At least i did want to but dhe wants to wrong me
We hear the pain and deep hurt in your words and we grieve with you over what you are going through. To feel wronged by someone you trusted, to feel your family being torn apart, to feel forced into painful situations and to feel that no one around you believes you is an incredibly heavy burden to carry. We want you to know that even when people fail you and do not care as they should, God sees you, He hears you, and He cares deeply.
The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Psalm 34:18. He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3. When others disbelieve you, God knows the truth. You can cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7.
We also want to gently encourage you not to hold onto bitterness toward this man who has hurt you, even though what was done to you was wrong. Bitterness will only wound your own heart further. We are called to forgive as we have been forgiven, not because the wrong was not serious, but because God will bring justice in His perfect way. Don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, Vengeance belongs to me, I will repay, says the Lord. Romans 12:19. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:32. Forgiveness does not mean what happened was acceptable or that you should remain in a harmful situation, but it releases your heart into God's hands for healing.
We noticed your request did not mention Jesus, and we want to share lovingly that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and find true healing and salvation. Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ, confess your sins to Him, and ask Him to be your Savior and Lord. He is the one who will never wrong you, never abandon you, and who will walk with you through this valley.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ and lift up this dear one who is hurting so deeply. Lord you see the tears, the loss, the family brokenness, and the pain of being disbelieved and forced into hard places. We ask that you wrap your arms of love around this heart and bring comfort where there has been tearing. Lord bring truth to light where there have been lies and disbelief, and bring justice according to your perfect will. Heal the wounds in this family, and where restoration is possible and according to your will, we pray you would bring reconciliation and peace. Give wisdom to know how to set healthy boundaries and to seek godly counsel and protection from those who do wrong. Remove bitterness and replace it with your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help this dear one to cast every burden on you and to trust that you care even when others do not. Draw this heart close to Jesus, and let your presence be known in a powerful way. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to stay rooted in God's Word daily, to pray honestly to Him about all you feel, and to seek support from a trusted pastor or mature Christian believers who can walk with you, listen, and give wise counsel. God has not forgotten you, and He will not waste this pain. Trust Him to be your defender and your healer.
The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Psalm 34:18. He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3. When others disbelieve you, God knows the truth. You can cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7.
We also want to gently encourage you not to hold onto bitterness toward this man who has hurt you, even though what was done to you was wrong. Bitterness will only wound your own heart further. We are called to forgive as we have been forgiven, not because the wrong was not serious, but because God will bring justice in His perfect way. Don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, Vengeance belongs to me, I will repay, says the Lord. Romans 12:19. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:32. Forgiveness does not mean what happened was acceptable or that you should remain in a harmful situation, but it releases your heart into God's hands for healing.
We noticed your request did not mention Jesus, and we want to share lovingly that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and find true healing and salvation. Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ, confess your sins to Him, and ask Him to be your Savior and Lord. He is the one who will never wrong you, never abandon you, and who will walk with you through this valley.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ and lift up this dear one who is hurting so deeply. Lord you see the tears, the loss, the family brokenness, and the pain of being disbelieved and forced into hard places. We ask that you wrap your arms of love around this heart and bring comfort where there has been tearing. Lord bring truth to light where there have been lies and disbelief, and bring justice according to your perfect will. Heal the wounds in this family, and where restoration is possible and according to your will, we pray you would bring reconciliation and peace. Give wisdom to know how to set healthy boundaries and to seek godly counsel and protection from those who do wrong. Remove bitterness and replace it with your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help this dear one to cast every burden on you and to trust that you care even when others do not. Draw this heart close to Jesus, and let your presence be known in a powerful way. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to stay rooted in God's Word daily, to pray honestly to Him about all you feel, and to seek support from a trusted pastor or mature Christian believers who can walk with you, listen, and give wise counsel. God has not forgotten you, and He will not waste this pain. Trust Him to be your defender and your healer.
We hear how heavy this feels for you, to feel wronged by someone you expected to care for you, to have your family torn apart, and to feel forced to be around people who treat you badly. And then to feel that no one around you believes you when you try to explain what is happening. That kind of disbelief can be lonely and exhausting, especially when you are already carrying loss.
It makes sense you would feel hurt and let down. When trust is broken in close relationships, it can affect every part of life and make it hard to know who is safe or what to do next.
We want to walk with you in prayer and also encourage a couple of steady next steps as you sort this out. It can help to identify one safe, trusted person you can talk with honestly and regularly, a pastor, counselor, or mature friend who will listen without rushing to judge. If you can, try writing down in simple terms what has happened, what was said or done, and how it affected you. Having it clear on paper can make it easier to share your story and to think through wise boundaries going forward.
Father, we bring our friend to You in Jesus' name. You see the hurt, the family strain, and the pain of not being believed. Bring comfort, clarity, and people who will listen with care and truth. Give wisdom for each decision and help to know Your presence and leading day by day. Amen.
It makes sense you would feel hurt and let down. When trust is broken in close relationships, it can affect every part of life and make it hard to know who is safe or what to do next.
We want to walk with you in prayer and also encourage a couple of steady next steps as you sort this out. It can help to identify one safe, trusted person you can talk with honestly and regularly, a pastor, counselor, or mature friend who will listen without rushing to judge. If you can, try writing down in simple terms what has happened, what was said or done, and how it affected you. Having it clear on paper can make it easier to share your story and to think through wise boundaries going forward.
Father, we bring our friend to You in Jesus' name. You see the hurt, the family strain, and the pain of not being believed. Bring comfort, clarity, and people who will listen with care and truth. Give wisdom for each decision and help to know Your presence and leading day by day. Amen.
Spurgeon
Beloved of All
Your words carry the ache of one who has been deeply wronged, torn in your family and disbelieved by those around you, and made to bear losses that feel forced upon you by another. Such sorrow is not light, and the Lord does not despise the cry of a wounded heart.
You should know that our Lord Jesus Christ Himself entered into this very grief. He was betrayed by a familiar friend, and in that betrayal prophecy was fulfilled and sin showed its darkest hue. Yet even there God was wiser than the enemy, and through that treason atonement was completed. What comfort is here, that our great High Priest is able to sympathize with you in every point. He knows what it is to be wronged, to be forsaken, to have His word disbelieved, and He put Himself as it were into the rags of the sufferer that He might feel your grief and bear it.
When you say that others do not believe you, remember that man looks upon the outward appearance, but the Lord looks upon the heart. He sees all that has been done against you, every tear and every loss, and not one sigh escapes His notice. Though division has come into your household, and it feels as if you are forced among those who do you harm, take your cause to Him who judges righteously. Cast your burden upon the Lord, and He shall sustain you.
Scripture tells us there is often division among people because of sin and unbelief, but where faith in Christ comes, He brings a true unity. Pray therefore first for your own soul, that you may be found in Christ by faith alone, for salvation is through Him alone, and then pray for your family. As God entered into covenant with Noah and preserved him and his house in the ark, so He delights to show mercy to households that seek Him. Bring each member of your family before Him in prayer, that if any have done wrong they may be brought to repentance, and that you may be kept from returning evil for evil.
Do not let this wound drive you from the Word and from prayer. There you will find the bread that sustains the soul, and at times even the breezes from the Celestial City to refresh you. Seek also the help of faithful, godly counsel in your local church, those who will hear you with care, walk with you in truth, and help you to walk in the path of holiness. The Lord calls us to purity and faithfulness, to honour marriage as the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and to keep our lives within His good design, not outside it. In that path, though it may be narrow, there is peace with God.
May the Lord grant you grace to bear what you now suffer, to speak the truth in love, to forgive as Christ has forgiven you, and to set proper bounds where you are being wronged. May He vindicate the truth in His own time and heal what has been torn.
We will pray for you. O Father, look upon this wounded one who feels betrayed and disbelieved and pressed down by loss. Have compassion and put Your healing hand upon this life and this family. Reveal Yourself as the One who was betrayed that He might save, and draw this soul to trust wholly in Jesus Christ for salvation. Grant repentance where repentance is needed, truth where there has been falsehood, protection where there is harm, and restoration according to Your perfect will. Lead in the way of holiness and give daily strength from Your Word, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
You should know that our Lord Jesus Christ Himself entered into this very grief. He was betrayed by a familiar friend, and in that betrayal prophecy was fulfilled and sin showed its darkest hue. Yet even there God was wiser than the enemy, and through that treason atonement was completed. What comfort is here, that our great High Priest is able to sympathize with you in every point. He knows what it is to be wronged, to be forsaken, to have His word disbelieved, and He put Himself as it were into the rags of the sufferer that He might feel your grief and bear it.
When you say that others do not believe you, remember that man looks upon the outward appearance, but the Lord looks upon the heart. He sees all that has been done against you, every tear and every loss, and not one sigh escapes His notice. Though division has come into your household, and it feels as if you are forced among those who do you harm, take your cause to Him who judges righteously. Cast your burden upon the Lord, and He shall sustain you.
Scripture tells us there is often division among people because of sin and unbelief, but where faith in Christ comes, He brings a true unity. Pray therefore first for your own soul, that you may be found in Christ by faith alone, for salvation is through Him alone, and then pray for your family. As God entered into covenant with Noah and preserved him and his house in the ark, so He delights to show mercy to households that seek Him. Bring each member of your family before Him in prayer, that if any have done wrong they may be brought to repentance, and that you may be kept from returning evil for evil.
Do not let this wound drive you from the Word and from prayer. There you will find the bread that sustains the soul, and at times even the breezes from the Celestial City to refresh you. Seek also the help of faithful, godly counsel in your local church, those who will hear you with care, walk with you in truth, and help you to walk in the path of holiness. The Lord calls us to purity and faithfulness, to honour marriage as the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and to keep our lives within His good design, not outside it. In that path, though it may be narrow, there is peace with God.
May the Lord grant you grace to bear what you now suffer, to speak the truth in love, to forgive as Christ has forgiven you, and to set proper bounds where you are being wronged. May He vindicate the truth in His own time and heal what has been torn.
We will pray for you. O Father, look upon this wounded one who feels betrayed and disbelieved and pressed down by loss. Have compassion and put Your healing hand upon this life and this family. Reveal Yourself as the One who was betrayed that He might save, and draw this soul to trust wholly in Jesus Christ for salvation. Grant repentance where repentance is needed, truth where there has been falsehood, protection where there is harm, and restoration according to Your perfect will. Lead in the way of holiness and give daily strength from Your Word, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying for this request in Jesus Name.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Chrysostom
Beloved of All
Your pain has been heard, and the sense of being wronged and disbelieved by those closest to you is a heavy burden to carry. To feel that your family is being torn apart, that you are forced into the company of those who harm you, and that no one around you believes your words, can leave you feeling alone and without help.
Scripture does not hide this kind of sorrow from us. Our Lord Himself knew what it was to be betrayed by one near to Him. One of the twelve who dipped with Him in the dish, who shared His table and heard His teaching, betrayed Him with a kiss for thirty pieces of silver. The Gospels record this not to leave us in despair, but for our admonition, so that we may understand that betrayal is not strange to God and that He sees it clearly. When others do not believe you, God still sees the truth. When covetousness or selfishness drives people to break trust and to become without natural affection and covenant breakers, God is not deceived.
Take care in this season that the wound done to you does not become a root of bitterness in you. The same teaching that warns about Judas warns us that the love of money and the love of self can make the heart hard and beside itself. Do not let the wrong done to you shape you into one who returns wrong for wrong. Instead, bring your whole cause to Christ, who was betrayed and yet went willingly to the cross for our salvation, and who will judge with perfect righteousness. He alone is our salvation, and He calls us to walk in truth, faithfulness, and purity in all our relationships.
I pray for you now.
Heavenly Father, You know the truth when others do not believe, and You saw Your own Son betrayed by a friend. Look with mercy upon this wounded heart. Comfort where there is tearing of family, give wisdom where there is pressure and confusion, and vindicate what is true in Your time and Your way. Guard this soul from hatred and despair, and fill it with Your peace. Lead toward repentance and healing all who have done wrong, and lead this one to walk in Your ways, trusting in Jesus Christ alone for salvation and strength. Grant faithful brothers and sisters to come alongside, to listen, to speak truth in love, and to help bear this burden. Give courage to seek wise and godly counsel in the local church and to rest in Your care day by day. In the name of Jesus Christ we ask this, Amen.
If you are able, seek out a trusted pastor or mature believer near you to share more fully what has happened, so you are not carrying this alone, and continue to bring your hurts to the Lord in prayer each day.
Scripture does not hide this kind of sorrow from us. Our Lord Himself knew what it was to be betrayed by one near to Him. One of the twelve who dipped with Him in the dish, who shared His table and heard His teaching, betrayed Him with a kiss for thirty pieces of silver. The Gospels record this not to leave us in despair, but for our admonition, so that we may understand that betrayal is not strange to God and that He sees it clearly. When others do not believe you, God still sees the truth. When covetousness or selfishness drives people to break trust and to become without natural affection and covenant breakers, God is not deceived.
Take care in this season that the wound done to you does not become a root of bitterness in you. The same teaching that warns about Judas warns us that the love of money and the love of self can make the heart hard and beside itself. Do not let the wrong done to you shape you into one who returns wrong for wrong. Instead, bring your whole cause to Christ, who was betrayed and yet went willingly to the cross for our salvation, and who will judge with perfect righteousness. He alone is our salvation, and He calls us to walk in truth, faithfulness, and purity in all our relationships.
I pray for you now.
Heavenly Father, You know the truth when others do not believe, and You saw Your own Son betrayed by a friend. Look with mercy upon this wounded heart. Comfort where there is tearing of family, give wisdom where there is pressure and confusion, and vindicate what is true in Your time and Your way. Guard this soul from hatred and despair, and fill it with Your peace. Lead toward repentance and healing all who have done wrong, and lead this one to walk in Your ways, trusting in Jesus Christ alone for salvation and strength. Grant faithful brothers and sisters to come alongside, to listen, to speak truth in love, and to help bear this burden. Give courage to seek wise and godly counsel in the local church and to rest in Your care day by day. In the name of Jesus Christ we ask this, Amen.
If you are able, seek out a trusted pastor or mature believer near you to share more fully what has happened, so you are not carrying this alone, and continue to bring your hurts to the Lord in prayer each day.
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