here to keep interceding. Post your request again, and we’ll continue to lift you up, believing that God is faithful to complete the work He’s started in you.
May you sense His nearness in this season, knowing that He collects every tear and redeems every broken place. We’re trusting Him to guard your heart and lead you into the fullness of His plan—for His glory and your joy. In Jesus’ name.
If the Lord has already begun to move in this area—whether through peace, closure, or a clear path forward—we’d love for you to share a praise report so we can rejoice with you. If the wait still feels heavy or the answers unclear, we’re here to keep interceding. Post your request again, and we’ll continue to lift you up, believing that God is faithful to complete the work He’s started in you.
May you sense His nearness in this season, knowing that He collects every tear and redeems every broken place. We’re trusting Him to guard your heart and lead you into the fullness of His plan—for His glory and your joy. In Jesus’ name.
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