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I cannot end this marriage with ### how he acts. I cannot take much more of this. I am grateful my eyes are open. I need him to keep his word. I pray you keep him safe. I do not want to have to take care of him or spend money because of him. I pray he changes, gets his life together, and do right by me. Thank You for showing me the truth. Protect me and my kids and mend relationships.
 
We hear the deep pain and exhaustion in your heart, and we lift you up before the Lord, knowing that He sees your suffering and longs to bring restoration and peace to your life. Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and we understand the weight of your struggle—both the desire to honor your vows and the overwhelming burden of your husband’s actions. The Lord does not call you to endure abuse, neglect, or unrepentant sin indefinitely, but He does call you to seek His will in all things, trusting that He is faithful to guide you.

First, we must gently but firmly address something critical: your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we are saved, and it is only through Jesus that our prayers are heard. As Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5). We urge you to cry out to God *in the name of Jesus*, for He is your advocate, your strength, and your deliverer. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ as your Lord and Savior, we plead with you to do so now. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9). Without Christ, there is no true hope or power to overcome the brokenness in your marriage or in your heart.

Now, let us speak to the struggles you’ve shared. Your husband’s behavior is not only hurting you but is also dishonoring the covenant he made before God. Scripture is clear about the responsibilities of a husband: *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her"* (Ephesians 5:25). If your husband is neglecting his duties, acting in ways that are harmful or unrepentant, or failing to provide and protect as God commands, this is not just a personal failing—it is sin against God and against you. You are not wrong to desire change, but we must also ask: *Has he been confronted with the truth of his actions in love?* *"Brothers and sisters, even if a person is caught in some trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted"* (Galatians 6:1). If he has not been held accountable, it may be time to seek godly counsel—whether from your pastor, a biblical counselor, or trusted believers—who can speak truth into his life and help him repent.

At the same time, we must address your own heart. You say you *"cannot end this marriage,"* and we understand the weight of that statement. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and divorce is not to be taken lightly. Jesus Himself said, *"What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart"* (Matthew 19:6). However, Scripture also acknowledges that there are circumstances where separation may be necessary for safety or due to unrepentant sin (1 Corinthians 7:10-16). If your husband is engaging in abuse (physical, emotional, or spiritual), addiction, or persistent, unrepentant sin that endangers you or your children, you are *not* obligated to remain in harm’s way. *"For God didn’t call us to uncleanness, but in sanctification. Therefore he who rejects this doesn’t reject man, but God, who gives his Holy Spirit to you"* (1 Thessalonians 4:7-8). Your first duty is to protect the children God has entrusted to you and to seek His will for your own well-being.

You also express a desire for your husband to *"do right by you,"* and while that is understandable, we must gently remind you that your hope cannot ultimately rest in his change—it must rest in Christ. *"Don’t set your affections on things on the earth, but on the things that are above"* (Colossians 3:2). If your husband repents and turns to the Lord, that is a cause for great rejoicing! But if he does not, you must still walk in obedience to God, trusting that He will provide for you and your children. *"Seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:33).

As for your financial concerns, we understand the fear of being burdened by his choices. The Bible teaches that *"if any man doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever"* (1 Timothy 5:8). If your husband is failing in this duty, it is a serious matter. However, we also know that God is your Provider. *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:19). Trust Him to care for you, even if it means seeking practical help from your church or community.

Finally, you ask for protection and the mending of relationships. We agree with you in prayer for this! But true restoration can only come through repentance and forgiveness. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9). If there has been bitterness, resentment, or sin in your own heart, we encourage you to bring it before the Lord. Forgiveness does not mean excusing sin or staying in harm’s way, but it does mean releasing the burden of vengeance to God. *"Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good"* (Romans 12:21).

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious sister who is carrying such a heavy burden. Lord, You see her pain, her exhaustion, and her longing for peace. We ask that You would surround her with Your presence and fill her with Your Holy Spirit, giving her wisdom, strength, and discernment for each step she must take.

Father, we pray for her husband. Convict his heart, Lord, of any sin that has separated him from You and from his family. Bring him to true repentance, that he may turn from his ways and seek Your face. Softens his heart to love and lead as You command. If he is trapped in addiction, pride, or rebellion, break those chains, Lord, and set him free. But if he hardens his heart, we pray You would protect this sister and her children from further harm.

Lord, we ask for Your provision—financially, emotionally, and spiritually. You are Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides. Meet every need according to Your riches in glory. Give her clarity on whether to stay or to separate, and if separation is necessary, provide a way for her and her children to be safe and cared for.

We pray for healing in her heart, Lord. Heal the wounds of betrayal, neglect, or abuse. Restore her joy and her hope in You. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her, but also give her the courage to set boundaries that honor You.

Father, we rebuked any spirit of fear, confusion, or despair in the name of Jesus. We declare that You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Guide her to godly counsel and surround her with believers who will support and uplift her.

Most of all, Lord, draw her closer to You. Let this trial be a refining fire that purifies her faith and deepens her trust in You. May she find her identity, her worth, and her future in Christ alone.

We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.

Sister, we urge you to seek the Lord daily in His Word and in prayer. Connect with a Bible-believing church where you can find support and accountability. If you are in danger, please reach out to trusted believers or authorities who can help you and your children to safety. You are not alone—God is with you, and He will never forsake you. *"The Lord himself is your keeper. The Lord is your shade on your right hand"* (Psalm 121:5). Stay strong in Him.
 
Dear sister, we're here with you, feeling your pain and exhaustion. We know you're at your wit's end, and we're so sorry that you're in this situation. We want you to know that you're not alone, and we're lifting you up in prayer.

First, we want to remind you of the power of Jesus' name. We've seen in the previous response that prayers should be made in Jesus' name. If you haven't already, we encourage you to surrender your life to Christ as your Lord and Savior. He is your advocate, your strength, and your deliverer.

Now, let's talk about your husband. We understand that his actions are causing you deep hurt and are dishonoring the covenant he made before God. We urge you to gently but firmly confront him with the truth of his actions, but do so in love. If he hasn't been held accountable, consider seeking godly counsel from your pastor, a biblical counselor, or trusted believers who can speak truth into his life and help him repent.

At the same time, we want to encourage you to seek God's will for your own life. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, but there are circumstances where separation may be necessary for safety or due to unrepentant sin. If your husband is engaging in abuse, addiction, or persistent, unrepentant sin that endangers you or your children, you are not obligated to remain in harm's way. Your first duty is to protect the children God has entrusted to you and to seek His will for your own well-being.

We also want to remind you that your hope cannot ultimately rest in your husband's change, but in Christ. Trust that God will provide for you and your children, even if it means seeking practical help from your church or community.

Finally, we want to encourage you to forgive as you've been forgiven. Forgiveness doesn't mean excusing sin or staying in harm's way, but it does mean releasing the burden of vengeance to God. Trust that He will bring justice in His time.

Now, let's pray:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious sister who is carrying such a heavy burden. Lord, You see her pain, her exhaustion, and her longing for peace. We ask that You would surround her with Your presence and fill her with Your Holy Spirit, giving her wisdom, strength, and discernment for each step she must take.

Father, we pray for her husband. Convict his heart, Lord, of any sin that has separated him from You and from his family. Bring him to true repentance, that he may turn from his ways and seek Your face. Soften his heart to love and lead as You command. If he is trapped in addiction, pride, or rebellion, break those chains, Lord, and set him free. But if he hardens his heart, we pray You would protect this sister and her children from further harm.

Lord, we ask for Your provision - financially, emotionally, and spiritually. You are Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides. Meet every need according to Your riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Give her clarity on whether to stay or to separate, and if separation is necessary, provide a way for her and her children to be safe and cared for.

We pray for healing in her heart, Lord. Heal the wounds of betrayal, neglect, or abuse. Restore her joy and her hope in You. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her, but also give her the courage to set boundaries that honor You.

Father, we rebuke any spirit of fear, confusion, or despair in the name of Jesus. We declare that You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Guide her to godly counsel and surround her with believers who will support and uplift her.

Most of all, Lord, draw her closer to You. Let this trial be a refining fire that purifies her faith and deepens her trust in You. May she find her identity, her worth, and her future in Christ alone.

We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.

Sister, we urge you to seek the Lord daily in His Word and in prayer. Connect with a Bible-believing church where you can find support and accountability. If you are in danger, please reach out to trusted believers or authorities who can help you and your children to safety. You are not alone - God is with you, and He will never forsake you. "The Lord himself is your keeper; the Lord is your shade on your right hand" (Psalm 121:5). Stay strong in Him.
 
I cannot end this marriage with ### how he acts. I cannot take much more of this. I am grateful my eyes are open. I need him to keep his word. I pray you keep him safe. I do not want to have to take care of him or spend money because of him. I pray he changes, gets his life together, and do right by me. Thank You for showing me the truth. Protect me and my kids and mend relationships.
In the name of Jesus. May God grant you peace and harmony. Amen
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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