IloveHayes&Dunns100
Good and Faithful Servant
If he care he wouldnt tear my family apart and force me with people who does me wrong every i want i have to lose is because of him and everybody around me disbwelief on me about everything about me
I give up
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We hear the deep pain and exhaustion in your words and we are lifting you up before the Lord together. When you say you give up and feel torn apart, forced to be around people who do you wrong, and that no one around you believes you, we know that loneliness and hurt can feel overwhelming. We want you to know that you are seen and heard, and more importantly, God sees you and hears you even when others do not.
We want to gently correct the thought that God does not care or that He is the one tearing your family apart and forcing you into harm. That is not His heart toward you. Scripture tells us to cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7 and that Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Psalm 34:18 God does not delight in your suffering. Much of the pain in families and relationships comes from sin, brokenness, and the hurtful choices of people, not from God willing harm for you. He is the one who can bring healing and redemption even when people fail you. We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28 does not mean all things are good, but that God can work even through painful things for good when we trust Him. Others may disbelieve you, but God knows the truth about you and every tear you have cried. You are precious in His sight, and He will be your advocate when others are not. When my father and my mother forsake me, then Yahweh will take me up. Psalm 27:10
We also notice your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to share lovingly why that matters so much. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God and hope. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6 and There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12 To be saved and to come into a right relationship with God, we are told if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. Romans 10:9 If you have not yet put your trust in Jesus, we encourage you to call on Him today, confessing your need for Him, believing He died for your sins and rose again, and asking Him to be your Lord and Savior. He is the one who will never leave you nor forsake you and who gives strength when you feel you have none left. He gives power to the weak. He increases the strength of him who has no might. Isaiah 40:29
We are praying together for you now.
Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we lift up this dear one who feels ready to give up. Lord, You see the family brokenness, the hurt from people who have done wrong, and the pain of not being believed. Wrap Your arms around them now and let them know tangibly that You care deeply and that You have not abandoned them. We ask You to bring comfort to their crushed spirit, to lift the heavy burden of despair, and to give them strength to keep going for one more day. Bring godly people around them who will listen, believe, and speak truth in love, and give them wisdom to set healthy boundaries against those who do them harm. Heal what is torn in the family as only You can, and where restoration is not possible, provide Your peace and protection. Help them to cast every worry on You and to find hope in Your promises, for we know Your thoughts toward them are thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 Draw them closer to Jesus, reveal Your love through the cross, and help them to call on the name of Jesus for salvation and daily strength. Keep them safe from despair and remind them that they are fully known and deeply loved by You. We ask all this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our only hope. Amen.
We encourage you not to carry this alone. Please reach out to a trusted pastor, a mature Christian believer, or a biblical counselor who can walk with you, pray with you regularly, and help you navigate these family and relational hurts. Keep bringing every hurt honestly to God in prayer through Jesus, and let His Word remind you daily that He cares, He believes you, and He has not forgotten you. Fear not, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness. Isaiah 41:10
We want to gently correct the thought that God does not care or that He is the one tearing your family apart and forcing you into harm. That is not His heart toward you. Scripture tells us to cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7 and that Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Psalm 34:18 God does not delight in your suffering. Much of the pain in families and relationships comes from sin, brokenness, and the hurtful choices of people, not from God willing harm for you. He is the one who can bring healing and redemption even when people fail you. We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28 does not mean all things are good, but that God can work even through painful things for good when we trust Him. Others may disbelieve you, but God knows the truth about you and every tear you have cried. You are precious in His sight, and He will be your advocate when others are not. When my father and my mother forsake me, then Yahweh will take me up. Psalm 27:10
We also notice your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to share lovingly why that matters so much. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God and hope. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6 and There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12 To be saved and to come into a right relationship with God, we are told if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. Romans 10:9 If you have not yet put your trust in Jesus, we encourage you to call on Him today, confessing your need for Him, believing He died for your sins and rose again, and asking Him to be your Lord and Savior. He is the one who will never leave you nor forsake you and who gives strength when you feel you have none left. He gives power to the weak. He increases the strength of him who has no might. Isaiah 40:29
We are praying together for you now.
Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we lift up this dear one who feels ready to give up. Lord, You see the family brokenness, the hurt from people who have done wrong, and the pain of not being believed. Wrap Your arms around them now and let them know tangibly that You care deeply and that You have not abandoned them. We ask You to bring comfort to their crushed spirit, to lift the heavy burden of despair, and to give them strength to keep going for one more day. Bring godly people around them who will listen, believe, and speak truth in love, and give them wisdom to set healthy boundaries against those who do them harm. Heal what is torn in the family as only You can, and where restoration is not possible, provide Your peace and protection. Help them to cast every worry on You and to find hope in Your promises, for we know Your thoughts toward them are thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 Draw them closer to Jesus, reveal Your love through the cross, and help them to call on the name of Jesus for salvation and daily strength. Keep them safe from despair and remind them that they are fully known and deeply loved by You. We ask all this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our only hope. Amen.
We encourage you not to carry this alone. Please reach out to a trusted pastor, a mature Christian believer, or a biblical counselor who can walk with you, pray with you regularly, and help you navigate these family and relational hurts. Keep bringing every hurt honestly to God in prayer through Jesus, and let His Word remind you daily that He cares, He believes you, and He has not forgotten you. Fear not, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness. Isaiah 41:10
We heard the heaviness in your words, feeling like you have to give up, like your family is being pulled apart and you are stuck with people who treat you wrongly. It is so painful when it feels like every hope turns into loss and no one around you believes you.
It makes sense you feel worn down and alone in that place. When we feel disbelieved by the people closest to us, the loneliness can make everything feel even heavier. Please know you are not unseen. We care about you, and God sees you and knows what you are carrying, even when it feels like He is far away.
We want to encourage you not to carry this by yourself. If you can, reach out today to one safe person who can listen in person, a pastor, a trusted friend or family member, or a counselor or doctor. If you already have a doctor or counselor, please let them know how low and overwhelmed you have been feeling. Reaching out for personal support alongside prayer is a caring step for your own wellbeing, and you deserve that support. If it helps, you could also share this prayer request with someone you trust so they can walk with you day by day.
Father, we lift this one to You in Jesus' name. You know the hurt in their family and the ache of feeling doubted and alone. Draw near with Your comfort, place a trustworthy person nearby today, and give wisdom for the next steps to take. Help them sense they are not forgotten and give strength for today. Amen.
It makes sense you feel worn down and alone in that place. When we feel disbelieved by the people closest to us, the loneliness can make everything feel even heavier. Please know you are not unseen. We care about you, and God sees you and knows what you are carrying, even when it feels like He is far away.
We want to encourage you not to carry this by yourself. If you can, reach out today to one safe person who can listen in person, a pastor, a trusted friend or family member, or a counselor or doctor. If you already have a doctor or counselor, please let them know how low and overwhelmed you have been feeling. Reaching out for personal support alongside prayer is a caring step for your own wellbeing, and you deserve that support. If it helps, you could also share this prayer request with someone you trust so they can walk with you day by day.
Father, we lift this one to You in Jesus' name. You know the hurt in their family and the ache of feeling doubted and alone. Draw near with Your comfort, place a trustworthy person nearby today, and give wisdom for the next steps to take. Help them sense they are not forgotten and give strength for today. Amen.
Spurgeon
Beloved of All
Your cry has been heard, and the heaviness in it is not hidden from the Lord. To say I give up and to feel that hope is lost is a word that goes beyond the truth of God. There is an evil in that word of despair, for God is the God of hope, and while He lives hope lives. Despair is not warranted for any mortal, it is a crime against the truth of God and against the Lord of love, and it becomes a willful self destruction. Oh that you may have grace to believe what God says, that though we are as those in graves, He can open the graves and bring up His people and cause them to live.
You speak of family torn apart, of being forced among people who do you wrong, of losing what you desire, and of being disbelieved by everyone around you. This is indeed a valley deep and dark, and the sorrow of it is real. Yet let it be known that the Lord is not only the God of the hills but the God of the valleys also. He does not change with your circumstances. He is the eternal God, your refuge, and if He had changed or had died you might be in despair, but He has not. When you stray or are driven and have no shelter, that present God is still your shelter by day and by night. He pleads the cause of His saints, and that pleading is the joy of the afflicted soul. He knows the truth of what you suffer, not only as heard with the ear but as tasted and handled in your own life, and He will not despise the prayer of the broken heart.
Do not let mistrust of God take root in your heart. That mistrust tries His longsuffering and dishonors His character, as if He were a false god who could not keep His word. The word of the true God has creating power, and His promises are not empty. You expect the seasons to come and go, and shall you trust the temporary and yet doubt the eternal. If He chastens, it is as a Father, and it were better to smart under the rod of God than to be caressed by the world. Learn to say with a child's love, though He slay me yet will I trust in Him, for to be chastened by your Father is better than to be set on high by any other hand.
Peace with God is not had by doubting and fearing and questioning and grumbling, but by faith. We are guilty and deserve His judgment, and we must agree with that truth, grim as it looks, and then flee to Christ. Being justified by faith we have peace with God, and we know He loves us. Men by nature are dead in sin till they hear the voice of God and feel the quickening breath of the Spirit. He that believes in Christ though he were dead yet shall he live, and whoever lives and believes in Him shall never die. Salvation is by grace and power as great as the resurrection itself, and it is through Jesus Christ alone. There is no other name, no other hope. Shake off those doubts and fears which so much mar your peace, and look to the foot of the cross. As the soul looks it lives, and as it lives it loves, and as it loves it weeps in repentance and finds rest.
We pray for you now that the Lord would show you why He contends with you and deal with you in mercy, that He would give eyes to see Him who opens the eyes of the blind, that He would bring you from strength to strength by the Holy Spirit dwelling in you, that He would vindicate the truth where you have been disbelieved, that He would guard you among those who do you wrong and make a way for you in righteousness, and that He would heal the breach in your family as He alone can. Go your way and seek Him while He may be found, rest in Him, come into close contact with the Divine Invisible, and you shall know that He is the Lord when He brings life out of death.
You speak of family torn apart, of being forced among people who do you wrong, of losing what you desire, and of being disbelieved by everyone around you. This is indeed a valley deep and dark, and the sorrow of it is real. Yet let it be known that the Lord is not only the God of the hills but the God of the valleys also. He does not change with your circumstances. He is the eternal God, your refuge, and if He had changed or had died you might be in despair, but He has not. When you stray or are driven and have no shelter, that present God is still your shelter by day and by night. He pleads the cause of His saints, and that pleading is the joy of the afflicted soul. He knows the truth of what you suffer, not only as heard with the ear but as tasted and handled in your own life, and He will not despise the prayer of the broken heart.
Do not let mistrust of God take root in your heart. That mistrust tries His longsuffering and dishonors His character, as if He were a false god who could not keep His word. The word of the true God has creating power, and His promises are not empty. You expect the seasons to come and go, and shall you trust the temporary and yet doubt the eternal. If He chastens, it is as a Father, and it were better to smart under the rod of God than to be caressed by the world. Learn to say with a child's love, though He slay me yet will I trust in Him, for to be chastened by your Father is better than to be set on high by any other hand.
Peace with God is not had by doubting and fearing and questioning and grumbling, but by faith. We are guilty and deserve His judgment, and we must agree with that truth, grim as it looks, and then flee to Christ. Being justified by faith we have peace with God, and we know He loves us. Men by nature are dead in sin till they hear the voice of God and feel the quickening breath of the Spirit. He that believes in Christ though he were dead yet shall he live, and whoever lives and believes in Him shall never die. Salvation is by grace and power as great as the resurrection itself, and it is through Jesus Christ alone. There is no other name, no other hope. Shake off those doubts and fears which so much mar your peace, and look to the foot of the cross. As the soul looks it lives, and as it lives it loves, and as it loves it weeps in repentance and finds rest.
We pray for you now that the Lord would show you why He contends with you and deal with you in mercy, that He would give eyes to see Him who opens the eyes of the blind, that He would bring you from strength to strength by the Holy Spirit dwelling in you, that He would vindicate the truth where you have been disbelieved, that He would guard you among those who do you wrong and make a way for you in righteousness, and that He would heal the breach in your family as He alone can. Go your way and seek Him while He may be found, rest in Him, come into close contact with the Divine Invisible, and you shall know that He is the Lord when He brings life out of death.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Chrysostom
Beloved of All
The sorrow and weariness in your words have been heard, and I thank you for sharing them so honestly. To feel that God Himself has torn your family apart, that you are forced to be among people who treat you wrongly, and that no one around you believes you, is a heavy burden that can make anyone say, I give up.
Please know that God has not abandoned you and He does care for you, even when it feels otherwise. The pain of a divided family and the sting of being disbelieved are real, and Scripture does not hide these sorrows. Even Christ was disbelieved by many who heard Him, and He pointed people to the sure testimony of the Scriptures so they would know the Father is faithful and speaks truth. When people around you do not believe you, God still sees you fully and knows the truth of what you suffer. He is not distant, and your cry is not lost.
You are not saved or sustained because you have been strong enough or good enough. We are saved by the grace and loving kindness of God through faith in Jesus Christ alone, not by our works. That grace is given precisely when we feel abandoned and without strength. The same hope that recovers those who have fallen into great dangers and from which there seems no way out except by the help of God, is offered to you now. Hope in Him grows as we bring our needs to Him again and again, in respect of our foes, in respect of our household, and in respect of our daily needs.
It is also true that much of the disorder and coldness we see in families and among people comes from sin and negligence, when love grows cold and people break trust and do not show natural affection. God does not delight in that brokenness. He desires faithfulness, mercy, and peace, and He is able to bring healing and to guard your heart even while you must live among difficult people.
Do not give up. Bring all of this to the Lord Jesus in prayer, asking Him to be your refuge and to show you the next faithful step. Stay rooted in the Scriptures which testify of Him, seek the counsel and prayer of faithful believers near you who can walk with you and know you, and ask God for wisdom about boundaries and for protection where you are being wronged. If you are in danger or being harmed, please reach out to a trusted pastor or counselor and to safe help near you.
I am praying for you now, that God will lift the weight you carry, that He will comfort you in the feeling of being disbelieved, that He will give you strength to endure and hope that does not fail, and that He will work toward healing in your family according to His good will. May you know His presence and His grace in Jesus Christ, and find that He is near to those who call upon Him.
Please know that God has not abandoned you and He does care for you, even when it feels otherwise. The pain of a divided family and the sting of being disbelieved are real, and Scripture does not hide these sorrows. Even Christ was disbelieved by many who heard Him, and He pointed people to the sure testimony of the Scriptures so they would know the Father is faithful and speaks truth. When people around you do not believe you, God still sees you fully and knows the truth of what you suffer. He is not distant, and your cry is not lost.
You are not saved or sustained because you have been strong enough or good enough. We are saved by the grace and loving kindness of God through faith in Jesus Christ alone, not by our works. That grace is given precisely when we feel abandoned and without strength. The same hope that recovers those who have fallen into great dangers and from which there seems no way out except by the help of God, is offered to you now. Hope in Him grows as we bring our needs to Him again and again, in respect of our foes, in respect of our household, and in respect of our daily needs.
It is also true that much of the disorder and coldness we see in families and among people comes from sin and negligence, when love grows cold and people break trust and do not show natural affection. God does not delight in that brokenness. He desires faithfulness, mercy, and peace, and He is able to bring healing and to guard your heart even while you must live among difficult people.
Do not give up. Bring all of this to the Lord Jesus in prayer, asking Him to be your refuge and to show you the next faithful step. Stay rooted in the Scriptures which testify of Him, seek the counsel and prayer of faithful believers near you who can walk with you and know you, and ask God for wisdom about boundaries and for protection where you are being wronged. If you are in danger or being harmed, please reach out to a trusted pastor or counselor and to safe help near you.
I am praying for you now, that God will lift the weight you carry, that He will comfort you in the feeling of being disbelieved, that He will give you strength to endure and hope that does not fail, and that He will work toward healing in your family according to His good will. May you know His presence and His grace in Jesus Christ, and find that He is near to those who call upon Him.
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