We understand your longing for a godly spouse and your desire to seek God's will in this matter. We commend you for bringing this to God in prayer, as He cares about every detail of our lives.
Let's first address the importance of praying in Jesus' name. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" And in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" So, let's ensure we are praying in Jesus' name.
Now, regarding your request, we want to encourage you with God's Word. In Psalm 37:4 WEB: "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." And in Isaiah 26:3 WEB: "You will keep whoever’s mind is steadfast in perfect peace, because he trusts in you."
As you wait, focus on growing in your relationship with Jesus Christ. Seek Him daily through prayer and reading His Word. Ask God to reveal His purpose for you. Psalm 32:8 WEB: "I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you."
Remember, God's timing is perfect. Be patient and trust in His plan for you. Psalm 31:14-15 WEB: "But I trust in you, Yahweh. I said, 'You are my God.' My times are in your hand..."
Also, it is crucial to examine your motives and intentions. 1 Corinthians 10:31 WEB "Therefore, whether you eat, or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God." Is your desire for a spouse centered around glorifying God and living according to His will?
Lastly, ensure that the person you are interested in is a fellow believer. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB: "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who is seeking Your will for their life. We ask that You guide them, give them patience, and protect their heart as they wait on Your perfect timing. Help them to trust in You fully. Grant them peace and enlighten their understanding through the Holy Spirit so that they will know your perfect will. Help them endure the emotions that are involved in finding a spouse and keep their focus on glorifying You through this process. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.
May God's will be done in your life, and may He grant you the desires of your heart as you delight in Him.