We understand the deep pain and frustration you’re carrying, and we want to lift you up in truth and love before the Lord. The hurt you’ve experienced at the hands of others is real, and it’s right to bring it before God, who sees all things and is just. However, we must gently address a few things in your request to ensure we are aligning fully with Scripture, as our hearts and prayers must first and foremost honor Him.
First, we notice you did not invoke the name of Jesus in your prayer. This is not a small matter, for Scripture is clear: *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). Without calling on His name, our prayers lack the authority and power given to us as believers. We also see you prayed using hashtags, which is not how we are to approach the throne of God. Prayer is sacred communication with our Heavenly Father, not a social media post. Let us always come before Him with reverence, humility, and the acknowledgment that our access to Him is solely through Christ.
Now, let’s address the pain in your heart. You’ve reached out in love, only to be ignored and mistreated. This is a heavy burden, and it’s understandable that you feel wounded. Scripture tells us, *"Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good"* (Romans 12:21, WEB). While it’s natural to want justice or for others to "act right," we must release the desire for vengeance or retaliation, for the Lord says, *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil!’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22, WEB). When you say, *"I return it back to them because it is wrong,"* we must caution you—this is not the way of Christ. He calls us to forgive, even as He forgave us (Colossians 3:13). Forgiveness doesn’t mean what they did was okay; it means you trust God to handle the justice while you release the bitterness. Holding onto anger only harms *you*, but forgiveness sets *you* free.
You also mentioned rebuking a demon influencing these individuals. While it’s true that spiritual forces can work in the lives of unbelievers or those in rebellion, we must be careful not to attribute every human failing to demonic activity. People are responsible for their own sinful choices (James 1:14-15), and our primary focus should be on praying for their repentance and salvation, not just rebuking spirits. Jesus told us to *"love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB). This is a high calling, but it’s the path to peace in your heart and possibly even reconciliation—though that is ultimately in God’s hands.
As for your family members, we pray they would indeed *"wake up and respect the truth."* But remember, you cannot force anyone to change or see the light—that is the work of the Holy Spirit. Your role is to live righteously, speak the truth in love, and trust God with the outcome. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB). Sometimes, that peace comes through setting boundaries or even walking away for a season, but it should always be done with a heart that seeks God’s glory, not just personal vindication.
You’ve also expressed a desire to *"find your people and church home."* This is a beautiful prayer, and we wholeheartedly join you in it! The body of Christ is meant to be a place of belonging, encouragement, and spiritual growth. We pray the Lord leads you to a biblically sound church where the Word is preached without compromise, where you can serve and be served, and where you can grow in your faith alongside fellow believers. *"Let’s consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not abandoning our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching"* (Hebrews 10:24-25, WEB).
Finally, your concerns for your country—praying against starvation and exhausting labor—are valid and heavy. We join you in lifting these needs to the Lord, who is our Provider. *"Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:31-33, WEB). Trust that He sees the struggles of His people and will provide. Our ultimate hope is not in earthly comfort but in His eternal kingdom, where there will be no more hunger, pain, or sorrow (Revelation 21:4).
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Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You that You are a God who sees, who hears, and who cares deeply for Your children. Lord, we lift up our sister who is carrying such heavy burdens—betrayal, rejection, and deep hurt from those who should have loved her well. Father, we ask that You would heal her heart and bind up her wounds. Remind her that her worth is found in You alone, not in how others treat her.
Lord, we confess that there has been anger and a desire for justice in her heart. We ask that You would replace that with Your peace and a supernatural ability to forgive, just as You have forgiven us. Help her to release these individuals into Your hands, trusting that You will deal with them in Your perfect timing and way. Softens their hearts, Lord. If they are believers, convict them of their sin and lead them to repentance. If they do not know You, open their eyes to their need for a Savior. Break the chains of deception, selfishness, and manipulation in their lives, and draw them to Yourself.
Father, we pray for protection over our sister—spiritually, emotionally, and physically. Guard her mind from bitterness and her heart from hardness. Surround her with Your presence and lead her to a community of believers who will love her, encourage her, and walk with her in faith. Give her wisdom to know when to speak, when to set boundaries, and when to walk away. May she find her identity and security in You alone.
We also lift up her nation to You, Lord. You are Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides. Meet the needs of Your people, both spiritually and physically. Raise up godly leaders who will seek Your wisdom and justice. Protect Your children from harm and provide for them in ways that bring You glory.
Finally, Father, we thank You for the gift of Your Son, Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we can come boldly to Your throne. We ask that You would fill our sister with Your Holy Spirit, giving her strength, hope, and a deep assurance of Your love. Help her to trust You in all things, knowing that You work all things together for the good of those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28).
We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
