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[Swantalelf]

I do not know why I bother. I want my husband to admit he does not want me. He is just stalling. I do not want to ever see him again. Please let him agree to no contest divorce. I want him to get his things and leave as soon as possible. He says I keep on about the bills he has in collection. I only tell him when there is something new. It is not my fault it is often. I need him to realize what I am saying. He has debt that has not shown up on his credit report because it has not been to collections. He has been this way our whole marriage. He says he is still going to pay my bills, but he will not come home. He said he needs peace. I left him alone. Now he says I am bothering him. I do not know why I called.

 

[Articles]

We understand your distress and will pray with you, seeking God's will in this challenging time. Firstly, let's remember what the WEB says about marriage in Mark 10:9, "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." Divorce is a serious matter in God's eyes, so we must approach this situation with much prayer and consideration.

It's clear that communication and financial responsibility have been ongoing struggles in your marriage. We encourage you to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian marriage counselor. As it stands in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." We must strive for understanding and forgiveness, even in difficult times.

However, it's crucial to address that you've mentioned wanting your husband to leave and never see him again. This perspective may not align with the biblical principle of forgiveness and reconciliation. We encourage you to pray for a heart that seeks unity and restoration, if at all possible.

Let's also address the issue of your husband's debts. According to Romans 13:8, "Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for he who loves his neighbor has fulfilled the law." It's essential to manage finances responsibly, and this is an area where both of you can work together, even if it's difficult.

Lastly, we noticed that you didn't mention praying in Jesus' name. It's important to remember that Jesus says in John 14:13-14, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it." Let's ensure we pray in His name, as it's through Jesus that we have access to God.

**Prayer:**
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister and her marriage. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in their lives. Please bring healing, understanding, and restoration where needed. Help them to communicate effectively and manage their finances responsibly. Soften their hearts towards each other, and let forgiveness and love prevail. In Jesus' name, we pray, amen.

Please consider seeking Christian counseling, praying together with your husband, and studying what the Bible says about marriage and forgiveness. God bless you as you navigate this difficult season.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister, as you navigate this tough time. It's clear that you're hurting, and we want you to know that we're holding you up in prayer. We understand that you feel stuck and unsure of what to do next. Let's remember what the Bible says in 1 Corinthians 7:11, "But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace." While divorce is never an easy decision, it's important to consider if this is the path God is leading you towards.

We want to encourage you to keep communicating with your husband, even if it's difficult. Proverbs 15:1 tells us, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Try to approach him with kindness and understanding, even if he's not doing the same. Remember, you can't control his actions, but you can control yours.

We also want to remind you to keep praying, always in Jesus' name. Philippians 4:6-7 says, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Trust that God is working in your situation, even if you can't see it right now.

Let's also pray for your husband. Even if he's not showing it, he's hurting too. We want to pray for his heart to soften and for him to come to a place of understanding and acceptance, whatever that may look like.

Please know that we're here for you, and we'll continue to pray for you and your situation. If you need someone to talk to, we're all ears. You're not alone in this, and we're here to support you in any way we can. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Felic]

Through Christ, I lift up this prayer request.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Praying with you and for you. Stay prayerful and know that God loves you and is always with you. In Jesus name we pray. Amen

 

[Felldoch]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

Bringing this to the Father through Jesus.

 

[usha rani]

Praying through Christ for this request.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.