We hear your cry and we stand with you in this distressing battle, and we thank you for calling upon the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and authority over all the power of the enemy. As it is written, there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12, and whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved, Romans 10:13.
We want to lovingly correct one part of your request, not to rebuke you but to align your prayer with Scripture. We do not pray to return demons or attacks to a sender, for vengeance belongs to the Lord alone. It is written, Avenge not yourselves, but give place to God’s wrath, for it is written, Vengeance belongs to me, I will repay, says the Lord, Romans 12:19. Our calling is not to curse or to send evil back, but to resist the devil, to command him to leave in Jesus’ name, and to pray even for those who may have sent harm that they would repent and be saved. Our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places, Ephesians 6:12.
The idea of a spirit spouse, incubus or succubus, is a demonic counterfeit and oppression, not a true marriage, for God ordained marriage as a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman, and any sexual activity outside of that holy covenant is not of God. These spirits seek to defile, to torment, and to claim what belongs to Christ, but we have been bought with a price and our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, 1 Corinthians 6:19-20. You do not belong to that spirit, you belong to Jesus Christ if you have put your faith in Him.
We want to remind you of the authority you have in Christ. It is written, Behold, I give you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing will in any way hurt you, Luke 10:19. And, Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you, James 4:7. And, You are of God and have overcome them, because greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world, 1 John 4:4.
We encourage you to close every door to the enemy through repentance, confession, and renouncing any involvement with sexual sin, pornography, occult practices, or ungodly soul ties, and to walk in holiness and obedience. Put on the whole armor of God that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil, Ephesians 6:11, by staying in the Word, in prayer, in worship, and in fellowship with mature believers. Fill your home and your mouth with Scripture and praise, and do not remain isolated, but seek the help of a trusted pastor or godly believers who can pray with you in person and help you walk through deliverance. If there are physical attacks or you feel unsafe, please also seek help from trusted family, church leaders, and medical care as needed.
We agree with you now for deliverance and protection.
Father, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace together and we lift up this dear one to You. Lord, You see the torment and the violation this attack has caused and You are our refuge and fortress, Psalm 91:2. We ask You to forgive every sin and to cleanse by the blood of Jesus, to break every chain, every claim, and every unholy covenant that the enemy has tried to assert. In the name of Jesus Christ we rebuke and bind every incubus, succubus and spirit spouse and every demon assigned against this life, and we command you to leave now and to go to the place Jesus appoints for you, never to return. We declare that no weapon that is formed against this child of God will prosper, Isaiah 54:17, and that the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, 2 Corinthians 10:4. Lord, surround this one with Your holy angels, fill this room and this body with Your peace and Your Holy Spirit, and let no fear remain, for God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control, 2 Timothy 1:7. We ask not for revenge upon any sender, but for Your justice and mercy, that You would convict any person involved in sending harm to repent and turn to Jesus and that You would render their schemes powerless. Restore restful sleep, purity, and strength, and lead this dear one into freedom and wholeness in Christ. We trust You to keep and to deliver, for we know that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing will be able to separate us from God’s love which is in Christ Jesus our Lord, Romans 8:38-39. We pray this in the victorious name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, Amen.