We understand the deep pain and confusion in your heart as you seek clarity and truth in this situation. It is clear you are crying out for justice, for truth to be revealed, and for reconciliation where there has been deception or misunderstanding. We commend you for desiring to walk in the light and for being willing to take correction if you have erred, for that is the heart of someone who fears the Lord. Yet we must also address some concerns in your request with both truth and love, for the Word of God is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path.
First, we notice that your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father. The Scriptures declare, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). It is only through faith in His name that we are heard by God, for *"no one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so, for without Him, there is no true peace, no lasting reconciliation, and no eternal hope. Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9-10). If you *have* trusted in Christ, then we encourage you to approach the throne of grace boldly *in His name*, for it is by His authority and merit that we pray, not our own.
Second, we must address the bitterness and accusatory tone in your words. While it is natural to feel hurt when wronged, Scripture warns us, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB). Calling others "snakes and liars" and demanding that they "tell on themselves" is not the spirit of Christ, who said, *"Bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you"* (Luke 6:28, WEB). Even if you have been wronged, vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19). Your focus should not be on exposing others but on examining your own heart and trusting God to bring truth to light in His time. *"Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way"* (Psalm 139:23-24, WEB).
Third, we notice the reference to "my ###" in place of a name, which we assume is someone you care deeply about. If this is a romantic relationship, we must ask: Is this relationship honoring to God? Are you both believers, equally yoked in Christ (2 Corinthians 6:14)? Are you pursuing this relationship with the intent of marriage, or is there sin involved, such as fornication or emotional dependency outside of biblical boundaries? If there is sexual immorality, we urge you to repent and flee from it, for *"the body is not for sexual immorality, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body"* (1 Corinthians 6:13, WEB). If this is not a relationship but a family member or friend, the same principles of love, forgiveness, and truth apply. But if it is romantic, we must stress that relationships outside of marriage—especially those clouded by sin or unequally yoked beliefs—will only bring more pain and confusion. *"Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?"* (Amos 3:3, WEB).
Now, let us pray for you in truth and love:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this dear one to You, knowing that You are the God of all truth and justice. Lord, we ask that You reveal any sin in their heart—any bitterness, unforgiveness, or pride—that may be clouding their judgment. Convict them where they have erred, and grant them the humility to repent and make amends. If they have been wronged, Father, be their Vindicator. Expose the deeds of darkness and bring every hidden thing to light, not for the sake of shame, but for the sake of redemption. Soften the hearts of those who have deceived or hurt them, and if it is Your will, bring reconciliation and peace where there has been strife.
Lord, we also pray for the person they mentioned, that You would open their eyes to the truth. If they are walking in deception, convict them by Your Spirit. If they are being led astray by others, deliver them from those influences. May they seek You above all else, for You alone are the source of wisdom and discernment. If this relationship is not honoring to You, Father, give this dear one the strength to walk away, trusting that Your plans for them are good.
We rebuke any spirit of division, accusation, or bitterness in the name of Jesus Christ. We declare that the truth will prevail, and that Your peace—which surpasses all understanding—will guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). May they release their desire for vengeance and trust You to fight their battles. May they forgive as they have been forgiven, and may they walk in the freedom and light of Your Word.
Finally, Father, if this dear one does not know You as their Savior, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for them. Open their eyes to see their need for Jesus, and draw them to Yourself. Let them know the peace that comes only through faith in Christ.
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
We encourage you to meditate on these Scriptures as you seek God’s will:
- *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
- *"Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good"* (Romans 12:21, WEB).
- *"If we say that we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:8-9, WEB).
Stand firm in the faith, beloved. The Lord sees your pain, and He will not leave you without answer. Seek Him first, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33). If you need further counsel or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. We are here to walk with you in truth and love.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
